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Try to control bleeding. Apply heavy pressure to the wound with several sterile gauze pads, a fresh sanitary napkin, or a clean diaper or washcloth. If bleeding continues, increase the pressure. Don’t worry about doing damage by pressing too hard. Do not apply a tourniquet without medical advice.

Treat shock if it is present (#48).

Check for breathing, and begin CPR immediately if the child isn’t breathing (see page 688).

Preserve the severed limb or digit. As soon as possible, wrap it in a wet clean cloth or sponge, and place in a plastic bag. Secure the bag shut and place it in another bag filled with ice (do not use dry ice). Do not place the severed part directly on ice and don’t immerse it in water or antiseptics.

Get help. Call or have someone else
call 911
for immediate emergency medical assistance or rush to the ER, calling ahead so they can prepare for your arrival. Be sure to take along the ice-packed limb or digit; surgeons may attempt to reattach it. During transport, keep pressure on the wound and continue other basic life-support procedures, if necessary.

S
HOCK

48.
Shock can develop in severe injuries or illnesses. Signs include cold, clammy, pale skin; rapid, weak pulse; chills; convulsions; and, frequently, nausea or vomiting, excessive thirst, and/or shallow breathing.
Call 911 immediately
for emergency medical assistance. Until help arrives, position the child on his or her back. Loosen any restrictive clothing, elevate the legs on a pillow or a folded blanket or garment to help direct blood to the brain, and cover the child lightly to prevent chilling or loss of body heat. If breathing seems labored, raise the child’s head and shoulders very slightly. Do not give food or water or use a hot-water bottle to warm a child in shock.

S
KIN WOUNDS

Important:
Exposure to tetanus is a possibility whenever the skin is broken. Should your child incur an open skin wound, check to be sure tetanus immunization is current. Also be alert for signs of possible infection (swelling, warmth, tenderness, and reddening of surrounding area; oozing of pus from the wound), and call the doctor if they develop. Don’t apply tincture of iodine or Merthiolate; they can delay healing.

MAKING A BOO-BOO BETTER

When it comes to being treated for injuries, toddlers are rarely cooperative patients. No matter how uncomfortable the pain of their injuries, they’re likely to consider the cure worse.

Except in rare cases, it doesn’t help to promise that the ice pack will make the bruise feel better, that soaking will cool down the burn, or that the bandage will keep the cut clean. It may help, however, to use distraction while trying to treat a young child’s injury. Entertainment—in the form of a favorite music box, DVD, or CD; a toy dog that yaps and wags its tail; a choo-choo train that can travel across the coffee table; or a parent or sibling who can dance, jump up and down, or sing silly songs—can help make the difference between a successful treatment session and disaster.

Because being forced to sit still (while ice is applied to a bruised knee or while a burned finger is soaked in cold water) is often seen by toddlers as curtailing their freedom, it may help to tie an ice pack on the knee or a cool compress around the burned finger—and allow the child to go about his or her normal activities.

Kid-friendly first-aid supplies may also help ease the pain of treatment. Look for ice packs and bandage strips with interesting designs and shapes (you can find ice packs shaped like bunnies, bandage strips with dinosaurs and cartoon designs and even some shaped like kisses).

How forceful you need to be about treatment depends on the severity of the injury. Treatment may not be necessary for a paper cut, but it may be imperative for a scraped knee filled with playground rubble and dirt. A slight bump on the head may not warrant the trauma of trying to apply an ice pack to a child who’s screaming, “NO!” A severe burn, however, will certainly require cold soaks, even if your pint-size patient screams and struggles during the entire treatment. In most cases, try to treat injuries at least briefly—even a few minutes of ice on a bruise will reduce the bleeding under the skin. But abandon the treatment when its benefits are outweighed by the child’s upset.

49. Bruises or black-and-blue marks.
If the injury is painful, encourage quiet play to rest the injured part. Apply cold compresses, an ice pack, or cloth-wrapped ice (do not apply ice directly to the skin) for half an hour (or for as long as your toddler will sit still). If the skin is broken, treat the bruise as you would an abrasion (#50) or cut (#51, #52). Call the doctor immediately if the bruise is from a wringer-type injury or if it resulted from catching a hand or foot in the spokes of a moving wheel. Bruises that seem to appear from “out of nowhere” or that coincide with a fever should also be seen by a doctor. Also report tiny pinpoint bruises, or under-the-skin hemorrhages. (These are
petechiae,
which may occur on the face and neck when a child has been coughing a lot or crying very vigorously, on the extremities when clothing has been restrictive, or because of viral infection or other illness.)

