How To Give A Blow Job - Oral Sex He'll Never Forget (2 page)

You can run your hands over his
chest and shoulders, but don't let them stray below his waist!

If he still needs a little help
getting hard once you've gotten his pants off (though he probably won't),
stimulate him with your mouth. Let your hot breath tease him, and gently lick
the tip of his member like an ice cream cone, and he'll be standing at
attention in no time.

You know the best ways to give your
man an
erection,
these are just some of my personal
favorites
. Blend them into your lovemaking to spice things
up, or use your own methods to get him ready. However you do it, make sure he's
nice and hard before you blow his mind.

So you've got your man all ready,
right? There's just one more thing you have to do before we start.

Your attitude is the most important
part about oral sex, and lucky for you it's also the easiest thing for you to
control.

Your clear enjoyment of and
enthusiasm for getting down is what's going to make this blowjob special for
your man. So turn on your natural "naughty girl" mode and let your
lust flow!

You're going to be armed with tons
of hot and sexy new tips and a sizzling new attitude, so get excited to get on
your knees!

There are tons of positions that
are perfect for giving blowjobs and you should experiment to see what works
best with you. I'll run through some hot ones that work great for me.

There's always the classic:

It's sexy, spicy, and your man will
absolutely love seeing you on your knees in front of him.

A variation of this position would
be having him sit down with you remaining in the same position.

I think this is more intimate
because it makes it easier for you to touch each other. Having your partner lay
down on the bed with you on your hands and knees above him is also a great
option. Of course, there's also 69-ing, but we'll get into that a little later.

Some tips to getting ready:

Make sure you're comfortable in
your chosen position.

If you have long hair, I'd tie it
back so that it doesn't get in your way or block your partner's view of the
action.

Take a drink of water if you need
one, and lick your lips to get them nice and moist as well.

Now, it's time to get down to
"business".

Don't just swallow him whole – make
sure to take this nice and slowly.

Step 1:
Hold his cock at the base with one hand to steady it, and
also use this hand to gently pull his foreskin back if he has one.

Step 2:
Open your mouth and lick the underside of his cock slowly
from the top to where your hand is, or swirl it around the head of his cock.
Explore him thoroughly with your tongue before you even take him into your
mouth.

Step 3:
Now open your mouth, making sure your jaw is nice and
loose. You don't want to get a cramp during this!

Step 4:
If you can, try to cover up your bottom teeth by spreading
out your tongue slightly. If you can't do this, don't worry about it, but make
sure to keep him well away from your teeth.

Step 5:
Round your mouth slightly, making sure your lips are nice
and wet and hold him against your lips. Tighten your lips a little as you
slowly take him into your mouth, mimicking the tightness he would feel as he
entered you somewhere a little lower.

Step 6:
Slide your way as far down as you feel comfortable, taking
as much of him into your mouth as you can.

Pause a moment here, and let
yourself adjust to the feeling of him in your mouth. Notice the warmth and the
hardness of his cock, the smoothness of his skin...

Let yourself enjoy what you're doing.

Giving oral pleasure to a man can
be almost as much fun for you as it is for him. Take a deep breath, and
remember to keep breathing the entire time. Most importantly, have fun with it!

Step 7:
Begin to slide slowly your mouth slowly back and forth on
his penis.
taking
as much of him as you can before
pulling your mouth back to his head.

Remember to keep your mouth rounded
and tightened around him. When you have vaginal sex with your partner, the
tightness of your body around his penis causes extraordinary pleasure.

Recreating this tightness with your
mouth is an easy way to take your blowjob to the next level instantly.

If you're still confused about how
to create it, put two of your fingers in your mouth (wash your hands first!).
Notice the difference in feeling when your lips are slack compared to when you
squeeze them slightly around your fingers. Now try sucking in slightly with
your lips tight around your fingers. There you go!

Step 8:
After teasing your partner with your slow movements for a
little while, you can start to pick up the pace. Begin moving your head faster,
keeping this idea of tightness in mind.

As you grow more confident, you can
use the sucking motion you tried on your fingers to help pull his cock deeper
into your mouth as you move forward and make the sensation more intense for him
at the same time.

It's all about pace –
start
out slowly and build up your pace. Don't be shy about
any slurping sounds that may sneak out as you start to move faster. He'll love
them.

That's it.

These eight steps are, in a
nutshell, what you need to know to give a blowjob.
Easy,
right?

But wait, I'm forgetting something,
aren't I? There's one more thing in your mouth with your partner's member, and
it makes the difference between an OK blowjob and a mind-blowing one.

I'll give you a hint, it's the
strongest muscle (compared to its size) in your entire body.

There aren't really any rules here
girls, just try different things and see what works for your partner. Swirl
your tongue around his head before you begin to take him back into your mouth
again. Curl it against his shaft when he's already deep in your mouth. Take a
break if your jaw starts to hurt and just use your tongue.

You know that little band of skin
on the underside of the head of his penis? It's called the frenulum. This
funnily-named little piece of skin is extremely sensitive. Try flicking it
gently with your tongue and see how he reacts!

Did you ever imagine that giving
great head could be this easy? Once it's all laid out it's so simple!

We've gone through everything that
you should be doing with your mouth during a great blowjob. Using your lips to
create tightness, your mouth to create suction, and your tongue for added
sensation you'll have your lover's knees shaking in no time.

Before you run off to the bedroom
for some mouth-on experience, I need to tell you something important.

During a great blowjob your mouth should only be doing half the work!

