The Mothers: A Novel (9 page)

“I’m happy we met them, too.” I sifted through the mail and threw it on the dining room table.

“They want to know if we’re going to use the designer the agency recommended,” Ramon reported. He went into the kitchen and began opening and closing cabinets. “For the brochure. Which I can do, you know. Easily. Why should we pay someone when I can do it?”

“Hmmm.” I wanted to do exactly what the agency said, just follow the plan, down to the designing of the brochure, the right smile, displaying teeth, evergreens behind us in the correct-size photo. There was no room for error here. I could feel my heart rate speed up, running toward something or away from it; what is the difference if it’s all just a circle anyway?

“We need to make an appointment tomorrow with social services for the visit,” I said.

“We will.” Ramon stood in the kitchen doorway. “We just got in. Relax.”

“Don’t,”
I said.

“It will get done.” He went to the couch and tipped his head back, touched his head to the exposed-brick wall.

“By magical fairies? We need to get on it.”

Ramon closed his eyes and sighed.

I looked at my watch. “Look at the time,” I said to Ramon.

Neither of us moved. In the hallway the scream of our downstairs neighbor’s child shot through the house. A car alarm went off on our street.

I sat down on the couch next to my husband, my elbows sharp on my knees. “It’s so much later than I thought,” I said, and just like that, the afternoon light slipped out of the living room, and the gray of winter crept in.

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Part 2

The Application

11

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Winter 2010

I
f everything about being a mother is a memory—the memory of your own childhood evoked by the sounds and smells and touches of your child and the air and water and substance that surround her—then working hard to become a mother is about the imagination, an unknown future. All the mothers have wondered: What will it be like? Who will I be if I become a mother? What will be gained and what will be lost? Will I be the same woman to myself? To the world?

My mother’s water broke while she was shopping for coats on sale at Garfinckel’s. There was a small dark spot in the outerwear department until I was three years old, and my mother used to take me there to show me the history of my birth, evidence that it had taken place, that the story she had told me held truth. Then one day the carpets were changed, and that little spot—substantiation of my birth story—was gone.

But still I have this story.

What story will I have to tell? When one doesn’t know if or when or how or from where a baby will emerge, the questions change. Where will my baby come from? Who will grow him first? When? How will I know she will be safe until I find her? It is all invention, and the endless possibility of it—all the things one cannot know, and so cannot
un
know—can make for a world of fantasy, thought with no end or resolution.

Which is why details can offer comfort, however cold. The week after returning from Raleigh, I was relieved to be busy with work and meetings and grading student papers on Elizabeth Cady Stanton and the suffragette movement.
Men say we are ever cruel to each other. Let us end this ignoble record and henceforth stand by womanhood,
she’d said at her address at the Seneca Falls women’s convention of 1848, and this appeared, largely without attribution or analysis, in nearly every paper.

I called social service organizations to secure yet another training session at the earliest date possible because we were required to use a New York agency to do all the local paperwork, including the home study, a major event in the adoption process. Other particularities offered refuge from my own invention. For the home study, a social worker was to come to our home and interview us, to ensure that we were both suitable parents and lived in a satisfactory home.

After securing the earliest date—January!—I nudged Harriet, who was asleep beneath my desk, gently in her soft stomach with my slipper.

“Want to go for a hike, H?” I asked.

She slept on.

“Harriet!” I knelt down. “Want to go for a walk?”

Her eyes shot open. And then closed again.

Eventually she rallied and I packed up water and a few snacks for us both, and we got into the car. After some pawing and sighing, she settled herself in, and then we were off to hit traffic on the Brooklyn Bridge and on the West Side Highway, before we were in more traffic on the George Washington Bridge. Ramon and I had once biked uptown from Brooklyn all the way to the George Washington Bridge the autumn after we’d met in Italy, and I remembered the exhilaration of getting to the bridge and riding out over the glistening river. And then: sudden, paralyzing fear. I could not move, not forward or backward. We had walked our bikes off the bridge and cycled back to Brooklyn, where we wolfed down burgers and too many beers as the sun went down, and it was the kind of day that I recognized as a salient memory, even while it was happening.

Finally, Harriet and I crossed over and onto the Palisades, the Bronx across the river to my right, as glittering and shining and bright as any jewel I’d seen.

The local news was on NPR, and soon a story about a young woman abducted as an infant in a Bronx hospital came on the radio. After twenty years, she’d been reunited with her biological mother. There had not been one day, her biological mother said, that she had not thought about her daughter and what had happened to her. What had happened was that the woman, the
kidnapper,
had had several miscarriages, disguised herself as a nurse, and took the child. She then went on, the piece said, to abuse her. Now the FBI was hunting her down.