50. Scrapes or abrasions.
In such injuries, most common on the knees and elbows, the top layer (or layers) of skin is abraded (scraped off), leaving the
underlying area red, raw, and tender. There is usually slight bleeding from the more deeply abraded areas. Using sterile gauze, cotton, or a clean washcloth, gently sponge off the wound with soap and water to remove dirt and other foreign matter. If the child strenuously objects to this, try soaking the wound in the bathtub. Apply pressure if the bleeding doesn’t stop on its own. Apply a spray or cream antiseptic, if your toddler’s doctor generally recommends one, then cover with a sterile nonstick bandage that is loose enough to allow air to reach the wound. If there is no bleeding, no bandage is necessary. Most scrapes heal quickly.

51. Small cuts.
Wash the area with clean water and soap, then hold the cut under running water to flush out dirt and foreign matter. Some doctors recommend applying an antibacterial spray or ointment before taping on a sterile nonstick bandage. A butterfly bandage will keep a small cut closed while it heals. Remove the bandage after 24 hours and expose the cut to air; rebandage only as necessary to keep the wound clean and dry. Check with the doctor about any cuts on your child’s hands or face or if a cut shows signs of infection (redness, swelling, warmth, and/or oozing of pus or a white fluid).

52. Large cuts.
With a sterile gauze pad, a fresh diaper, a sanitary napkin, a clean washcloth—or your bare (preferably washed) hand if necessary—apply pressure to try to stop the bleeding; at the same time, elevate the injured part above the level of the heart, if possible. If bleeding persists after 15 minutes of pressure, add more gauze pads or cloth and increase the pressure. (Don’t worry about doing damage with too much pressure and don’t remove the original gauze pad—you could disturb any clotting that has already begun.) If the wound gapes open, appears deep, is jagged, if blood is spurting or flowing profusely, or if bleeding doesn’t stop within half an hour, call the doctor for instructions or take the child to the emergency room. If necessary, keep the pressure on until help arrives or you get the child to the doctor or ER. If there are other injuries, try to tie or bandage the pressure pack in place so that your hands can be free to attend to them. Apply a sterile nonstick bandage to the wound when the bleeding stops, loose enough so that it doesn’t interfere with circulation. Do not put anything on the wound, not even an antiseptic, without medical advice. If stitches are needed, ask if self-dissolving sutures can be used to spare your child the added ordeal of having them removed. If the cut is on the face, consider having a plastic surgeon look at it.

BANDAGING A BOO-BOO

As a parent, you can expect to apply dozens, possibly hundreds, of adhesive plastic strips and bandages over the years, some large, most small. These tips make bandaging easier while helping booboos to get better faster.

Treat the injury appropriately (see individual injuries).

To improve stickability, always apply a Band-Aid or taped bandage to clean, dry skin.

On open wounds, use only
sterile
Band-Aids or gauze pads, which have not been opened prior to use. Don’t touch the face of the pad with your fingers; handle only the tape on Band-Aids and only the edges or back of a larger gauze pad.

Use nonstick pads and/or an antibiotic ointment to prevent the bandage from sticking to the wound. If a bandage does stick, soak it in warm water rather than trying to yank it off.

Except for cuts that need to be held closed, bandage loosely to allow air to enter. When using a Band-Aid on a toe or finger, be sure not to make it so tight that it cuts off circulation.

Remove the bandage daily to check how the wound is healing (the best time is during or just after a bath, when the Band-Aid is likely to be wet and loosened anyway, and will slip off without tugging). Rebandage the wound if it still looks raw or open. If a scab has formed on a scrape or a cut has closed up, continued covering is not necessary. Of course, if a Band-Aid-loving toddler disputes this, it’s okay to put on a new one. It may prevent the child from picking or scratching the scab and reduce the likelihood of accidental trauma to the boo-boo during play.

Change bandages more often if they become dirty or wet.

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