Beckham (12 page)

The ball was in the air for what seemed like ages, sailing towards the goal, before it dropped over Sullivan and into the net. The next moment, Brian McClair was jumping all over me. He'd been standing there, almost beside me, and along with everybody else in the ground had just watched the ball drift downfield.

Back in the dressing room after the game, someone told me what the manager had growled when I shot:

‘What does he think he's trying now?'

Eric Cantona came up to me while I was getting changed and shook my hand:

‘What a goal,' he said.

Believe me, that felt even better than scoring it. Someone from
Match Of the Day
wanted to speak to me but the boss said he didn't want me talking to anyone. So I went straight out to get on the team bus. Because the game was in London, Mum, Dad and Joanne were waiting for me. I've got a photo of the goal at home, of the ball just hanging against the clear, blue sky, and I can actually see my mum and dad in the crowd. I got to the steps of the bus and Dad hugged me:

‘I can't believe you've just done that!'

That evening, I talked on the phone to Helen, who was at college down in Bristol:

‘Did you score a goal today? Everybody here's talking about it, saying you've scored this great goal.'

People were coming up to me in the street all weekend and saying the same thing. I couldn't have known it then, but that moment was the start of it all: the attention, the press coverage, the fame, that whole
side of what's happened to me since. It changed forever that afternoon in South London, with one swing of a new boot. The thrill I get playing soccer, my love of the game: those things will always be there. But there's hardly anything else—for better or worse—that has been the same since. When my foot struck that ball, it kicked open the door to the rest of my life at the same time. In the game, it eventually dropped down out of the air and into the net. In the life of David Beckham, it feels like the ball is still up there. And I'm still watching it swerve and dip through a perfect, clear afternoon sky: watching and waiting to see where it's going to come down to land.

My wife picked me out of a soccer sticker book. And I chose her off the telly.

Considering I grew up in Chingford and Victoria lived in Goff's Oak—fifteen minutes' drive away—it seems we traveled a very long way round before finding one another. We'd been to the same shops, eaten in the same restaurants, danced in the same clubs but never actually come face to face during twenty-odd North-east London years. Once we finally met, we had all that catching up to do. It felt straight away like we'd always been meant to be together. Maybe everything that had gone before was just about us getting ready for the real thing to happen.

It's November 1996. I'm sitting in a hotel bedroom in Tbilisi, the night before a World Cup qualifier against Georgia. Gary Neville, my room-mate, is lying on the other bed in the room. Aside from the matches themselves, overseas trips, whether it's with my club or with England, aren't my favorite part of being a professional player. What do you see? What do you do? Eat, sleep and train; sit in rooms that all look the same as the last one. That particular hotel in Georgia, the only one up to international standards after the break-up of the old Soviet Union, was built in a square, with balconies piled up on each side overlooking an open area containing the lobby, bars and restaurant. All
the bedroom doors faced across at each other, there was steel and glass everywhere. This place felt even more like a prison than most. Looking out of the window, I could see a half-built dual carriageway and a grey river oozing along beside it. It wasn't the kind of view that made you think about going out for an evening stroll.

So Gary and I are just chatting. The television's on in the corner, tuned to a music channel. On comes the new Spice Girls' video, ‘Say You'll Be There'. They're dancing in the desert and Posh is wearing this black cat suit and looks like just about the most amazing woman I've ever set eyes on. I'd seen the Spice Girls before—who hadn't—and whenever that blokes' conversation came up about which one do you fancy, I always said:

‘The posh one. The one with the bob. The one with the legs.'

But that evening, in that claustrophobic hotel room, it dawned on me for the first time. Posh Spice was fantastic and I had to find a way to be with her. Where was my Lawrence of Arabia outfit? Who was going to lend me a camel?

‘She's so beautiful. I just love everything about that girl, Gaz. You know, I've got to meet her.'

Gary probably thought I was getting a bit stir-crazy. We'd been through quite a lot together but that hadn't included me falling in love with a pop star on the television. That's what was going on: right at that moment, my heart was set on Victoria. I had to be with her. How could I make it happen, though? I was a young guy, with a career as a soccer player that was just starting to go quite well. This beautiful, sexy woman who I was desperate to meet was a Spice Girl. At the time, Victoria and the Girls were everywhere: number one in the pop charts, on the cover of every magazine and on the front page of every newspaper, jetting all over the world. They were the biggest thing on the planet. There were pop stars and pop stars. And then there were the Spice Girls. Here was I, deciding I really needed to go out with one of them.

What was I supposed to do? Write to her?

‘Dear Posh Spice. You don't know me but I have this very strong feeling that, if we could meet somehow, I think we'd get on really well. I don't know what your schedule's like but you can find me at Old Trafford every other Saturday.'

