get colder anyw ay because the w et’s up against you, wrapped
around you and it don’t breathe, it stays heavy, intractable, on
you; and so rain is very hard and when it rains you get sad in a
frightened w ay and you feel a loneliness and a desolation that is
very big. This is always so once you been out there long
enough. I f yo u ’re inside it don’t matter— you still get cold and
lonely; afraid; sad. So when the boy came to stay with me in
the rain I took him to m y heart. I made him m y friend in my
heart. I pledged friendship, a whisper o f intention. I made a
promise. I didn’t say nothing; it was a minute o f honor and
affection. About four in the morning we found a cafe. It’s a
long w ay to dawn when you’re cold and tired. We scraped up
money for coffee, pulled change out o f our pockets, a rush o f
silver and slugs, and we pooled it on the table which is like
running blood together because nothing was held back and so
we were like blood brothers and when m y blood brother
disappeared I went looking for him, I went to the address
where he lived, a cold, awful place, I asked his terrible mother
where he was, I asked, I waited for an answer, I demanded an
answer, I went to the local precinct, I made them tell me,
where he was, how to find him, how much money it took to
spring him, I went to get him, he was far away, hidden away
like Rapunzel or something, a long bus ride followed by
another long bus ride, he was in a real prison, not some funky
little jail, not some county piss hole, a great gray concrete
prison in the middle o f nowhere so they can find you if you
run, nail you, and I took all m y money, m y blood, m y life for
today and tom orrow a n d : he next day and for as long as there
was, as far ahead as I can count, and I gave it like a donor for his
life so he could be free, so the piglets couldn’t put him in a
cage, couldn’t keep him there; so he could be what he was, this
very great thing, a free man, a poor boy who had become a
revolutionary man; he was pure— courage and action, a wild
boy, so wild no one had ever got near him before, I wish I was
so brave as him; he was manic, dizzying, m oving every
second, a frenzy, frenetic and intense with a mask o f joviality,
loud stories, vulgar jokes; and then, with me, quiet, shy, so
shy. I met him when he had just come back from driving an
illegal car two times in the last month into Eastern Europe,
crossing the borders illegally into Stalinist Eastern bloc
countries— I never understood exactly which side he was
on— he said both— he said he took illegal things in and illegal
people out— borders didn’t stop him, armies didn’t stop him, I
crossed borders with him later, he could cross any border; he
wore a red star he said the Soviets had given him, a star o f
honor from the government that only some party insiders ever
got, and then he fucked them over by delivering anarchy in his
forays in and out o f their fortressed imperial possessions. He
had a Russian nickname, his
nom de guerre
, and since his life was
subversion, an assault on society, war against all shit and all
authority, his
nom de guerre
was his name, the only name
anyone knew he had; no one could trace him to his fam ily, his
origins, where he slept: a son paying rent. Except me. In fact
the cops arrested him for not paying traffic tickets, thousands
o f dollars, under the conventional birth name; he ended in the
real prison resisting arrest. Even in jail he was still safely
underground, the
nom de guerre
unconnected to him, the body
in custody. When I married him I got his real name planted on
me by law and I knew his secrets, this one and then others,
slow ly all o f them, the revolutionary ones and the ones that
went with being a boy o f his time, his class, his parents, a boy
raised to conform, a boy given a dull, stupid name so he would
be dull and stupid, a boy named to become a man who would
live to collect a pension. I was M rs. him, the female one o f him
by law, a legal incarnation o f what he fucking hated, an actual
legal entity, because there is no Mrs.
nom de guerre
and no girl’s
name ever mattered on the streets or underground, not her
own real name anyway, only if she was some fox to him, a
legendary fox. I was one: yeah, a great one. I had m y time. But
it was nasty to become Mrs. his Christian names and his
daddy’s last name, the w ay they say M rs. Edw ard Jam es Fred
Smith, as if she’s not Sally or Jane; the wedding was m y
baptism, m y naming, Mrs. what he hates, the one who needs
furniture and money, the one you come home to which means
you got to be somewhere, a rule, a law, Mrs. the law, the one
who says get the mud o ff your shoes because it’s dirtying the
floor, the one who just cleaned the fucking floor after all. I
never thought about mud in my whole fucking life but when
you clean the floor you want to be showed respect. I lived with
him before we got married; we were great street fighters; we
were great. N o one could follow the chaos we made, the
disruptions, the lightning-fast transgressions o f law; passports, borders, taking people or things here or there; street actions, explosions, provocations, property destruction, sand
in gas tanks, hiding deserters from Vietnam, the occasional
deal. We had a politics o f making well-defined chaos,
strategically brilliant chaos; then we made love. We did the
love because we had run our blood together; it was fraternal
love but between us, a carnal expression o f brotherhood in the
revolutionary sense, a long, fraternal embrace for hours or
days, in hiding, in the hours after when we wanted to
disappear, be gone from the world o f public accountability;
and he whispered Andrea, he whispered it urgently, he was
urgent and frantic, an intense embrace. He taught me to cook;
in rented rooms all over Europe he taught me to cook; a bed, a
hot plate, he taught me to make soup and macaroni and
sausages and cabbage; and I thought it meant he was specially
taking care o f me, he was m y friend, he loved me, w e’d make
love and he’d cook. H e’d learned in the N avy, mass meals
enhanced by his private sense o f humor and freedom, the jokes
he would tell in the private anarchy o f the relatively private
kitchen, more personal freedom than anywhere else, doing
anything else. He got thrown out; they tried to order him
around, especially one vicious officer, he didn’t take shit from
officers, he poured a bowl o f hot soup over the officer’s head,
he was in the brig, you get treated bad and you toughen up
or break and his rebellion took on aspects o f deadly force, he
lost his boyish charm although he always liked to play but
inside it was a life-or-death hate o f authority, he made it look