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wives for two or three years, is plausibly read as an index of ambivalence and opposition to this practice:
Rava said that our Rabbis have relied upon Rav Ada the son of Ahva and indeed practice in accordance with his view. As in the case of Rav Rehume who was a disciple of Rava's in Mahoza. He would regularly visit his wife every year on the Eve of Yom Kippur. One day, his studies absorbed him. His wife was waiting for him, "Now he will come. Now he will come." He did not come. She became upset, and a tear fell from her eye. He was sitting on the roof. The roof collapsed under him and he died.
As I have said, on the overt level of the structure of the Talmud's argument, this text is cited as a support for Rava's contention that the Rabbis depend legitimately on Rav Ada's tradition and practice accordingly. However, it does not take a very suspicious hermeneut to read it against the grain. The story, in fact, encodes a very sharp critique of the practice of married Rabbis being away from home for extended periods. First of all, let us note that it is clear from this story that the Rabbi did not study at any great distance from his home, for had he done so, one day of slightly extended study would not have made such a difference and prevented him from getting home for Yom Kippur. This consideration only enhances the irony to which Yonah Fränkel has pointed in the phrase "would
regularly
visit his wife on the Eve of Yom Kippur" (Fränkel 1981, 101). Further, the fact that he is portrayed as being so unmindful that he even forgets the one time of the year that he goes to visit his wife can only be read as an extremely critical and ironic representation of this Rabbi's behavior. It is possible that the name of the protagonist also is ironically emblematic of his character, for his name,
Rehume,
means "lover" or ''merciful one,'' and he demonstrates that he is neither. Another possible, and indeed very attractive, interpretation is that Rav Rehume is indeed a lover, a lover of Torah.
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That is, we would have here actuated once again a version of the topos that we saw above with regard
(footnote continued from the previous page)
for more than a month, a fortiori, without permission
. However, it is possible to understand that statement differently, to wit: that thirty days away from home can be described as normal practice, or even that the discussion focuses really on what happens after the return home of the one who goes away for thirty days without permission, in which case Rav and Rabbi Yohanan are merely questioning how long he must stay home before leaving again. The argument is not definitive.
24. The name itself is otherwise attested in the Talmud approximately eight times. My suggestion is that choosing precisely this figure as the hero of this story is not accidental.
 
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to Ben-Azzai of the life of a Torah-student as erotic abandonment to Torah, such that the wife becomes a rival to the beloved Torah. The Rabbis certainly figured their attachment to Torah as erotic, referring to the Torah as being "like the narrow sex of the gazelle, for whose husband every time is like the first time" (Babylonian Talmud Eruvin 54b), so also for those who study Torah, every time is like the first time.
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Reversing the Hellenistic topos of the wife and the seductions of this world as a danger to the philosopher, we have here the seductions of Torah as a threat to fulfillment of the Torah-sage's responsibilities to the world, especially with regard to his sexual debt to his wife. This reading renders the story less a moral condemnation of the Rabbi himself and more a cautionary tale in general to beware being overly inundated in the erotic pleasures of Torah-study.
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In either case, the empathetic depiction of the eagerly waiting wife is calculated by the narrator to lead the reader/hearer of this story to a position of identification with her, a moral judgment that is confirmed on the explicit level when the Rabbi is punished by death. To be sure, there is nothing in the overt narrative that condemns the practice of being away from home per se. The implication is that had he fulfilled at least his habit of visiting once a year, there would have been no stain on his behavior. Nevertheless, I would claim that the way that the entire story is presented provides rather a strong condemnation of the practice at the same time that it is overtly supporting it. We will find this strain between overt support and covert contestation in other texts as well.
The Talmud continues its halakhic discourse with another statement that seems to strongly contest Rava's claim that it is legitimate for the Torah-scholars to be away from home for extended periods:
What is the "season" of the Disciples of the Wise? Rav Yehuda said that Shmuel said, from the Eve of Sabbath till the Eve of Sabbath [i.e., the Torah-scholar should at the least come home and sleep with his wife every Friday night].
The one who gives his fruit in its time
[Psalms 1:4]; Said Rav Yehudaand there are those who say Rav Huna, and those who say Rav Nahmanthis refers to one who sleeps with his wife every Eve of the Sabbath.
25. And note that the word for the sex or vagina of the gazelle is from the same root as the name Rehume, the lover!
26. In Boyarin 1992, I consider more unambivalently positive connotations of the religious life as erotic. As this book was going to press, Michael White informed me of Greek texts in which courtesans complain of philosophers who seduce their lovers away from them. Our stories may very well be formed, once more, as parodic appropriations of these narratives.
 
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