Instant Orgasm: Excitement at First Touch (2 page)

Kelley Blewster

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Contents

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Chapter 3

PleaSure Training 49

Inheriting Information 50

Training Your Partner to Give You Pleasure 52

Training Your Partner to Receive Pleasure 55

Putting the Training Together: Receiver and Giver 59

Requests, Suggestions, Commands 60

More Instant-Orgasm Training 61

Talking while Pleasuring a Man 63

Asking for What You Want 64

Connecting the Brain to the Genitals 65

Chapter 4

ParTnered PleaSure 67

Pleasuring a Partner: Some Basics 68

More on the Importance of Acknowledgment 69

Addressing a Negative Occurrence 71

Dealing with the Verbally Challenged 72

Feel the Heat 72

Point-and-Feel Orgasm 73

Performance Anxiety 74

One Stroke at a Time 75

Graduating to More Strokes 75

The Importance of Confidence 76

Noticing and Appreciating Her 77

Time to Touch 78

Handling Resistances: Enemies of Turn-On 79

Integrity 80

Getting into Agreement 81

A Tangent? 82

Reasserting Control 83

The Role of Chemistry 83

Hand Placement (on a Woman’s Body) 85

More Signs of Resistance 86

Co ntents

Chapter 5

a VarieTY Of PleaSurable TOucheS 91

Pulling, Stretching, and Applying Pressure 92

Exposing Her Clitoris 93

Pressure on the Lower Abdomen 95

Pressure on Her Entire Vulva 95

Squeezing His Penis 97

More Ways to Touch a Woman 99

Lubrication 100

Lubricating a Man 103

Touchdown 104

Retracting the Hood 104

Stroking the Lower Clitoris 107

Placement of Your Second Hand 107

Chapter 6

adVanced TiPS fOr creaTing OrgaSMS 109

Control and Confidence 110

Giving Orgasmic Pleasure to an Untrained Woman 111

The Position 113

Challenges 115

Touching 116

Finding the Right Pressure 118

Crotch Diving 120

Instant-Orgasm Training 120

Touching a Trained Woman 121

Ready, Set, Clitoris 123

The First Peak 124

Different Strokes 124

More Positions 125

Fun or Work? 127

The Surround Stroke 127

Chapter 7

The PleaSure Of Peaking 130

Slowing Down and Taking Breaks 131

Specific Frames 133

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The material in this book is intended to provide a review of information re- garding sexual techniques. Every effort has been made to provide accurate and dependable information. We believe that the sensuality advice given in this book poses no risk to any healthy person. However, if you have any sexu- ally transmitted diseases, we recommend consulting your doctor before using this book.

The publisher, authors, and editors, as well as the professionals quoted in the book, cannot be held responsible for any error, omission, professional dis- agreement, or dated material, and are not liable for any damage, injury, or other adverse outcome of applying any of the information resources cited in this book. If you have questions concerning the application of the informa- tion described in this book, consult a qualified professional.

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List of Illustrations

Figure 1. Female genitals 33

Figure 2. Spreading apart the inner labia 34

Figure 3. Applying pressure to the mons area 35

Figure 4. Exposing the clitoris 35

Figure 5. Pressing on abdomen while stroking penis 37