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by age group
Awareness Month
in brain
celebrities with
coping with
creativity with
as cultural
curing
defined
degrees of
developmental theories of
in DSM-III
environmental factors in
evolution of
extremes of
genetics of
geographically
hospitalization rate of
identifying
“nature vs. nurture,”
for older people
other disorders with
personality in
recreation with
research on
social factors with
symptoms of
time for
underrecognition of
in women
in workplace
Borderline Personality Organization (BPO)
Boredom
Boundary setting
BPD.
See
Borderline Personality Disorder
Brain, BPD and
Brain trauma
Bulimia
Campbell, W. Keith
Caregiving.
See
Families
Carroll, Lewis
Cat's Cradle
(Vonnegut)
CBT.
See
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy
Celebrities
Celexa
Centaur, The
(Updike)
Change
control with
effects of, on others
towards independence
initiating
job
leaving the past for
perfectionism and
practicing
in relationships
self-assessment for
Character
Childhood
abuse in
ADHD in
adolescence
caregiving in
conflicts of
criticism in
identity in
inconsistency in
intimacy in
leaving behind
in MBT perspective
moving in
neglect in
object relations stages of
parent-child attachment
pessimism in
self-esteem in
separation in
splitting and
suicide in
trauma in
Church
Clinging
Clozaril
Cluster suicides
Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Cognitive-perceptual distortions
Communication.
See also
SET-UP system, for communication
contradictions in
perseverance in
rejection of
Community, sense of
Competitiveness
Compliments
Compulsive behaviors
Computerized tomography (CT)
Conflict
childhood
choosing one's battles in
in marriage
in relationships
Confrontation
in group therapy
in psychotherapy
Consequences
acceptance of
in “Tough Love” groups
Consistency
inconsistency
in psychotherapy
Constancy
See also
Object constancy
Continuity, historical
Contradictions
Control
anger as
change and
with eating disorders
with emptiness
in job
parental
of relationships
rituals for
of self
by therapist
Coping mechanisms
See also
individual coping mechanisms
Countertransference
Creativity
Criticism
in childhood
reaction to
self-esteem with
CT.
See
Computerized tomography
Cults
Culture
BPD as response to
fragmentation of
materialism in
modern
relationships and
sexuality in
Victorian
Culture of Narcissism, The
(Lasch)
Custody, in divorce
Cutting.
See
Self-mutilation
Cymbalta
Dance therapy
Dating websites
DBT.
See
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy
DDP.
See
Dynamic Deconstructive Psychotherapy
Degradation
Degrees of borderline
Depakote
Dependency
in group therapy
SET-UP system with
on therapist
Depression
See also
Antidepressant medication
case study
compensating for
emptiness and
suicide and
Detached Protector mode
Deutsch, Helene
Devaluation
Developmental theories
Diagnosis.
See also Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders
dimensional approach to
of personality disorders
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders
(DSM)
classifications
DSM-III
DSM-IV-TR
state disorders in
trait disorders in
Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT)
Diana (princess of Wales)
Diary card, in DBT
DID.
See
Dissociative identity disorder
Differentiation
Differentiation phase
Dilantin
Discrimination
Dissociative disorders
Dissociative identity disorder (DID)
Divorce
consistency after
custody after
Domestic violence
Domination, as child abuse
Drugs.
See
Pharmacotherapy; Substance Abuse;
individual names
Dynamic Deconstructive Psychotherapy (DDP)
EAPs.