Confused? Don't be. Remember that
your hand was wrapped around the base of your partner's shaft? Well it's time
to get hands-on, girls.

It's called "giving head"
but that doesn't mean you shouldn't use your hands! Here's how.

Step 1:
Make sure that if you're going to use your hands a lot (and
you should!) that you get your man's dick nice and wet. This shouldn't be a
problem, but we wouldn't want to create unnecessary friction.
The slipperier, the better.

Basically, you should be using your
hands as an extension of your mouth. I'm specifically talking about your
"stabilizer" hand right now.

Step 2:
When you're pulling your mouth off of your guy's member,
allow your hand to follow you, stroking towards the tip. Keep your fingers
wrapped snugly around him to create that ever-important feeling of tightness.

Step 3:
When you move your mouth forward to swallow him again,
stroke back towards the base of his penis.

Get it? It's like a hand job, but
just on the portion of his penis that isn't always in your mouth.
Simple, right?

Don't think that your other hand is
off the hook though! This is your chance to engage some of your partner's other
pleasure spots in the action.

Stroke, massage and gently squeeze
his inner thighs. The inner thighs have a lot of nerve endings and are super
sensitive, especially now.

Run your hand up his body to caress
his abs and hips. Don't be shy, reach around him and give his butt a nice, firm
squeeze! A super-sexy move that I love is to reach around, grab his butt and
use it to pull his cock even further into my mouth.

Another great way to occupy your
hands is to gently
play with his "family
jewels."
That's right ladies, lots (and I mean lots) of guys love to
have their balls stroked, squeezed, and massaged.

The key here is the word
"gentle." Testicles are very delicate things. In fact, some men don't
like to have them touched at all. The easiest way to find out how your man feels
about ball play is to ask him. Give him a
smoldering
glance while you're on your knees in front of him and murmur sexily, "Can
I play with your balls?"

Once you've gotten the go-ahead,
here's how to handle his most delicate part:

Cup his sack delicately in your
hand and squeeze very lightly. Run your fingers delicately over the soft skin
down there. Just be sure that, however you decide to handle them, you keep your
ministrations very delicate. You've seen a guy get kicked down there, right?
Not pretty, so take care.

You can also use your mouth on to
lick, tease, and suck his balls and make him weaker at the knees than that
kick! Here's how.

Step 1:
Remove your mouth from his penis, making sure to him
stimulated with your hand.

Step 2:
Stick out your tongue and gently lick his sack. Try
different ways of moving your tongue; see what makes him moan!

Step 3:
When he's thoroughly turned on, open your mouth and very
gently suck one of his balls into your mouth, rolling it around slightly with
your tongue.
Repeat with the other.

Make sure your guy is into
ball-play before you make one of these bold moves, but if he is they'll pay off
big-time!

Wanna
kick the heat up a notch? Make sure you use this one in a position where your
partner has a clear view of you. Be brave and turn the lights on, ladies!

If you want to drive him crazy, you
can use your other hand to touch yourself.

I know, I know, a blowjob is
supposed to be all about
his
enjoyment, right? I don't think so!

Your man will be even more turned
on knowing how much you're enjoying yourself. So pinch and tug on your nipples,
or let your hand sneak between your legs. Moan with him deep in your mouth –
the vibrations will drive him crazy!

Simple, right?
Using these techniques for your hands and mouth together will drive your man
insane,
guaranteed
.

So start practicing!

Actually, there's one more thing
that we should cover before you run off to the bedroom, because you're going to
encounter it very, very soon.

That's right, I'm talking about his
moment of glory; his big O.

A perfect finish is the best way to
end a great blowjob, and it will leave him starry-eyed and wanting more. A
little extra attention paid here will make this moment even more intense for
your guy, so it's worth it to get creative!

A great way to make sure you don't
get caught unawares at the big moment is to simply ask your guy to let you know
when he's going to finish.

Believe me, he knows.

Have him say it aloud, or work out
some sort of signal. He could tap your shoulder or say a special
word...whatever you want. But make sure he knows to tell you, so you can be
prepared.

When he starts to come, do not stop! This is important!

Continuing to stimulate him while
he orgasms with make it even more intense, but if you stop suddenly it could
"kill" his orgasm.

The most conventional finish (for
good reason) would be to let your man ejaculate in your mouth. Finishing in
your warm, wet mouth is similar to finishing you-know-where, so it's obvious why
he would enjoy it.

You're faced with a dilemma at that
point.
The classic question.
Spit or swallow?

This is your choice, obviously, but
I'm going to tell you why you should swallow. Some men feel somewhat rejected
if you rush off to spit out their semen after a blowjob.

How would you feel if he ran out of
bed to use some mouthwash after he went down on you? So get real – it's already
in your mouth.

You'll still be able to taste it
just as much if you spit it out as if you swallow it, so why not just swallow?
It's easier, sexier, and you run no risk of making your partner feel unwanted.

If your lover's semen has a
particularly strong taste, try encouraging him to drink more water. If a man is
drinking plenty of water and has a relatively healthy diet, his semen shouldn't
taste strong or offensive.

I strongly encourage you to give
swallowing a try at least once, but if you really can't face it there are lots
of sexy other ways to finish him off.

For any fluid-shy ladies out there,
you can also finish your man using only your hand.

Step 1:
When you remove your mouth, begin stroking him, trying to
maintain the pace that you were using with your mouth.

Make sure you've left his penis
nice and wet with your oral attentions so you don't tug at his sensitive skin.
Things will get even slipperier with his semen, so don't worry too much about
it.