The Mighty Walzer (26 page)

At the same time as my cheeks burned, my heart froze. All morning my insides had been changing places with one another. Nothing was fixed, nothing would stay still. Now I was frozen solid. I knew what was coming and I feared I would be unable to get through it. I didn’t believe I had the warm blood necessary to keep me upright. When it started, first Dolly, then Dora, then my mother, then Fay, each one’s grief fuelling the others’, I felt my stomach cramp, as though I’d been kicked. Whatever blood was not yet frozen in my veins, froze now. Were these the women who had brought me up with such restraint, these furies tearing at the coffin with their nails, making sounds so ghastly it was hard to believe they were human?

Who could I not bear it for most? The tumour that had once been my grandmother? My poor motherless mother? My rapaciously shy aunties, for whom no mortification could ever be keener than their own?

I saw the torn expression on my father’s face. Him? Could I not bear it most for him? For what he couldn’t bear on behalf of my mother? Or was it me, just me, I most couldn’t bear it for?

It was only when I became aware that my uncle Motty had his arm around my shoulder and was giving me his handkerchief and telling me a joke — ‘Jewish bloke goes into a restaurant’ — that I realized I’d gone down on my knees on the grass and was bawling like a baby, huge uncontrollable baby sobs, except that no baby ever had so much to sob about as I did.

No. 16: Don’t let anything upset you.

Golden Rules to Remember,
Richard Bergmann

REMEMBER LORNA PEACHLEY, the ping-pong player with the soft Hampshire Ds whose all-moving body parts had given Twink and me so much innocent pleasure on our last afternoon practising drop shots together in the Burnley academy? Well, she re-emerges. Not for long, but to devastating effect. Devastating to me. There is a sense in which I am still devastated by Lorna Peachley, though I’m sure it would astonish her to hear me say that, if anything still astonishes her at her age. But that’s always the way with devastating forces, isn’t it? They pass through, careless of the trouble they cause, looking neither to the left nor to the right of them.

I’m not complaining. I invited her to do her worst. She would not even have known she had a worst in her had I not found it. So maybe it was me who was the devastating force.

But this is to run on ahead. Before we get to Lorna Peachley we have to make a detour through Sabine Weinberger. Which was the order in which I did them. And I’m not sure we can do Sabine Weinberger either without first addressing the issue
uppermost in every ping-pong player’s mind at the time I first had dealings with her — to sponge or not to sponge. Every day a new spongiform fantasy was coming in from the ocean beds and rubber plantations of the east — a thicker, softer, more silent and more deadly foam; a more deviously flexuous pimple; sandwich, with the sponge outside and the pimples in; sandwich with the sponge inside and the pimples out; sandwich with the sponge inside and the pimples out but
introverted.
A pimple which you couldn’t see! — what devils they were out there in China and Japan.

My own inclination was to leave well enough alone, not because I was a purist — how could I be when I’d started off with a Collins Classic? — but because I liked the control conventional rubber gave me, I liked the sound — plock plock, plock plock: like the clatter of high heels on a wet pavement — I liked its associations with my old club and team-mates, and I liked the game as I played it; I liked chopping deep, arresting the ball on my forehand, telling it who was boss, and that you could only do with pimples. No one in their right mind chopped with sponge. With sponge there was no call to chop. If you needed to chop you were using the wrong rubber. And if you were using the wrong rubber you were in the wrong game.

There was the problem. Take a sponge bat in your hand and you felt you were playing with one of the Copestakes’ mattresses. Oof plock, oof plock. Bye-bye all associations with high heels. Wet cots, that was what you smelt now. And who wanted to be reminded of those days? But personal preference didn’t enter into it. Nor did aesthetics. Technology had taken over ping-pong and if you didn’t go along with the new materials you were left behind. Sure, Ogimura lost his title. But who did he lose it to? Tanaka, another Nip. And he won it back from him the next year, anyway. If you were going to have any hope of sneaking their panting little bell-voiced geishas from them there was only one course to take — you had to get yourself re-rubbered.

