How to Become an Alpha Male For Today's Man (Learn How to Attract and Talk to Women) (9 page)

Your finish is not based on time you have to determine when that is. The closing of your conversation should have a listener begging for more. The listener should look forward to the next ensuing meeting with you. You have to bring them to this point without going overboard. When an alpha male arrives to this point he must
exit strong or elevate the conversational plateau. 

Meaning if you have accomplished a successful introduction and you decide you do not want it to end at this point then you must advance or upgrade the level of conversation. If you must continue that’s fine but take the listener deeper in order to keep them mesmerized.

The first crucial mistake an alpha male can make is to become accustomed to hearing and liking his own voice and become enthused only for himself and will continue to prolong the same point not even noticing the listeners expression of boredom. They too have become the listener. They have egotistically fallen too far in love with their own thoughts and words.

This can and must be avoided. You must have in your mind what it is you are set out to do and do just that. At that point or peak of your conversation is where you’ll find your moment to take what you are seeking so you should consider concluding at this time with a bang.

Leave the listener with the intention of another encounter. Once you have achieved that status then you must close the conversation. If you continue wordplay with the same respondent they will soon figure out your strategy and develop one of their own to contest it. Remember time doesn’t matter in conversation for a few words can have the same if not more of an effect than many.

                  
LESSON 18. THE LAW OF ATTRACTION

This tool of power is governed universally by the concept that like attracts like. The thoughts of your mind are signals sent out which causes a vibration and eventually attracts you to what you are thinking. Thoughts are in some regard close to actions primarily because it is the first movement made before force is applied. In this same principle there is certainty that the mind can process thoughts which will eventually produce a similar reality. This is perfect for the alpha male as the new thoughts in your mind will assist you in your success.

We cannot go any further about becoming an alpha male without visiting this powerful tool. The law of attraction is by all means the reason behind our success whether we know it or not. Our vision of power and success starts in the mind. Therefore soon after the thought is made our walk and talk or demeanor begins to mimic this new vision.

Soon the people around us see us in this light. Eventually life begins to unfold in this desired fashion. This ability to attract that which you desire mentally is usually overlooked. It’s something the majority of people doesn’t recognize or give credit to. After this you will. You will have to try these exercises and log your results. Prove to yourself that the law of attraction has brought you to or put you in situations that will ultimately help you accomplish your desires.

In regards to an alpha male as far as dating is concerned this will be very useful. If your desire is to attract women of power or women of beauty then vision yourself being with these particular types of women. Sooner or later you will be put in situations to be able to either introduce yourself or at the very least the opportunity to do so. It will be up to you to take advantage of this opportunity.

The law of attraction teaches that the universe brings into existence that what your mind can manifest. In the book/documentary entitled The Secret this law and exactly how it works is thoroughly explained and I recommend also watching or reading this. 

The first thing to do is clear your head of all doubt. Clear your mind of any thought contrary to your goals. Picture yourself surrounded by beautiful women. Imagine yourself around women of power beautiful talented women and vision them obsessing over you.  Think of them wondering what is it about you that make you so magnetically attractive.  Keep your mind focused on this as if it already exists.  Practice this mind exercise when you go out, when you come in, when you’re alone and especially when you’re in an environment of intimidatingly beautiful women.

You may not even notice but this will also boost your confidence and in turn attract women. Feel as if you are already someone that’s sought after. Look and act it out as if you have things your way already. This will trigger a sense of curiosity in women and will evidently lead them to believe that you must have it your way.

Keep your mind focused steadily on the things you desire.  Soon you will notice that these things will naturally not supernaturally but naturally began to appear. You will master this goal if you say you will.

The definition of will according to Merriam Webster dictionary is used to express desire, hence will-power the use of energetic determination. You have to be determined in this technique and apply the energy of thought and use the power of will. It is something you will get use to and come to expect and that’s when you have mastered it. The most important part about this technique is writing down what you are using this law of attraction for. Write down and be specific about this goal, then write down everything that relates to this goal that happens from hence forth until you accomplish this goal.

Go back and study your notes this will make it easier for you to understand how to communicate your desires mentally and execute this powerful strategic law when you need to use it again. Another very important part to remember in order to make forward progress is to act on anything that comes into existence that is anywhere remotely close to what your goals are.

For example, if your goal is to meet a certain female who you can be friends with for travel who’s business minded. Don’t be surprised if you just so happen to be in the position to introduce yourself to an attractive lady who may be involved with a particular group affiliated with a travel agent. This is your opportunity drawn to you by the laws of attraction. You must take advantage of it or it moves on. 

LESSON 19. BONUS CHAPTER INTERNET DATING

The alpha male succeeds even greater and faster in this up and coming Eworld so use it to your advantage.

If you are not internet savvy then it will be in your best interest to do so. The internet has taken over pretty much everything that was done in a physical manner that we know of for example schools are online, banking, business deals, major conferences, networking, careers, and of course dating. Meeting new people by all means is the biggest trend with the internet.

How does the alpha male portray his image through the internet? In this lesson we will go over some neglected but simple tactics to ruling the internet when it comes to dating.

The alpha male is looked at as an adventurous man full of excitement. A spontaneous, interesting and intriguing man who holds some position of power
, or at the very least have a disposition that exudes power.  This image is the image that makes him adored and very much attractive.

This is the image that you must transfer to the internet. Most people ignore the message behind the pictures they post, not realizing that this is the story you are telling of yourself. Take the time to develop a story.

Create this interesting, intriguing life through pictures. Take the time to do a photo shoot if you are able to. If you cannot then take your camera phone or digital camera with a tripod or a friend and take as many shots as you can resembling those alpha male attributes.

Make them look professional. You can easily do it yourself by using adobe lightroom software for easy to use Photoshop effects or countless others. Pay attention to detail, your clothing the background the place it all must correspond to the image you are looking to portray.

Take this pictorial story and place it on every credible site you know of. Such as Facebook which has the largest database of people, the best known site for networking, and heavily used for dating. The best thing is it’s free, but don’t stop there.

Join three to five dating sites try to stray from free dating sites. The reason is most  of the free dating sites are fake and the profiles you see are far from real they are bought in bulk to increase traffic to the site. Some of the more sophisticated paid dating sites you will find less frustrating.

Take the time to put in quality information about yourself.  Continually add more professional pictures as time goes by. Start to post to your status daily this will increase awareness of you which will ultimately make you very popular. You will become known very quickly and when they enquire about you, which they will by looking at your pictures they will have feelings as if they know you and will develop an interest in seeing you in person or at least craving to know more.

This will put you ahead of all competition. Eventually that momentum you have worked so hard to get up externally is now gained speed internally on the internet. Your inbox, text and voicemail will be overflowing with messages. This gives you choice which enables power. This is the position an alpha male should be in, in regards to dating.

This is your start to becoming an alpha male and living a life of passion. Do these exercises regularly to adapt to the new you. Revert back to each lesson to refresh your memory as needed. This is the beginning phase for any man looking to learn to transform into an alpha male. I have written this EBook straight and to the point so you can implement this material into your everyday life directly.   I have noticed many EBooks on this topic that are double the size but miniscule in useful information.

Thank you for purchasing and reading How To Become An Alpha Male For Today’s Man, your feedback is appreciated.

I also welcome any email pertaining to any questions you may have or situations you may encounter in regards to dating or socializing as an alpha male where my unbiased advice is needed.

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Thanks again,

T.Mills