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My parents didn't put up with nearly as much shit from Sean as they did from us. Sean had to go through the first-time-parent shit. When Sean was seventeen, he wasn't allowed to ride in the car with other high school kids, because it “was dangerous.” Things loosened up so much for me that by the time I was seventeen, I was paying twelve-year-olds to chauffeur me around! Hell—by the time Mike was seventeen, he got arrested for throwing a giant party on the roof of our middle school, a story that would appear on the local news. No wonder Sean lives in Vegas now; he's making up for lost time. Now is also a good opportunity to mention that Sean is only six feet tall, while we rose to the handsome height of six four (though Mike claims to be six five).

Then there's Kristen. She's the only girl and is 100 percent our old man's favorite. She always has been. Kristen is like the Vlad Putin of Stangle offspring sibling popularity. She runs unopposed, every term. She is also an absolute character. We've never met anyone more comfortable, aware, and honest about who she is. Kristen does exactly what she feels like doing all the time. If she wants something, she buys it. If she wants to go somewhere, she goes there. If she doesn't want to be somewhere, she leaves. She is incredibly unfiltered. She's a tough cookie too; she had to be, after growing up surrounded by three brothers. That poor girl couldn't bring a prospective guy near the house without us turning into a bunch of junkyard Rottweilers. Her first boyfriend was this turd named Jay. He worked at a Pokémon/Magic: The Gathering trading card store in the mall. The kid had a chin-strap beard at eighteen years old. Jay also went to our rival high school: South Colonie, the Garnet Raiders! We Stangle boys could read the writing on the wall that Jay was bad news. With an effort spearheaded by JT himself, we brothers tried to shake Kristen's young love for this dirtbag. We tried everything! When Kris and Jay would sneak off to start frenching somewhere, Sean and I would send Mike in there, ten years old and armed with a spatula, to break up the lip wrestling. But no matter how many times we tried, we learned that Kristen cannot be deterred. If she wants it—she gets it.

Now you're starting to get the complete Stangle family picture. JT and Denny, Sean and Kris, then the shithead duo of Mike and myself. The first time we described ourselves to the public, we didn't know it would be public at all. We were just fucking around. It provided a fun, creative outlet to break up the day. Had we known one of our Craigslist posts would go viral and be read by so many people, we might have put a little more thought into it.

Who Is Dave Stangle?

Dave and Frank, both seemingly unimpressed.

(Mike)

Meet my big brother Dave: Division One athlete, business professional, grade-A scumbag. Dave is my mother's favorite. Why? Good fucking question. We're talking about the guy who out of sheer boredom spent all of this past Christmas Eve trying to convince my father of his made-up-on-the-spot homosexuality. The guy who dressed up like a stray dog for Halloween only so he could bark and growl loudly at women and piss, dick out and leg up, on every fire hydrant he passed in Manhattan. The guy who insists on pulling his pants (and underpants) all the way down every time he pees in a public urinal—affectionately referring to this as “the preschool pee-pee.” I realize I sound bitter here, but it's just unbridled jealousy. My big brother is an inspiration: perverse lunatic meets brilliant, charismatic piece of shit. He is creative, ballsy, and has no absolutely positively
no
conscience whatsoever. It's a lethal combination.

People who don't know him typically assume he makes up most of his stories, but I've been an eyewitness to more than I'd care to admit, and in most cases he's actually toning it down. Dave has been punched in the dick by a midget! He was once roundhouse kicked in the face by a female all-American kung fu master (he would kill me if I didn't make sure to mention that he ended up winning that fight “unanimously,” even though it took place on our front lawn). I might hate him 51 percent of the time and love him the other 49 percent, but I'd be lying if I didn't admit he's the perfect guy to have in your corner 100 percent of the time, even if he has the most fucked-up priorities of all time. In a pinch and need a condom? Don't go to Dave in a million years. Need an iPhone 5 charger? He's got six in his top drawer, where the condoms should be.

I am not a writer and I don't pretend to be, but I'm not even sure Dave can put together a grammatically sound sentence. Seriously, the hardest part of writing this whole thing has been correcting his use of “there,” “their,” and “they're.” Dave, how do you even survive professionally? At the end of the day, my brother and I have a lot in common, but I think what makes us most similar is that we've both always believed that to survive as modern-day young gentlemen, we need to have as much fun as possible while giving as few fucks about as few things as possible. We want the last check we write to bounce. I'm lucky to have Dave, this big ol' mess, as my older brother, making all the mistakes I never had to make, treading through all the mud while my shoes stayed white.

Okay, Dave, me now me now.

Wait, Who Is Mike Stangle?

Here we see Mike, stoned.