Had I still been playing for the Akiva I might have hesitated
longer before embracing the silent oriental game. Oof plock, oof plock. In the lower divisions you could still make an impression with vellum. But now that I had gone over to the Hagganah with Sheeny I couldn’t count on coasting. Every match was hard these days. Harder to win and harder in the sense of less sociable and easeful. There were no more nobbels in the fog. There was no more tcheppehing
sotto voce
so that the shaygets opposition wouldn’t understand. No more moodying. No more boxes of broken balls. No more spitting on the floor. No more fun. We were one of the toughest club teams in the country and we didn’t get that way by punching our fists through phone box windows or humming ‘E lucevan le stelle’ at deuce in the final game.

I was with the men now. Phil Radic. Saul Yesner. Sid Mellick. Handsome devils, all of them. Dark, strong, hairy, grizzled like veterans of the Israeli independence wars. If someone had told me that the one thing Phil Radic, Saul Yesner and Sid Mellick had in common apart from playing for the Hagganah ping-pong team was that they’d all killed a man with their bare hands, I’d have believed it. Not any old man — they weren’t criminals — but some enemy of the Jewish people.

Don’t get me wrong: there was no Selwyn Marks paranoia among the men of the Hagganah. They weren’t on the look-out for persecution. Who, after all, would ever have had the balls to persecute Sid Mellick, who could out arm-wrestle anyone in Manchester blindfolded and with his wrong arm? Or Saul Yesner, whose stomach muscles were so well developed that he used to invite all comers to take their turn at using him like a punching bag? But there was a fierce Bug and Dniester patriotism about them. When Phil Radic was selected to represent England he refused on the grounds that he would have to play on a Shabbes. ‘What’s with you?’ his friends asked. ‘You don’t keep Shabbes. You’ve never kept Shabbes. You work a Saturday gaff.’ ‘Not the point,’ he told them. ‘It’s the principle of the thing. If they want to pick Jewish
players they have to respect how Jews live. Let them play on a Sunday.’

‘Phil, we’re talking playing for England, here!’

‘It doesn’t bother me.’

Easy come, easy go. Everybody agreed Phil Radic had it in him to be the best senior player in the country. He had all the strokes, a lovely open stance, unusual and dare I say uncharacteristic fleetness of foot, and utter confidence in his own gifts. I loved watching him play. He was spring-loaded. He made ping-pong witty. His sudden accelerations of racket-head speed were like explosions of satire. You didn’t see the punch-line coming. And he used all the expanses of the table in a sardonic manner, economically, pithily, finding angles you’d never have guessed were there, leaving his opponent flat footed and looking stupid. People smiled when they lost to him, appreciatively, knowing they’d been done over. It was like having the piss taken out of you, but by a master, so you knew it wasn’t personal. You weren’t the joke, the game was. Maybe.

But what was most disconcerting about Phil Radic, from the point of view of someone who had cut his teeth on the Akiva, was how unfanatical he was. Twink ate and drank ping-pong. In the days when he had both his hands intact, Aishky lived and breathed the game. The Marks brothers talked nothing else. Before he took up swimming, Selwyn used to walk home from school practising his backhand flick. Whoosh, whoosh! Now he swam home, breasting the air and puffing his cheeks, but every now and then he would forget himself and mix a couple of push shots in with his dog paddles. And as for me, well I saw no future for myself except ping-pong. Even my erotic dreams had a ping-pong component. I would be rewarded for playing well. ‘So that’s your forehand, now show us your in-between,’ Jezebels would beseech me. My night-time anxieties too were all played out on the table. If the Jezebels didn’t claim me, the devil himself did, invisible, invincible, a disturbance of the darkness at
the opposite end of the ping-pong table, returning every shot I played. Sometimes ten, twenty, thirty seconds would go by after I had hit the ball, time for it to disappear thousands of feet into the blackness, but always, in the end, it would come back. Always. I still dream this dream. It’s years since I picked up a ping-pong bat, but in the night I am still trying to get the ball past a faceless agitation of shadows at the far end of the table. And not once in however many thousands of nights of struggle, not once have I succeeded.

Will Phil Radic be dreaming this dream? Did he ever? Of course not. Easy come, easy go. He had other things to think about. As did Saul Yesner. As did Sid Mellick. They were men, not nutty kids. There were engaged in serious business. When darkness fell on their moral worlds they were out strangling enemies of the Jewish people with their bare hands.

