The Playdate (2 page)
Yes, I think. What could be better than this? Sitting in the early summer sun on a Friday afternoon with no kids and no work to worry about.
Yet that is not really how I feel at all.
The hot sun pricks my face a little unpleasantly. I try to focus on the sounds around me to relax. I used to collect interesting sounds, storing mentally the tiniest hum or echo, or whisper of
wind that I heard and liked, in case one day I might need them. Today there is birdsong from a warbler, the soft swish of Suzy’s strokes, the crack of a squirrel on a twig.
It is no use. However much I stretch my legs out, the tension that makes my buttocks and thighs clench won’t release. My mind is racing. I need to tell Suzy. I can’t keep this secret from her. There is enough I hide from Suzy already. I sit up again and check where she is. She’s traveled to one side of the pond and is working her way back.
Oh, what the hell. I am here now. I stand up and walk over to the ladder, and begin gingerly to climb into the murky water. The notice board says there are terrapins and crayfish in here.
“Good girl!” Suzy calls across, clapping to encourage me.
I roll my eyes to show her I am not convinced. The water is cold and earthy as I lower myself into it, shivering. Bit by bit, the icy ring moves up my body until I am almost immersed.
“Just swim,” calls Suzy. Her bright American tone echoes out across the pond and the female lifeguard looks over.
I launch myself off the edge. I am not a good swimmer. Suzy approaches me.
“This is so great,” she says, turning on her back and looking up at the clear sky and treetops. “Next week, I’m going to book us a day at that spa you told me about in Covent Garden.”
My legs dip, and water goes in my mouth. I splutter, kicking hard. I can’t touch the bottom.
“Hey, you OK?” she says, holding my arm. “Let’s swim to the middle then turn back.”
I take a breath, clear my nose, and follow her.
“Suze,” I say, “I can’t spend money on stuff like that at the moment.”
“Don’t be silly, hon, I’ll get it,” she replies. I know she means
it. Money is never an issue in the Howard house. Jez’s business is thriving even in these uncertain times. For Suzy, money does not have the emotion attached to it that it does for me. It doesn’t hang around her house like a critical mother, interfering in every decision she makes, squashing dreams, telling her “maybe next year.”
Satisfied that I am OK, Suzy leaves me to swim alone. I wonder which direction to take across the pond. It is a strange sensation swimming in a natural pool, with no tiled edges to aim for, just gentle slopes of black earth veined with slippery tree roots. There is no rectangular structure to measure my lengths. It is lovely; Suzy is right. It’s just that right now my mind aches for corners and edges, for beginnings and ends.
I hear a splash and turn round. The old lady is climbing the steps out of the pond. Stunned, I realize she is about ninety. Tanned, loose flesh hangs like draped curtains from strong old bones. I think of my own grandmother, sitting for twenty years after my granddad died, watching telly and waiting for the end. How does that happen? That one old lady watches telly and another walks to an open-air pond on a summer’s day and floats around among water lilies and kingfishers?
The woman’s lack of self-consciousness about her body gives her an air of confidence as she walks past two young women gossiping animatedly, eyes hidden behind overlarge designer sunglasses, thin limbs spray-tanned the same dulled bronze. Probably business wives from Hampstead. I decide the woman could be an old suffragette or a famous botanist who spent her younger years traveling round remote South America on a donkey, finding new plants. Whatever, I sense she has no time for young women like them. And me. She’s probably earned the right to spend her days doing such wonderful things. She knows someone else is paying for ours.
This is not right. This has to end.
Taking a deep breath through my nose, I swim as fast as I can back to the steps and reach up to the railings with dripping hands. As I pull myself from the water, my body feels oddly heavy. Heavy, I suspect, with the weight of my own guilt.
I have to find the words to tell Suzy. I can’t do this anymore.
* * *
It became apparent at Easter that Suzy had a lot of plans for her and me. She has never had a daylight hour without children, she claims, since she moved to London. Even when Jez is home, he says he can’t manage all three of them together, so she always has one, whatever she does.
