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derson 1989, 140). This solution was available to the Rabbis as well, but they vehemently rejected it. The story of Ben-Azzai is an index of how much energy was required to combat the attractiveness of the celibate life.
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Extravagant praise of the married state, which occurs over and over in rabbinic texts, is a marker not of how happily married the Rabbis were but of how much pressure against marrying there was in their world. Celibacy provided an attractive "out" from the world's pain, and, moreover, the life of the purely spiritual seeker of wisdom was the ideal of much of the circumambient culture, both Jewish and non-Jewish.
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Rabbinic culture, accordingly, is beleaguered with a constant unresolved tensionalmost an antinomybetween the obligation to marry and the equal obligation to devote oneself entirely to the life of Torah-study (Fraade 1986, 275). In contrast to other cultural formations, both Jewish and non-Jewish, which formulate the problem as a conflict between body and spirit, the Rabbis do not set this up as a hierarchy of values. The activities of the "lower" (reproductive) body were considered as important as those of the "upper" (speaking) body, but were acknowledged at the same time somehow to conflict with them, at the very least in that both activities competed for time and energy.
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Unless we remain aware of both poles of this tension, it will be difficult to account for many of the features of rabbinic culture. Rabbinic texts provide several attempts to produce social practices that would resolve the tension between marriage and the study of Torah, between sex and the text. We will see, however, that all of the proposed resolutions roused great opposition within the culture, as we can determine from oppositional discourses captured in the very texts that produce the "solutions."
A Rabbinic Romance
The Babylonian Talmud relates the following "biography" of one of its greatest heroes, Rabbi Akiva, a Palestinian authority of the second century:
4. Cf. David Biale 1989 for a reading along somewhat similar but differently nuanced lines. He provides further evidence for the attractions of celibacy and even castration for late-antique Jews.
5. Peter Brown's book is the most eloquent evocation of that pain and the response to it among early Christians. See also the important comments of Jeremy Cohen (1989, 114 n. 177).
6. For a somewhat different, partly complementary and partly contradictory account of these matters, see Eilberg-Schwartz (1990b, 22934). See also David Biale 1989 and Eilberg-Schwartz 1990a.
 
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Rabbi Akiva was the shepherd of Kalba Savua'. The daughter of Kalba Savua' became engaged to Rabbi Akiva. Kalba Savua' heard and cut her off from any of his property. She went and married him in the winter. They used to lie in the hay-barn, and he would take hay out of her hair. He said to her, "Were I only able, I would give you a 'Jerusalem of Gold!'"
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Elijah the Prophet came and appeared to them as a person crying out at the door. He said, "Give me some of your hay, for my wife is giving birth and I have nothing for her to lie down on." Rabbi Akiva said to his wife, "You see, there is someone who doesn't even have hay." She said to him, "Go and sit in the House of Study.'' He went for twelve years and studied with Rabbi Eliezer and Rabbi Yehoshua. At the end of twelve years, he came home. He heard from behind his house, a certain rogue saying to his wife, "Your father treated you suitably. First of all, he [Rabbi Akiva] is not of your kind, and moreover he has left you a grass widow all of these years." She said to him, ''If he were to follow my wishes, he would remain for another twelve years." He said, "Since she has given me permission, I will go back." He went for another twelve years. He came with twenty-four thousand pairs of disciples. Everyone came out to receive him, and she also came out to meet him. That rogue said to her, "Where do you think you are going?" She said, "'The righteous man senses the need of his pet' [Prov. 12:10]."
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She came to show herself to him. The Rabbis were pushing her aside. He said to them, "Leave her be. That which is mine and that which is yours is really hers!" Kalba Savua' went and asked to be relieved of his vow, and he was released. In six ways Rabbi Akiva became wealthy from the property of Kalba Savua'.
(Babylonian Talmud Nedarim 50a)
This text may be seen to show several of the generic characteristics of romance. We have the topoi of the marriage for love obstructed by societal strictures and parental opposition, the triumph of the young lovers who resist the thwarting of their desires, and their eventual vindication even in the eyes of the original opponent of their love. Even so, it is impossible, of course, to read the story as either a representation of actual
7. A particularly precious sort of tiara.
8. "Pet" is not a literal translation, as pethood is an institution specific to modern culture. However, this translation comes closest to conveying the connotations of the relation between a shepherd and sheep in the pastoral Jewish culture, including the erotic overtones thereof. For the erotic associations of pet-keeping, see Shell 1985. "Beast" would be a more strict rendering, but would be misleading in its connotation. The use of this verse implies the solicitous (patronizing) care of a superior in the hierarchy for an inferior, not an ascription of bestiality. Thus, for example, it is used in Tanhuma on Noah 7, paragraph 1, to refer to the fact that God knew that Noah was righteous from among all of the human beings who existed then. I shall further develop these points in my reading of the story below.
 
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