Every Day a Friday: How to Be Happier 7 Days a Week (41 page)

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A blessing may look free, but the truth is it cost you something. Ruth’s blessing, her handful on purpose, came after she had buried her husband and after her father-in-law had died. She had suffered great heartache and pain.

I’m sure some of those workers said, “Hey, it’s not fair. Why is this lady getting all this free wheat when we have to work?” They didn’t realize Ruth had paid the price. She had proven herself as being faithful. She was taking care of her loved ones. God was rewarding her.

Don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for the favor, the honor, the joy, the peace, the victory that God has given you. Somebody paid the price. The Scripture talks about this: “I have given you a land for which you did not labor and cities you did not build, and you dwell in them; you eat from vineyards and olive yards you did not plant” (Joshua 24:13
AMP
). Those are generational blessings; God rewarding us for seeds other people have sown.

Just last week a gentleman stopped me and told me about bumping into my father on a street in downtown Houston back in the 1970s. My dad didn’t know this young man, but he was at one of the lowest points in his life. He had just dropped out of school and didn’t have any direction. My father came up to him and gave him one hundred dollars and said, “Young man, I don’t know you, but God has got a great plan for your life. You keep moving forward.”

That was a turning point in the young man’s life. He went back to school and earned a degree. Today he is a medical doctor with a very successful practice.

God takes pleasure in the prosperity of His children.

When I wear my blessings, I’m not only honoring God, I’m also honoring my earthly father who spent his life helping others. I’m honoring my mother, who has cared for so many. I’m honoring my grandmother, who worked tirelessly. I’m honoring my grandfather, who gave and served.

When you see me happy, healthy, blessed, and living well, I make no apologies. It’s the goodness of God being passed from generation to generation. I
won’t downplay it. I won’t make excuses. I know God takes pleasure in the prosperity of His children.

Brag on the Goodness of God

Our attitude should not be
Look how great I am. Look at what all I have.
No, turn it around:
Look at how great God is. Look at what the Lord has done in my life, in my family.

All through the day we should be bragging on the goodness of God. We may not have deserved it. We didn’t earn it. Many times it’s just another handful of blessing on purpose. Now, don’t let some negative, judgmental, jealous person, or even your own thoughts try to convince you to not wear the blessings God has given you.

If you will wear your blessings well, being quick to always give God the credit, then there is no limit to where He will take you. God will make you an example of what it means to live a joyful, blessed, prosperous, and abundant life.

As I noted in the opening chapter, we all have the power to choose happiness each and every day. That doesn’t mean we ignore our challenges or that we can always control everything that happens to us, but it does mean that, with God’s help, we can choose to respond to life’s inevitable setbacks and hard times with a positive attitude. You have the power to focus on solutions, to surround yourself with supportive people, to rise above criticism and discouragement, and to put your faith in God and trust His plan for your life. Be happy with who God created you to be and enjoy each day you are given as His gift. If you do this, I believe you will make every day a Friday.

CONTENTS

Front Cover Image

Welcome

Dedication

Acknowledgments

PART I
Don’t Give Away Your Power

CHAPTER ONE
Make Every Day a Friday

CHAPTER TWO
Don’t Give Away Your Power

CHAPTER THREE
Express Your Joy

CHAPTER FOUR
Bloom Where You Are Planted

CHAPTER FIVE
Enjoy the Journey

PART II
Know What to Ignore

CHAPTER SIX
The Right Perspective

CHAPTER SEVEN
Know What to Ignore

CHAPTER EIGHT
Silencing the Voice of the Accuser

CHAPTER NINE
A No-Excuses Life

CHAPTER TEN
You Can Have the Last Laugh

PART III
Live Without Crutches

CHAPTER ELEVEN
Living Without Crutches

CHAPTER TWELVE
Don’t Live for the Approval of Others

CHAPTER THIRTEEN
Freedom from Competition

CHAPTER FOURTEEN
Connecting with the Right People

PART IV
Travel Light

CHAPTER FIFTEEN
Forgive So You Can Be Free

CHAPTER SIXTEEN
Overcoming Discouragement

CHAPTER SEVENTEEN
Dealing with Unexpected Difficulties

CHAPTER EIGHTEEN
Don’t Have a Critical Spirit

CHAPTER NINETEEN
Seeing Through Eyes of Love

PART V
Laugh Often

CHAPTER TWENTY
The Healing Power of Laughter

CHAPTER TWENTY-ONE
Smile, and the World Smiles with You

PART VI
Be a Dream Releaser

CHAPTER TWENTY-TWO
Help Others to Win

CHAPTER TWENTY-THREE
Be a People Builder

CHAPTER TWENTY-FOUR
Living as a Healer

PART VII
Celebrate Yourself

CHAPTER TWENTY-FIVE
Encourage Yourself

CHAPTER TWENTY-SIX
The Voice of Victory

CHAPTER TWENTY-SEVEN
Wear Your Blessings Well

Also By Joel Osteen

Copyright

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