So since Peter and Otto both started private nursery in May, and Henry and Rae are now reaching the end of their first year at primary school, Suzy finally has the chance to do the things on the list she has been compiling from
Time Out
magazine and her London guidebook. All through June, we have been out most days. She knows I have no money, so we have done free things. We have Rollerbladed in Regent’s Park, ignoring the sign that says “No skating.” “They’ll have to catch us first,” said Suzy furiously when she saw it. She has waited too long to take long, gliding strokes through the flat paths of the rose garden unhindered by our children’s buggies and scooters. I don’t like breaking rules, but I go along with it.
Another day, we ate sandwiches in Trafalgar Square after a visit to the National Gallery to see Botticellis and Rembrandts. We’ve peered through the railings at No. 10 Downing Street and seen Big Ben up close. Suzy even made me come with her to the Tower of London, insisting on paying the entrance fee. As I stood waiting among German tourists to see the Crown
Jewels, I had to smile to myself. These are not the things I did with friends in London before I had Rae, but I remind myself that Suzy is from America and not Lincolnshire, like me, and that she wants to do the touristy stuff in the way that I wanted to climb the Empire State Building when Tom and I spent that one precious weekend in New York.
And today it has been Hampstead Ladies’ Pond. “We should come here every day,” Suzy says, as we get ourselves dressed. “People do.”
Sometimes when she says these things I feel like I did in the pond today. I flail around, trying to find something solid and familiar to hold on to, but there is nothing.
* * *
It is 3:25
P.M.
It has taken Suzy sixteen minutes to race from Hampstead Heath across North London in her yellow convertible to Alexandra Park. She skids to a stop outside the kids’ school, completely ignoring the “No drop off” sign.
“Go get ’em, pardner,” she shouts to me over the horrible American soft-rock music she likes to play loud in the car, oblivious to the looks we get from mothers walking through the school gate.
I laugh despite my embarrassment, and jump out. We both know the routine. I pick up Rae and Henry, she fetches Peter and Otto from nursery. We do it without speaking now, guiding each other through our shared daily routine like dressage horses, with a gentle nod or a kick toward school or soft play or swimming.
“I’m going to take them to the park,” I say, shutting the door.
“Coolio, baby,” shouts Suzy cheerfully, and drives off, waving a hand above her head.
I turn and look at the arched entrance with its century-old brick “Girls” sign. Instantly, my shoulders hunch up. The massive wall of Alexandra Palace rises dramatically behind the school, like a tidal wave about to engulf the little Victorian building. I run through the gate, turn right in to the infants’ department, and smile my closed-mouth smile at the other mums. Everyone told me that having kids is when you really get to know your neighbors in London. They must have neighbors different from mine. A few mums nod back, then continue arranging playdates with each other in the diaries they carry around. I’ve tried so many times to figure out what I’ve done wrong. My best guess is that it’s because in Rae’s slot on the class parent contact list “Callie” and “Tom” sit separately at two different London addresses; unlike “Felicity and Jonathan” and “Parminder and David” and “Suzy and Jez.” Suzy says if the mothers are not going to be friendly to me because I’m a divorced, unemployed, single mother who lives in a rented flat, she and Jez won’t accept their invites to stupid drinks parties in their double-fronted Edwardian houses in The Driveway, the only road apart from ours with a guaranteed catchment into this tiny, one-form-entry infant school. She says this is the price we pay for “getting our kids into a posh, oversubscribed primary school” and that “they’re a bunch of stuck-up, middle-class cows” for ignoring me, and that I am much better than they are.
I try to believe her, but sometimes it’s difficult. Sometimes I think it would be nice to belong. Sometimes I think that if one of these mothers invited Rae to her house for a playdate, I would fall on the floor and kiss her feet.
The classroom door opens and Henry and Rae burst out looking grubby and stressed. “What have you got to eat?” Rae
murmurs. I give them the rice cakes I always carry around in my bag. She has red paint in her mousy hair and her hands are greasy as if she hasn’t washed them all day. As usual I search her eyes for signs. Is she overtired? Too pale? I scoop her up and hold her too tight, kissing the side of her face till she squirms and laughs.
