Your Soul Contract Decoded: Discover the Spiritual Map of Your Life With Numerology (4 page)

decide to live the life it has created for you. You have complete

free will on how you decide to engage with the life created by your

soul contract. However, it is the soul’s deepest desire that you

align with and manifest your soul Destiny, its real purpose for

incarnating.

A soul actually designs several different names in order to

create the life it desires. From the moment of conception, it subtly

communicates these names to its mother and father and some-

times other family members who will be involved in its naming.

The reason for having a selection of names is to give the family

a semblance of choice. Human free will is at play here, and the

soul wants to ensure that it gets what it came for with the life that

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is created by the name that is finally chosen. This is the reason

why there is only a small selection of names that appeal to parents

when naming a baby. Parents often have a good feel for some part

or all of the name prior to birth. But when the child is born, the

soul energies which are progressively embodying throughout

the pregnancy fully enter the reality, and the parents and family

can then fully feel who this newborn being is. This then enables

them to finalize the name. This includes Uncle Bernie, changing

the spelling of the name on the way to the registry office after the

parents have told him the name they want for the child. There are

no accidents here in the naming process. The sum total of all the

family input produces the right name for the child that the soul

desires 98% of the time.

occasionally, the family gets the naming process wrong and

a soul ends up with a name which doesn’t fit its true purpose on

Earth. You can tell these kind of people because their life just

doesn’t work. They seem out of sorts, and the soul doesn’t seem to

fit into the conscious ego personality construct the incorrect name

has created. These people need their name optimized to correct

this problem. This can be undertaken by an experienced soul

Contract Reading practitioner to realign them to the soul’s true

energies, in order to get their lives back on track (see appendix c).

The dimensions we exist in

let me share with you a model for the dimensions we will be using

in this discourse. There are 12 dimensions in this model, and we are

concerned with the 3rd through 6th dimensions. The 3rd dimen-

sional Earth plane, where you find yourself in a physical body, is

where a major part of our consciousness, which is stretched over

all the dimensions, is focused at this time. You are made up of

densified Light – Spirit that has lowered its vibration sufficiently

to coalesce into matter-based physical form. The 4th dimension,

which is the next vibrational level up from the 3rd dimension, is

called the astral plane. it is where souls go when they leave the

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physical body. Here, thoughts, emotions and feelings manifest

much more quickly into reality. The game of separation from

spirit is played out in the 3rd and 4th dimensions as we have polar-

ity consciousness here, light versus dark, good versus evil. This

is where we experience ourselves being separated from spirit in

consciousness. The 5th dimension is where you feel connected to

all That is, to all life. You are aware that you are a multidimen-

sional being stretched out over all the dimensions of existence.

The 6th dimension holds the higher dimensional templates for

your human DNa. This is where consciousness creates through

thought (see
What Is Lightbody
by Tashira Tachi-ren for more

information; Ref 2).

How you actually create your reality

The energies of the birth name in the form of the soul’s contract

are stored in the physical body and energetic bodies within a sub-

stance called karmic matrix. This is a grey cobweb-like substance

that is present on the 4th, 5th and 6th dimensional parts of our

being. The 3rd dimensional Earthly reality we live in is not like

some static box which we incarnate into and go about the process of

life seemingly separate from the reality. as the karmic matrix radi-

ates your soul contract programming outward from your physical

and energetic bodies, the Earthly reality, which is completely fluid,

rearranges around whatever program(s) you are transmitting. This

is the actual mechanism of the law of attraction in action, where

like attracts like. This is where you draw to yourself whatever is

resonant in your conscious and mainly unconscious feelings and

thoughts.

Now that you are aware that reality is ultimately rearranging

around the sound of your birth name, you can consciously focus

your feelings and thoughts on manifesting what you truly desire

in life. However, what seems to happen in practice is that, as you

focus on what you desire, you initially create the opposite of this.

This is often puzzling to people who are just starting to consciously

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use the law of attraction and can lead them to say, ‘The law of

attraction doesn’t work!’

The Law of Opposites

The reason that the law of attraction doesn’t appear to work ini-

tially is that there is a second law called the law of opposites that

activates at the same time as you start to use the law of attraction.

The purpose of the law of opposites is not to stop you from

getting what you desire in life. its job is to create a negative con-

trasting context, the opposite of what you say you desire, so you

can get really clear on what you wish to create and experience. The

door is not closed to our true desires which is how many interpret

situations in their life when they are not aware that the law of

opposites has activated. The door is actually open; all you need

to do is to keep focusing on your now refined desire of what you

wish to create and walk through the door – and it will eventually

manifest for you.