You hear stories about A-list celebrities who know how to arrange this sort of thing. Not me. I couldn't exactly get My People to speak to Her People. I'm sure I wasn't the only bloke in the world who was carrying a torch for ‘The One With The Bob' at the time. It might have sounded crazy, but I was absolutely certain that meeting Posh Spice was something that simply had to happen, even though I didn't have a clue as to how or where. I got my sister Joanne to dig out a copy of
Smash Hits
so I could at least find out a bit more about Victoria: her surname, for a start.

Just a month or so later, we were down in London to play Chelsea and, before the game, someone in the dressing room said that a couple of the Spice Girls were at Stamford Bridge.

Which ones? Is Posh here? Where are they sitting?
Somehow or other, I kept the excitement to myself. Maybe this was the chance I'd been waiting for. Later, I found out that it was Victoria, along with Melanie Chisholm, who'd come to the game. As I went up to the players' lounge, I was praying she would be there.

I met up with Mum and Dad. Victoria and Melanie were chatting in one corner. Their manager walked over and introduced himself:

‘Hello, David. I'm Simon Fuller. I look after the Spice Girls. I'd like you to meet Victoria.'

I could feel little beads of sweat starting to roll down my forehead. Suddenly it was very hot indeed in that lounge. She came over. I didn't have a speech ready, so all I could manage was:

‘Hello, I'm David.'

Victoria seemed pretty relaxed. I think she and Mel had had a glass of wine or two. In the game I'd scored with a volley, which I hoped might have impressed her, until I found out she hadn't been wearing
her glasses. The truth was Victoria didn't really have a clue what had been going on during the match. She was looking at me and, I guessed, didn't have the faintest idea who I was. Man United? Chelsea? Were you even playing today? Later, someone reminded her that she'd picked my picture out of an album of soccer stickers when the Girls had been doing a photo shoot in team outfits a few days before. Knowing nothing about the game, she'd been the only one who hadn't made up her mind whose uniform to wear. Looking at those pictures had been part of trying to decide which team she was going to pretend to support. Right then, though, that picture wasn't doing me any good at all.

‘I'm Victoria.'

And that was that. I couldn't think what to say next. Simon Fuller rattled on for a bit about the game: I can't say I remember a word of it. She went back into her corner with Melenie. I went back to where my mum and dad were standing. I looked across the room at Victoria. Stared, in fact: I couldn't take my eyes off her. And I could see Victoria was looking back at me.
I should be trying to get her number, at least trying to say something else to her
. But I didn't. She left. I left. That was it; I'd blown my big chance. I got back on the team bus and it was all I could do not to start banging my head against the back of the seat in front in frustration.

During the course of the following week, once I'd got over feeling sorry for myself, I found out a little more about the Girl of my dreams. Despite the missed opportunity, meeting her had only made me more certain about her. I saw the piece in
90 Minutes
magazine featuring the Spice Girls in their soccer uniforms, Victoria in United colors and a caption saying she liked the look of David Beckham. I didn't know how these things worked; that the quote from her might have just been made up. No: made up was what I was. And for the next home game, there she was at Old Trafford.

This time, it had been the full works. Victoria had been wined and dined before the match by Martin Edwards, the United Chairman. She and Melanie had gone out on the field to do the half-time scores. And
now she was in the players' lounge after the game, in the middle of another glass of champagne. I walked in and went over to say hello to Mum and Dad. And, because we'd met before—briefly, nervously—it was easier this time to say hello to Victoria. She looked fantastic in tight combat trousers and a little khaki top, cut quite low; an unbelievable figure. I remember hoping she wouldn't get the wrong idea about me and her cleavage: there was a tiny blemish, like a freckle, at the top of her breastbone that I just couldn't stop staring at.

Deciding what to say next wasn't exactly obvious.
This is it. You're the one
. That was in my head. But you can't really make that sort of declaration to someone you've only ever said three words to, especially with your mum and dad and your team-mates within earshot. Joanne was there and she and Victoria seemed to be doing better on the small talk than I was. My sister, at least, had some idea of how I was feeling. I did the bloke thing and went off to the bar to get a round of drinks. The next moment, Victoria was there beside me. It wasn't like we knew what we wanted to say. How do you start? What's it like being a pop star? What's it like playing soccer for a living? But I think we both knew that we needed to be speaking to each other and once we started talking—at last—neither of us wanted to stop. Next time I was aware of where I was, I was looking around the room and thinking:
Where's everybody gone?