As the city fell away, and Harriet and I made our way to Harriman State Park along Seven Lakes Drive, toward the trail that snaked around and up from the water, I wondered if I understood any of the players in that drama, the child, the woman whose child was taken, the woman crazed by loss. I felt I had been all of those things; but I knew exactly which one I was now.

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At Lake Askoti, there was a large flat rock that Ramon and I would sit on and eat chicken sandwiches as Harriet flung herself into the lake, then, trembling with joy as she shook water all over our food, she would attempt to eat our sandwiches, and lick our faces, before jumping back into the water.

Ramon and I came here on weekends, when the rock and other places to hang out comfortably around the lake were crowded with boys guzzling beer and smoking joints, and the trails were filled to bursting with families and hikers. But occasionally it was still and quiet but for the lapping of the water, the creaking of trees, and the swooping of small birds.

When we arrived, Harriet leapt out of the car and made her way to the familiar trail, jumping in and out of the water along the lake before I even got to the water’s edge. We passed by our rock, and I stood for a moment as she hurled herself in, and then I hauled her up when she couldn’t make her way up the smooth, wet surface. The lake was a brilliant blue, a mirror reflecting a cloudless day, the remaining foliage browning. I turned from the lip of the lake and Harriet followed, pushing ahead of me, her energy boosted by being wet, and we made our way up along the rocky trail that led to another trail higher on the ridge.

I could feel the moss and pine and dirt beneath my boots, the give of earth, and also its resistance to my steps, the way it protected its boundaries, and I felt filled up as I walked in the crisp air, across streams and up switchbacks. I felt the singing in my legs as we climbed up, passing only a German or Austrian or Dutch couple, in lederhosen, carrying crooked walking sticks, their long white hair pulled back, as they hiked the Appalachian Trail, which intersected here with our local one. We nodded hello and then Harriet and I walked along the perimeter of the hilltop, in the sun, occasionally stopping to sit and look out onto the lake and the lakes beyond, the rise and fall of the uneven trees.

Hiking gave way to thoughts of being in that upstate town for graduate school, all the time I spent alone there in the woods with Harriet, growing stronger again after my surgeries, and with it that feeling that I might not be a stranger to myself forever. I remembered my mother seated next to me in the hospital, holding my hand. It is one of the few memories I have of us touching. I thought about the mothers as I drove onto the bridge, toward home, and I remembered Harriet, just today, running down the hillside, bounding ahead of me, the splash of her entering the water, and then smiling as I came upon her, so happy in all that blue.

12

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W
inter came on suddenly. An icy draft I hadn’t remembered from the previous year curled around my ankles and wrists; a raw numbing cold filled up my office as I tried to plan the following semester’s classes. Gearing up for the new semester, I had every intention of creating innovative, mind-blowingly wonderful classes, courses where students would learn about feminism and women’s diverse and global histories in creative ways, which would somehow reflect all the research I’d been doing on women’s activism in rural communities. And yet, the deadlines came and the deadlines went, and I found myself sending off the same syllabus I’d used several semesters in a row, the same books, the same supplemental reading material, my ingenuity sapped.

How had this happened to us? my friends and colleagues asked one another, not the mothers, but those of us who had never left our careers, not for a single moment. Perhaps it was poor strategizing or lack of proper planning, or the ignominious notion that we were always on the very cusp of our most significant work, an opus that would be widely recognized, placing us far above the standard academic fray. Whatever had caused it, we marveled at where we were, midlife really, up for varying contract reviews in non-tenure-track jobs, our futures terribly unsure.

But life, my grandmother had always told Lucy and me, is what happens when you’re busy making other plans. Sure enough, Ramon got laid off, along with the rest of his department. He had begun freelancing for what at first seemed like more pay, until work appeared to be something he was doing little of. I was still appointed on a contract basis, just when money seemed like it could be the answer to so many of our problems. I had visions of defying those beneficent Hague laws and just showing up in a developing country, throwing a bag of cash at someone who would run behind some bush—perhaps an African wanza tree—and return to me with a child.

I don’t know if my grandmother knew she was quoting John Lennon, but she said it again after my grandfather died, and she said it when I got sick, and then we said it without her when she died, just before my final surgery, the one that attached what was left of my intestines together.

My poor mother. She wept when I went in for that surgery; she wouldn’t let go of the gurney they wheeled me away on, and I know she was thinking of her mother, too, and all that could be lost.

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In the time between the training in Raleigh and the information session in White Plains, we worked on our birthmother letter. Oh, the birthmother letter. The editorial suggestions that came from the offices of Crystal or Tiffany were endless and nonsensical. As I made each correction, I longed for the editors at scholarly journals, whose comments I often laughed at as I read them aloud to Ramon. But we believed now that Crystal and Tiffany held the secret to what would “work,” the key that would unlock the doors that led to what these birthmothers, these magical earth women, wanted, the key to our own houses of happiness.

