SUBMISSION, SERVICE, AND HONOR
A believer who is humble before God will also be humble toward other people. One way this humility expresses itself is in mutual submission to one another. Paul instructs us, “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ” (Ephesians 5:21). Peter likewise says, “Clothe yourselves with humility toward one another” (1 Peter 5:5), and James tells us that submissiveness is characteristic of the wisdom that comes from heaven (James 3:17). What does it mean to submit to one another? Does it mean always giving in to others’ demands or opinions? Not at all. It means to submit to
instruction
as well as
correction
from other believers; to be teachable or to be humble enough to admit we have erred when another believer corrects us.
Apollos and Peter are beautiful examples of men who submitted themselves to other believers. Apollos submitted himself to others’ instruction. Luke tells us that Apollos was a learned man, with a thorough knowledge of the Scriptures, who had been instructed in the way of the Lord, and who spoke with great fervor and taught about Jesus accurately. Apollos was obviously a gifted and capable man, and apparently a “full-time Christian worker,” but he had one defect. His knowledge about Christ was accurate but incomplete; he knew only the baptism of John. When Priscilla and Aquila, a godly “lay” couple in the church at Ephesus, heard Apollos, they invited him to their home and explained the way of God more adequately (Acts 18:24-26). It is evident that Apollos received their instruction because shortly thereafter, when Apollos wanted to go on to minister to the churches in Achaia, the church at Ephesus not only encouraged him but also wrote a letter to the Achaian Christians telling them to welcome him.
What a commentary on the humility of Apollos! What a sermon by example on what it means to submit to one another! Apollos was a capable, gifted minister; yet he was not above receiving instruction from Priscilla and Aquila. (It is not too hard to imagine in passing with what gentleness and consideration Priscilla and Aquila must have instructed Apollos. That is the other side of submission to one another—but more about that when we get to the trait of gentleness in chapter 15.)
Peter provides us with an example of submitting to the correction of another believer. Paul records that when Peter came to Antioch, he found it necessary to rebuke Peter because of his hypocrisy in regard to the Gentile Christians. Not only was Paul’s rebuke severe; it was done openly before the other believers. The Scriptures do not tell us what Peter’s reaction was, but apparently Peter did not harbor any resentment toward Paul. In one of his own letters he later refers to Paul as “our dear brother” and speaks of Paul’s letters as Scripture—that is, as part of the divinely inspired writings of the word of God (2 Peter 3:15-16). Peter had evidently accepted Paul’s rebuke. He had humbly submitted himself to the correction of another believer, even though that believer was “younger in the Lord” than he.
There is no question that submission to the unsolicited teaching or correction of others is difficult for our naturally proud hearts. But the context of Paul’s instruction on mutual submission in Ephesians 5 indicates it is one of the evidences of being filled with the Spirit. Humility is a fruit of the Spirit, the result of His ministry in our hearts. But this ministry does not occur without deliberate, conscious effort on our part. The Spirit does not make us humble; He enables us to humble ourselves in these difficult situations.
Although submission is probably the most difficult application of humility toward others, it is by no means the only one. A very common occasion for showing humility is through
serving one another.
In this area Jesus is our greatest teacher and pacesetter. The foremost example is His washing the disciples’ feet on the night of His betrayal, but Jesus’ whole life was one of serving others. He said He did not come to be served but to serve; He went around doing good for others. Jesus even seems to indicate that He will still be serving us in eternity (Luke 12:37), as incredible as that may seem.
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In addition to the example He set for us, Jesus also taught us by precept the importance of serving one another. He indicated that true greatness in the kingdom of God does not consist in position but in serving one another, and He promised blessing to those who followed His example in serving others.
This demonstration of humility in serving others also requires the grace of God. Peter tells us that those who serve “should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ” (1 Peter 4:11). We all know people, even unbelievers, who seem to be natural servants. They are always serving others one way or another. But God does not get the glory; they do. It is
their
reputation that is enhanced. But when we, natural servants or not, serve in dependence upon the grace of God with the strength He supplies, God is glorified.
Dependence upon the grace of God not only results in God being glorified; it also makes it possible for those of us who are not natural servants to practice this aspect of humility. His grace is sufficient for all of our needs, whatever they may be. We can, by His enablement,
learn
to serve one another.
A third way we demonstrate humility is by
honoring
one another. Paul says in Romans 12:10, “Honor one another above yourselves,” and in Philippians 2:3, “consider others better than yourselves.” We are to place the other person above ourselves in matters of position, concerns, or needs.
Jesus rebuked the Pharisees for seeking the places of honor at a feast, telling them to instead seek out the lowest place. We may condemn the childish self-seeking of the Pharisees, but how about our own attitude? Do we maneuver for first place in line, or for the best seats at public meetings? Do we frequently assert ourselves at the expense of others, or do we consider their interests as well as our own?
If we are to experience the blessings promised to the humble we must work out this humility in our daily relationships with others. We must learn to submit to one another, to serve one another, and to honor or prefer one another above ourselves. Remember: the Spirit does not make us humble, but He enables us to humble ourselves. We must
learn
humility, just as Paul learned contentment, but in our efforts we are assured of the same enabling power he experienced (see Philippians 4:11-13).