i will give you an example of this. i needed to buy a second-

hand car. i had decided upon the make, model and the maximum

price i was prepared to pay. i also wanted it to be in top condi-

tion. I found one on the Internet that appeared to fit the bill and

arranged to view it. it turned out to have been trashed by its previ-

ous owner. i was crestfallen and thought to myself that i must have

seriously messed up using the law of attraction to manifest my

perfect car. Then I remembered the Law of Opposites. Rather than

going deeper into a spiral of despair, i pulled myself out and said

to myself, ‘i’m getting the exact opposite of what i desire. The law

of opposites is creating this. Therefore, i must be really close to

getting the perfect car in very good condition that i do desire.’ That

evening, i maintained my focus on my perfect car, and i was on the

internet again and found another car that matched my require-

ments. I rang the dealer immediately and arranged to view it first

thing the next morning. When i viewed the car, it met all my

requirements and was in pristine condition, so i bought it on the

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spot. i managed to manifest this because i maintained the focus of

my feelings and thoughts on what i desired. i did not get caught in

the trap of focusing on what i didn’t want. For if i did this, i would

just get more of the same old stuff happening which is what most

people do unknowingly throughout their entire life.

let’s step back and look at the much bigger context of our

lives. it is actually the programming within your soul contract that

is initially creating everything in your life which is the opposite of

what you are to become while incarnated here on Earth. The key to

a fulfilling life through the manifestation of your Soul Destiny/Life

Purpose is to become conscious of this important way in which

Earthly reality works. once you understand this secret, you can

then consciously work to transmute this deep, underlying, uncon-

scious programming in your soul contract that is generating this

undesired negative context in your life. as you do this, you will

start to gradually manifest more of what you truly desire.

The law of opposites is explored in great depth in Neale

Donald Walsch’s excellent book
Happier Than God
(Ref 3). Your

Soul Contract initially creates a specific subjective reality for you.

This is the opposite of what you truly desire and is coming from

within you and not being ‘done’ to you in any way, shape or form

although your ego may perceive it this way. it is important not to

fall into this trap of unconsciousness; otherwise, the ego will keep

you in a place of suffering which is its primary
modus operandi
.

For example, if a soul has decided prior to incarnation that

it wishes to re-experience itself as the part of all That is that is

coming back into its power, it will initially program a life of dis-

empowerment into the soul contract. This is where it manifests

people and situations around it that create the experience of

feeling like a victim. The purpose of this is not for the ego per-

sonality expression of the soul, which is a brand new construct in

each lifetime, to stay in the place of being a ‘victim‘. it is actually

the opportunity for it to decide not to participate in this victim

consciousness reality any more. it can then move towards a place

of empowerment of itself and others as part of the soul’s mission

here on Earth.

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another example is a soul that wishes to become a good com-

municator and teacher. it would initially program in shyness and

unworthiness, within the ego personality, to be eventually over-

come so it can express its many lifetimes of great wisdom from the

very depths of its being.

a soul may not visit Earth very often, but has decided to incar-

nate to experience the heavily polarised human emotions on Earth,

such as joy and pain, depression and ecstasy, anger and serenity.

initially, it may not embody fully so that the ego personality is not

very present or grounded in the body. The result of this is that it

cannot feel emotions very well, is not emotionally present with

people and cannot relate well to the reality as a result. The purpose

of this initial negative context is for the soul to fully embody and

learn to navigate the emotional soup of the Earth plane – to be

able to eventually learn to properly connect and relate to people

and society.

Your karma is your greatest gift

Within the primary karmic challenges you face in your life lie the

gifts you are to bring into the world. You probably did not want

to hear that! Most people turn away from the hard stuff that

they manifest in their life through unconscious behaviour such

as numbing out, addictions and general avoidance of these chal-

lenges. This is caused by all the fear generated in the ego when it

comes to facing them. For your life to happen, these karmic chal-

lenges which have been sabotaging your life need to be accessed at

a deep level. They need consciousness to be brought to them, and

they need to be felt. The fear within the ego mind needs to be over-

come as it is blocking you from feeling and healing your karmic

challenges. Fear is only ever in the mind, it is never outside you.

For as you are an integral part of all That is, everything outside

you, which the ego can create a fear around, including people,

things and situations, is actually only part of you. it is only the

ego’s fear itself that creates a so-called threat to you, not the per-

ceived external ‘threat’ itself.

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You can overcome your ego-based fears by bringing con-

sciousness to them. This is undertaken by first feeling the negative

emotions generated by your karmic challenges. This is the last

thing your ego wants you to do. For the more deeply you can bring

feeling-based consciousness to a karmic program, the more easily

it can be healed and transformed layer by layer into positive quali-

ties (see appendix E: 1). These are your gifts of service, the gold

you are to bring forth and share in the world. This is an integral

part of why you came to Earth in the first place. Once you start to

claim your gifts of service, your life will begin to truly unfold.

Decoding your soul contract using the process in this book

will give you specific recommendations on how to undertake this

process. Once you have done a sufficient amount of clearing of

your karmic patterns, you will reach a place that i call the thresh-

old of Soul Integration. This is where a sufficiently high enough

level of your soul’s energy is now transmitting through the limi-

tations of your ego separation programming and your being as a

whole. This will then enable you to really start to manifest your

true service here on Earth. For true manifestation comes from