For the birthmothers, whoever they were, wherever they were, however we would come to meet them, please please let us meet them, we would write about my pie baking and how we could not wait to watch our child squish berries in her fingers. We would write about my mother-in-law’s recipes (You want rooster claw? She’s got it) and our happy visits to her village each summer. We would write about our diverse Brooklyn neighborhood, about my family’s celebrations at Christmas, where my father, in a fit of submitting to the dominant culture, dressed the house in candy canes and mistletoe and framed the fireplace with poinsettias. He placed the Christmas cards carefully along the mantel, noting who had not sent one this year and who would now be added to the list. We would address our birthmother letter to a “special person,” which we certainly believed this hypothetical woman was, though it was not how we would have chosen to express these sentiments.

This brochure of our life featured an assortment of pictures. Our friends’ children embracing us, Ramon and I eating at large tables with our families. Here we were holding on to other peoples’ children tightly, everyone smiling brightly. These photos were chosen over those we might have picked, of Harriet and me looking out from a hilltop, Ramon crouched and smiling in the branches of one of Paola’s lemon trees, the two of us leaning into each other, beaming, before a table in Capri all those years ago, wine and bread and tomatoes and sardines set out before us, the sea winking behind us, tiny glittering whitecaps breaking. No wine in photos, we were told. Never.

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Just after the New Year, Anita called. She was attending a conference at the vet hospital where I’d gone to graduate school, and she wondered if we would meet her.

I imagined that town in winter, the cruel weather effect of the Finger Lakes, the way—before I had gotten Harriet—that I had walked the neighborhoods, stooped, freezing, barely able to carry the brutal weight of my coat and scarf and mittens.

“Do you want to go?” I asked Ramon.

“To go to a freezing town for a freezing weekend in the middle of freezing winter? Not really,” he said. “Is Paula going?”

“Just Anita. You like Anita,” I told him, as if he needed reminding. “And Harriet will have such fun going back.” I wondered if I would enjoy this return, or if it would spark some deep vulnerability that had not been excised with the surgeon’s cut.

I thought of Harriet springing through a blanket of snow. It is a fact that dogs are like humans in that they make long, deep friendships; they recognize places they have loved, and I pictured her bouncing through the high snow along the creek, running into some of her old pals from puppydom, though most of those dogs would be gone now.

“I have all this work.” Ramon waved toward the dining room, the large glass table strewn with papers and contracts. This was his new default position. As a freelancer, he could always be burdened by deadlines and future projects or trying to acquire such things.

“You do?” I asked. “Like what?”

“Several things,” he said, very specifically.

“I think I’m going to go up,” I said. “I’ve got another ten days until school starts. I think it might be fun.”

“If you think fun is freezing your ass off, by all means, have at it,” Ramon said, cracking open his laptop. Sometimes he looked so out of place here. In the dining room, and also in New York. I thought
of him at a café in Terracina, idly ordering the sardine pasta and muscat. As I clomped awkwardly around the village, heavy with my Americanness—my clothes, my books, my decidedly un-Italian shoes—Ramon’s gestures were elegant and effortless.

Now I got up to go to my own computer, and passing through Ramon’s new office, our dining room, I could see him begin a game of some kind—involving mice, or perhaps it was little hedgehogs—rutting around underground and digging a system of mazes.

“I think a trip will be fun, Ramon,” I said. “I can show you all the fabulous places where I hung out in grad school: the hippie restaurant, the really lame local bar, the place where people fling themselves off bridges and into the gorges. The little hospital where I stayed for days before going to the cancer center in Baltimore.” And there it was too, the hospital dark, the slip of light beneath the door, the sound of nurses, the squeak of their shoes, the beeping of machines, the weeping of visitors, the click of my professor’s knitting needles, Lucy in a dark corner, rising to leave. The body really does remember what the mind long ago let fade.

Ramon looked up.

“We need a break.” As I said this, I realized it terribly clearly. “Something to get us out of here.” I looked around the room. We had been held hostage by our wants.

“Another time, okay?” He turned back to the computer and,
I assumed, to his hedgehogs channeling their way aboveground
for air.

I nodded, but he did not see me. “Let me know if you change your mind.”

Three days later, I headed upstate alone.

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Driving into town was just as I remembered: rolling hills and wide expanses of snow, a low gray sky that gave way to the town,
overcast, gloomy, blighted. I pulled into the lot at the Holiday Inn, where the rooms were practically free as students were not yet back to school, and I checked in with Harriet.

An hour later, we were at the mouth of the trail with Anita and two of her spinones, Madeleine and Toby. Harriet sniffed at their asses, and they sniffed at hers, and, for the first time in over a year, Harriet got down on her haunches and barked, ready to play.

