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Authors: Diane Warner

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Vows for Those Who were Childhood Sweethearts
"__________________, we have known each other since childhood when we played together in my back yard, making pancakes in the sandbox and swinging each other high on the rope swing that Dad hung in the apple tree. We were in preschool together at Mrs. Meredith's, and elementary school, too. Then, in junior high and high school, we spent many hours together as we studied for exams and attended the games and the school dances. When was it we fell in love? When we were 18? Or, 16? Or, maybe when we were 10...for it seems that I have always been in love with you, and I've always wanted you to be my husband/wife. And now, today, we stand here, in the presence of our family and friends, and commit ourselves to each other, to be faithful and true to each other for the rest of our lives. I love you, ______________, and I am so thankful we met at such a young age and that our friendship grew into a deep marriage-type love. I commit myself to you this day, ______________, and I promise to be your faithful husband/wife, to love and cherish you, in sickness or in health, in good times or bad, for richer or poorer, from this day forward and forevermore."
"Remember when we were children and we used to dress up and pretend we were bride and groom? Those were days of playful childish fantasies, but today is for keeps. Today you are a real bride/groom, and I am a real groom / bride...no more childishness...no more games of pretend. Today, as I give myself to you as your bride/husband, my mind is clear and my commitment is strong and without reservation as I
 
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take you to be my life's partner. I will never leave you nor forsake you; I will spend all my days at your side, and leaving behind childish things, we will share a lifetime of eternal, immeasurable love."
(Customize your vows to include how you met and your own childhood memories.)
"Today is the most important day of our lives, the day we put our individual pasts behind us and go forward into the future as one. We have thousands of memories of our past: our childhoods, our growings-up, the day we met, the day we knew we were meant to be. But today is the first day of the rest of our lives and we will build new memories together. There will be no more you; and no more me; but only us, from this moment on. I promise to try, with God's help, to be the best husband / wife I can be, so that our memories will be treasures for all the years to come."
 
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Chapter 3
Vows for Second Marriages
There is almost always a great deal of heartache when a first marriage dissolves, whether by death or divorce. The estranged man or woman is usually convinced he or she will never be the same again. Yet as time passes, wounds heal, and the individual finds someone special with whom to share his or her life. This is why most couples feel compelled to write their own personalized vows for a second marriagevows that encompass their special needs and feelings. I hope you find the words to express the feelings of your own hearts as you read these poignant, meaningful vows, written by brides and grooms who married again.
 
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"_________________, you are my new day, a beautiful ray of light that broke through the darkness of my despair. I thank God for sending you to me with your smile, your sense of humor and your loving spirit. I take you today as my wedded wife/husband, and I promise to love you and cherish you all the days of my life."
"_________________, you are my healer, my comforter, and the joy of my life. Your love has restored my torn, broken heart; your smile has healed my pain; and your caring spirit has rescued mine from the dark places. I love you, ________________, and I vow to be a faithful, loving husband/wife, to care for you, to comfort you and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live."
"I, _________________, take you, _________________, as my lawfully wedded husband/wife. I promise to love you and be true to you in sickness and in health, in good times and bad, always putting you first in my life. I thank God for rescuing me from my despair by sending you to me, my cherished treasure, His most precious, undeserved gift."
"_________________, I thank God for you and for the joyous light and peace you have brought to me at a

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