(Dave)

Mike Stangle isn't just a complete accident that resulted from a road trip our folks took back in 1987. Back then, my mom and dad drove counterclockwise around the outer border of the United States in my dad's gray panel van (one of
several
full-size vans my dad has owned in his lifetime). It didn't have any chairs or benches in the back, you know, 'cause it was a fucking panel van. Our old man just heaved a mattress back there so he and my mom could save on hotel costs. What a classic move! I honestly don't know how you
don't
get a chick pregnant with that plan, but as far as I could tell, no one knew what the hell was going on in the eighties, anyway. Thousands of miles and several dozen boxes of wine later, Mike was conceived. Ew!

Since then, Mike has been sucking up one-quarter of my parents' attention that otherwise would have been nicely allocated three ways between my brother, sister, and me.
I
was supposed to be the baby, the family caboose! Instead, I spent my childhood in the middle with my sister. In the meantime, Mike got away with all the shit I got in trouble for. My parents were so worried about the things my buddies and I were up to that they forgot to worry about Mike. The youngest always grows up fast. I'm pretty sure he knew how to put on a rubber before I did. Mike has been a grade-A sexual deviant from a very young age, he figured things out quicker than most kids. The first time I ever put a condom on, I thought that it was supposed to go around my balls, too. Turns out that is basically impossible. The condoms just kept snapping as I stretched them around my entire dick and balls, then they would go flying off like popped balloons, twirling around the room and making the dog bark.

Mike is
constantly
approached by gay men looking for a good time, despite his (allegedly) unwavering love for females. The top-line fact is that Mike has lived his youth in a way that, upon reflection, splits grown men into two camps. In the first camp are the men who see Mike and regret their own comparatively tame youth. But if they're lucky, they're in the second camp—those who look at Mike and are reminded immediately of just how much they truly nailed it. Mike is so many things: unemployed nomad, string cheese enthusiast, scooter rider, silly heart, currently sweating in a men's room john. I could go on and on. At this point, I'm just riding his coattails; there is no possible way I can keep up. I may be one sick pup, but Mike is a different breed altogether. Have you ever woken up on an Indian reservation? In Canada? Mike has. Try to figure that one out. We're talking about a guy who once accidently drank his own semen. Fact. He's the guy who got so drunk before we went on
Anderson Cooper
(films at 11 a.m. on a Tuesday, mind you) that he couldn't remember what state Orlando was in. He has a knack for three things: Overeating, armpit sweat, and finding adventure everywhere he sets foot. Yes, two of those are serious flaws that keep him from romantic success. But he's not all dick jokes and frat stories; never mind that he was never even in a frat and that he has a terrible dick (both true).

We aren't womanizers. We aren't frat boys. We aren't even that weird or fucked-up. We just say yes a lot. Strange things happen when you let your guard down. You've got to be successful to write a how-to, and you've got to be helpful to write a self-help book—we're neither of these things. But we do know what it feels like to let our freak flags fly. So, if you have a son, give this to him when he graduates from college; he'll relate. If you have a daughter, what's up with her? Is she around?

A Media Tour Done Right
Lauer, Coops, and the Gang

(Dave)

We'd been putting stupid shit on Craigslist for years. If you live in New York, you use Craigslist to get shit done or to rent a shitty apartment because you're always poor. We used Craigslist to fuck around. That Craigslist wedding ad that somehow went viral? I wrote that on the notes section of my iPhone while taking a number two in the men's room at work. It took approximately one poop to write. I pasted it into an email to Mike, he added all the parts I couldn't (I had to wipe) and corrected my absolutely horrible grammar, then
boom
—up on the Net. It was up for about a week, and the results were pretty stagnant. We sent it around to our buddies for some cheap laughs, then figured we could get some really entertaining responses—You know, the types of responses you expect from the
totally normal crowd
cruising Craigslist on a regular basis. It took one tweet from a friend with a sizeable Twitter following (hey Starky!) and we were off! But it snowballed like a motherfucker. It went from Reddit to Buzzfeed to Gawker to
New York
magazine to the
Huffington Post
! It was everywhere, and it was awesome:

Two Fellas Need Wedding Dates

From our Craigslist Ad. Everything in this picture makes so much sense.

My brother and I are looking for wedding dates for our cousin's wedding in majestic Saratoga, New York on March 23rd, 2013.

We've been told by the bride that bringing dates is “mandatory” so we “won't harass all of my friends all night” and “stay under control.” Rather than ask some fringe women in our lives to go and face the inevitable “does this mean he wants to take it to the next level!?” questions, we'd rather bring complete strangers and just figure it out. Still reading? In anticipation of your questions we've developed an FAQ section below.

Dave, Mike . . . What's in it for me?

⋅ An excuse to get dressed up

⋅ Open bar & food all night

⋅ Eccentric/downright dangerous bro-2-bro dance moves (may need to sign a waiver)

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