“You brought two dogs with you? Wow.”

“I’m a vet,” Anita said. “We collect animals for a living. At least these monsters aren’t sick. I can’t tell you how many vet friends we’ve got who have birds with broken wings and cats in kidney failure, dogs lumpy with tumors.”

“Really.” I could see the small wooden bridge that led to the trail through the woods and then a path along the frozen creek.

“It’s what makes us vets,” she said.

“I used to come here in graduate school. When I first got Harriet.”

Anita stepped ahead and we crossed over the footbridge. “I think you guys will love it,” I said.

“It’s cold as shit here.” She rubbed her arms.

I laughed. Ramon had not been wrong about that. Anita was dressed in several layers of hair-covered polar fleece. I wore a parka that had sat in the trunk of my car since I’d left this frozen town.

I had been in school here after the second surgery, alone in a winter so brutal even the students were isolated from one another. After recovering at home in Virginia, in my sister’s room, as I could not walk the steps to the attic, I went back to school just as soon as I had the vigor to open a can of soup. This was before Harriet, and I walked the streets of that town on my own, to build up strength. My weight had dropped to just over one hundred pounds. My hair had begun to grow back slowly, in clumps. Even my coat felt heavy, too much to bear. My scalp and face flaked and itched. I remember picking my way along the snow and ice, like an old person, fearful of falling.

The math I had been doing was different then: it only counted backward from the moment. Nine years earlier I had watched my sister slam the door in my face, refusing to say good-bye, as I drove away to school. Seven years: my college roommate and I by a campsite in Utah, sipping wine and reading Jack Kerouac. Three years: a breakup with a classical Greek scholar I’d met at a party in Tribeca. But then the future stopped; the math no longer moved in front of the present. Even my imagination, the foil of memory’s powerful muscle, ceased.

Anita and I were silent as we walked through the woods, and I could hear the crunch of branches and the hard earth beneath our feet as I watched Harriet bound up the small hills and then return, leading Madeleine and Toby through the snowbanks and fallen trees. There is little as beautiful as dogs running free through the woods.

We walked for an hour or so, until our extremities were uncomfortably numb, and then Anita and I agreed to meet for dinner.

In the hotel, as Harriet curled up on the bed, exhausted,
snoring—a bug in a rug, my grandmother used to say of any contented creature—I checked my e-mail. Notes on the birthmother letter. I went to make the corrections right away, as we were losing time.

We were always losing time.

Under the section “Our Interests,” I had written:
We really enjoy the country, where we can all run around, pick blackberries behind our friends’ house upstate, and kayak in the pond.

Here were Tiffany or Crystal’s editorial suggestions:
After the blackberries is a great place for an example, something like, “we look forward to our little one giggling as they squish the berries in his or her hands as we bake our blackberries into yummy pies.”

It is? I thought. Really? But I did what I was told, minus the
little one
and
yummy
. Time was of the essence, yes, but Ramon and I had agreed we would try to be as true to who we were as possible, even if we might still be discovering what that meant in this unending new phase of our lives.

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Anita and I met at the famous hippie restaurant I had hated in graduate school. I hated it still. The waitress smelled of patchouli and armpits, and she told us about the special lasagna made from house-made soy cheese and spinach, picked under the shamanistic light of the New York State moon and stars, and also a special ancient grain medley of amaranth, spelt, and millet served with maize and beans.

“For the love of God,” I said, “We’d like a bottle of the Shalestone red.” It was the name of a local winery I still remembered from a trip I took there with other first-year graduate students when I had just arrived at school.

Anita snorted. “What is Shalestone?”

“Everything local,” I said. “It’s their thing.”

The wine came and we ordered our food and then we both sat back and relaxed in earnest.

“How are you guys doing?” I asked.

She raised her eyebrows and nodded her head slowly. “Eh. This whole thing sucks. Have you done that fucking letter yet?”

“In process,” I said.

“We just finished it. It’s approved.”

“Are you serious? How?”

“Just did what we’re told. We love ponies and puppies and bunnies and unicorns. We have flexible schedules and a three-bedroom house. Got the home study done, too. We are very good at getting stuff done, Paula and I.”

“That,” I said as I gulped at my wine and watched several locals enter the restaurant, “is awesome.

“So being a vet . . .” I changed the topic in order to quell my growing panic that Anita and Paula might get a baby first. “Tell me all about it.”

Anita talked about clicker training and animal obesity, and I talked about Harriet and how perfect she was—like a person almost. Anita nodded in assent and then we discussed their home in North Carolina and what Ramon and I liked to do in Brooklyn. We’d had two glasses of wine by the time our meals, two heaping piles of mush, arrived. I dug in, and despite the disagreeable presentation, the food was comforting and delicious.