As for what to do about the new racket, the men of the Hagganah applied a double standard. It was too late for them. ‘You can’t teach an old dog new tricks,’ Phil Radic said. But they believed it behoved me and even Sheeny, as the next generation — the future of the Hagganah, noch — to re-equip. That there was arrogance in this I had no doubt. We don’t
need
the ping-pong equivalent of a three-piece suite — that was what they were really saying. We can go on winning fine just as we are. But you kids …

Well, some humiliations you just have to swallow. Others, of course, you can’t wait to gulp down. But I’m coming to those.

You don’t re-rubber lightly. Everyone has heard stories of snooker players whose careers have been halted or ruined because of a broken or mislaid cue. And with snooker we are only talking one stick of wood as against another stick of wood. Imagine if you also had to throw sponge and pimples into the equation. That’s how it was with ping-pong. Make a wrong decision as to grip and you could be undone for a season. Make a wrong decision as to surface and you could be finished for
life. The best sports shops understood this and were patient with you while you went through their entire stock twice. Some of them took the imaginative step of installing a table so that you could have a long knock-up before you bought. Alec Watson and Mitchell, where Twink and Aishk had taken me to choose my first tracksuit, actually put up two tables on a Saturday morning. And Saturday just happened to be the day that Sabine Weinberger worked at Alec Watson and Mitchell’s to earn extra pocket money.

The Weinbergers lived on the same street as us, but on the opposite side and on the bend, so it wasn’t easy for either family to see into the other’s windows. This may have been one of the reasons we weren’t on especially friendly terms. That the Weinbergers were fugitives from Berlin rather than Kiev or Odessa was also significant. We from the Bug did not hit it off with them from the Spree. We didn’t like what we saw when we looked at our reflection in their eyes. We saw yokels. Peasants. Shnorrers. People who parked vans in the street. And there lay the prime cause of our strained relations. Mr Weinberger, who ran his jewellery business from his own garage and went everywhere with an eyepiece on his forehead, like a unicorn, was always the first person to sign any petition against my father’s vehicles. I can still see the musty Gothic script on the first line of the top sheet of the complainants’ submission, entangled and intricately woven like the handwriting of a spider.
Ernst Weinberger — Jeweller.
As though being a jeweller settled the matter as to where vans should and shouldn’t be parked.

‘She’s
nice,’ my mother used to say. Meaning Mrs Weinberger. ‘She used to be a Vulvick.’

Being a Vulvick carried weight, because the Vulvicks were one of Manchester’s most distinguished rabbinical families. If you’d
been
a Vulvick it stood to reason that you were now fallen socially and spiritually: as a Vulvick there was only one trajectory you could take. Just how far Mrs Weinberger had fallen can be
measured by the fact of her daughter’s having a Saturday job. No Vulvick who was still a Vulvick had one of those, unless you call being a rabbi a Saturday job.

There were also some questions to be asked about the way Sabine Weinberger deported herself. At fifteen she already had a reputation. ‘Eh, eh, here you go!’ we would nudge one another and say when she turned up late at Laps’ for a bag of chips. Speaking for myself, I had no clear idea what she had a reputation for doing, only that she had a reputation. ‘Her bust is too prominent for a girl her age,’ I remember my mother observing, and I more or less assumed that her reputation began and ended with that. I’d have taken more interest had I found her more to my liking. But she was too unserer for me, too spiked and tussocky, on the one hand too like Phil Radic to look at, and on the other too much of a Becky in her manner — Becky being the name we gave to girls who reminded us of our mothers or even of our mothers’ mothers. I’m not saying she had nothing going for her. If the stone-throwing prefab boys of Heaton Park had been mad for Sabine Weinberger I’d have understood it. It has its adherents, that midnight scaly Lilith look. There are men who love the thought that they might bruise themselves on a woman’s scratchy pelt. But you can only be mad for what’s different from yourself, and from where I stood Sabine Weinberger was too much the same.

Speaking of stone-throwing prefab boys reminds me that Sabine Weinberger also had a glass eye as a consequence of some gruesome playground accident when she was a little girl. That too may have contributed to her reputation. She looked at you strangely.