“Are you all right, Henry?” I say. He looks dazed and wired, checking behind me to see if Suzy is there. If she were, he would be whining by now, making his disapproval of her abandonment apparent. I put Rae down and hug him to show that I understand. He leans into me a little, and sighs. Then the pair of them head out of the outer door, gnawing their food like puppies.
At the school gate, Henry starts to run. He does it every day, yet I am so busy trying to shove their scribbled drawings into my bag that it still catches me unawares. “Henry!” I shout. I chase him along the pavement, grabbing Rae, who is following him blindly, dodging round a man, a woman, and two girls. The man turns. It is Matt, a divorced dad from another class. Or the Hot Dude That Callie Must Get It On With, as Suzy calls him. And I have just shouted in his ear.
“Sorry,” I say, lifting a hand to emphasize it. He smiles coolly, rubbing his hand over a new crew cut. Embarrassingly, I blush. “Stupid, stupid, stupid,” I mutter. As if.
I catch up with Henry at the play park behind the school. “Henry,” I say, “you mustn’t run like that. Remember, Rae follows you and it’s dangerous for her in case she falls.”
He shrugs a “sorry,” jumps on a swing standing up, and throws himself in the air with violent jerks, as if trying to shake out his excess energy like ketchup from a bottle. Rae sits on the next swing, playing with the tiny doll that she manages to keep
hidden about her person however much I search for it before we leave for school. I am going to look up her sleeve on Monday. They don’t talk much, Henry and Rae. But, as their teacher says, they seem joined together by an invisible wire. Wherever one is, the other is never far away—just like me and Suzy.
I wonder what Rae feels about that sometimes. I wonder if she feels like me.
I watch Rae, and I think about Suzy, and I can’t even bring myself to imagine what it will be like for them both when I’m not here.
So—he was back.
As soon as Suzy opened the door of her house at No. 13 Churchill Road at 3:55
P.M.
, she could see from the discarded shoes in the middle of the hall that Jez’s meeting in town with Don Berry had finished early.
“OK, little boo-boos,” she said to Peter and Otto, releasing them from the carry she had given them from the car. Without breaking the broad smile she used like a tractor beam to keep them from teetering over the edge into hysteria after nursery, she kicked her husband’s loafers into the shoe rack with its sweetie-shop rows of bright sandals. “Who wants a drink?” she called, moving Jez’s jacket from the banister onto a peg. The boys nodded, dazed. “And who wants a cookie Mommy made?” she growled in a goofy voice. The boys nodded more enthusiastically. “Coolio!” she shouted, tickling them as they wandered into the kitchen.
Peter laughed.
Otto cried and hit her hand away, his brown eyes flashing a warning.
This little baby would need more help today, she could see.
“Hey, buddy?” she said, picking him up again. He resisted, squealing angrily and grabbing her hair.
“No,” she murmured in his ear, holding him tightly. His little body, heavy with toddler chunkiness, began to relax. His fingers let go. She kissed them gently, smelling exhausted salty sweat and baked beans. “My very beautiful boy,” she said. Just holding him made her body ache for more. And a girl this time. A girl called Nora, with Suzy’s own childhood freckles and strawberry blonde hair, not the rich darkness of Jez’s domineering, upper-class English genes.
Otto brushed his nose across the front of Suzy’s dress, marking her territorially with snot, and sighed.
“It’s OK, hon,” she whispered, pressing her cheek against the wet thickness of his. “You’re tired.”
“Hmm.” He nodded. She put him down, sighing with the satisfaction of getting it right, and watched him toddle into the kitchen behind Peter, his raven curls bouncing.
The midafternoon sun beamed in through the glass wall that ran across the back of the house, making her Italian kitchen gleam. The boys climbed on the giant sofa. She loved this space. It was impossible now to remember what it looked like as a collection of cramped Victorian rooms. She thought Jez was joking when he told her the price of the house. You could buy a small ranch for that in Colorado. Then he explained how the vendor had just received planning permission to knock the rooms together and extend at the back—just as he and his girlfriend decided to split up. Suddenly Suzy had seen how it could work. A huge family room filled with toys and the new
friends they’d make in London, and her serving everyone great steaming bowls of pasta; children running around, playing; she and Jez opening wine together. Jez was right. The room had worked out well.
He just hadn’t been in it much lately.