Mum and Dad were still there.
Oh, no. Not a Spice Girl
they were probably muttering to themselves. And one or two other people were just sort of lingering, as if they were waiting to see what was going to happen. I remember Victoria going off to the ladies room and me having this big now-or-never moment with myself. When she came back, I sputtered out an invitation to dinner. I didn't have any sort of plan. I hadn't thought about where we might go. It was just instinctive: I didn't want her to leave. Victoria said she had to go back to London, as the Spice Girls were flying off to America on Monday. But she asked me for my phone number. Without missing a beat, I did the reckoning up.
What? So you can forget you've got it? Or lose it? Or decide not to call?

‘No, Victoria. I'll take your number.'

She scrabbled around in her bag and pulled out her boarding card from the flight up to Manchester that morning. She wrote down her cell phone number, then scratched that out and gave me her number at home at her parents' instead. I still have that precious little slip of card. It was like treasure and I was never likely to lose it. But as soon as I got home, I wrote the number down on about half a dozen other bits of paper and left them in different rooms, just in case.

It usually takes me ages to get off to sleep the night after a game: the adrenaline's still pumping five or six hours later. That particular night, I was buzzing with having met Victoria properly too. I must have slept because I remember waking up late. At about eleven, I picked up The Number and dialed. The voice at the other end sounded just like her but, because I couldn't be sure, I decided to be polite as I could:

‘Is Victoria there?'

Just as well I hadn't ploughed straight in. It was her sister, Louise.

‘No. She's at the gym. Who is this? I'll get her to give you a call.'

Everybody's been a teenager. A teenager in love. And I'm sure there are plenty of people, like me, who were still getting a bit melodramatic about it all well into their twenties.
She's out at the gym? Well, that's it then: that's the brush off, isn't it? Getting her sister to answer the phone and say she's out.
I didn't actually go and lie down and beat the floor with my fists, but that's what it felt like. I knew Victoria and me had to happen. But maybe she didn't and now it wasn't going to. I just sat on the bed, staring at the phone. Half an hour? An hour? It felt like a week. And then the thing rang.

‘David? It's Victoria.'

We picked up where we'd left off at Old Trafford the evening before. I got the feeling we were both talking away, trying to find the nerve to actually say what we meant. I'd already asked once, in Manchester, and eventually I got round to asking again:

‘What are you doing later?'

‘Nothing.'

‘I'm in Manchester but I'll drive down. We could go out.'

Five hours later I was at the car wash in Chingford. First things first: the car had to look its best. I wasn't to know whether Victoria would be impressed with the new one, a blue BMW M3 convertible, but I wasn't taking any chances. I scrubbed it, hoovered it and by the time I got to my mum's I was looking in worse shape than the car had after the drive down. Mum knew I'd got Victoria's number at Old Trafford and I think she knew what was going on when I turned up on the doorstep. She wasn't too sure about the whole Spice Girls thing at all but she knew me better than to try talking me out of it: I'm as soft as she is but, when I get my heart set on something, I'm as stubborn as my dad.

‘All right, David. It's up to you.'

She knew perfectly well she'd have no chance of changing my mind. On went clean clothes: a white t-shirt, a beige jacket, Timberlands and a pair of Versace jeans. It was like putting on my costume for the most important show ever. I rang the co-star and we arranged to meet—very swish setting—at a bus stop outside the Castle, a pub we both knew in Woodford. We worked out later that we'd been in that pub at exactly the same time as each other in the past but without realizing it.

She pulled up in her car, a purple-colored MG, and I went over. I climbed in the passenger seat. I was so nervous.
What should I do? Kiss her on the cheek? Shake hands?
With a little wobble in my voice, I mumbled:

‘All right?'

I'd sorted out my car. I'd sorted out my wardrobe. I can't say I'd sorted out a plan for the evening.

‘Where do you want to go?' Victoria smiled.

‘Um. Where would you like to go?'

We pulled out into the road, neither of us having a clue where we were heading but both of us sure we wanted to go there together. I
knew her manager, Simon, was really nervous about the Girls and their boys. Anything that was going on in Spiceworld was all over the papers almost before it had happened in those days. I didn't want to be sharing her company with anybody anyway, to be honest. So we drove around looking for somewhere that would be private enough.

The other reason for wanting to be out of the way was that she had a boyfriend, Stuart, who she was still seeing. He was off skiing in France with her dad at the time. Victoria was straight with me about it from the start; like me, she tries to be completely honest with people. We'd only just met. She didn't want us to mess up each other's lives, or anyone else's for that matter. There was just one difficult moment and that was that night: Stuart called Victoria on her cell phone while we were driving around together. I was single, of course, but I told Victoria all about the important girlfriends in my past: Deana, who I'd been with for three years when I first moved up to Manchester and who had been so important to me as a teenager away from home for the first time; and Helen, who I'd been seeing for eighteen months more recently and who'd stepped away when people started fussing about this young lad from London making a name for himself at United.