See
Employee Assistance Programs
Eating disorders
anorexia nervosa
binge eating
bulimia
control of
as secondary symptom
Eccentricity
Effexor
Ego
Elavil
Elderly, BPD in
Emotional blackmail
Emotional hemophilia
Emotions
avoidance of
emotional abuse
guilt over
negative
over-reactivity of
Empathy
Empathy segment, of SET-UP system
with anger
in case studies
with contradictions
with dependency
with emptiness
with impulsivity
with negativity
with object constancy
with victimhood
Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs)
Emptiness
control and
depression and
SET-UP system and
Endorphins
Engulfment
Enmeshment
Environment
Equilibrium
Existential angst
Expectations
in relationships
of roles
Exploratory psychotherapy
Facebook
Families
abuse by
caregiving in
control
demands of
dependence on
dual-income
extended
“faux family,”
heritability in
idealization of
reconciliation of
self-destructiveness in
single-parent
social roles in
structure of
therapist alliance with
Family therapy
Family tree
Fanapt
Fatal Attraction
Fatalism
Fathers
absent
abuse by
after divorce
alcoholism of
roles of
war veteran
Fault
“Faux family,”
“Fight or flight” response
Fonagy, Peter
Free association
Freud, Sigmund
Frustration
Future, fear of
Gabatril
Gambling
Gaugin, Paul
Gender.
See also
Women
defined
identity
roles
Generic drugs
Genetic reconstruction
Geographical mobility
See also
Relocations
Geodon
Gestalt
Giovachinni, Peter L.
Glutamate
Greene, Graham
Gregory, Robert J.
Grinker, Roy
Group loyalties
Group therapy
STEPPS
Guilt
over emotions
over mother
punishment and
Gunderson, John G.
Haldol
Hallucinations
Handicap
Helplessness
Hewitt, James
Hierarchy, of treatment
Hispanics
Histrionic personality
Hitler, Adolf
Holocaust survivors
Homeostasis
Hospitalization, case study
acute
BPD rate of
contract with
discharge from
goals of
long-term
partial
Househusbands
HPA.
See
Hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis
Hypnosis
Hypochondria
Hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis
ICE.
See
Intermittent-Continuous Eclectic Therapy
Idealization
of families
of mother
primitive
of relationship
splitting with
Identity
adolescent
in childhood
constancy of
diffusion
from external sources
gender
instability of
loss of
in modern culture
personality fragments
through psychotherapy
roles for
self-esteem and
separate
sexual
splitting and
Identity diffusion
Illness
Impulsive Character
(Reich)
Impulsivity
emergence of
from loneliness
pharmacotherapy for
self-esteem and
SET-UP system for
unpredictability of
Indecisiveness
Independence
change towards
in relationships
Individualism
Inner contentment
Insight
Insurance
Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP)
Intermittent-Continuous Eclectic Therapy (ICE)
Intimacy
in childhood
in relationships
Invalidation
Invega
Iraq War vets
ISTDP.
See
Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy
Jealousy
Jerry Maguire
Job
BPD in workplace
frequent changes of
moving for
structure of
Jonestown Massacre
Journal of Adolescent Health
Justice
Kernberg, Otto
Klein, Melanie
Kleptomania
Klonopin
Knight, Robert
Lamictal
Lasch, Christopher
Lawrence, T. E.
Legal system
Lennon, John
Lexapro
Librium
Life expectancy
Limits
Limping
Linehan, Marsha M.
Loneliness
avoidance of
impulsivity from
Loxitane
Luvox
Magical thinking
Mahler, Margaret
Mailer, Norman
Male menopause
Manipulation
anger at
of psychotherapy
through self-mutilation
through suicide threats
MAOIs.
See
Monoamine oxidase inhibitors
Marilyn
(Mailer)
Marilyn: An Untold Story
(Rosten)
Marriage
abuse in
conflicts in
divorce
Masochism
Materialism
MBT.
See
Mentalization-Based Therapy
Meaning, quest for
“Me Decade, The” (Wolfe)
Medical school
Medication.
See
Pharmacotherapy
Memento
Memories
Mentalization
Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT)
Microsoft
Midlife crisis
Miller, Arthur
Mindfulness
Missildine, Hugh
Misunderstandings
Mocking, in workplace
Monoamine oxidase inhibitors (MAOIs)
Monroe, Marilyn
Mood shifts
with affective disorders
to anger
as BPD symptom
living with
pharmacotherapy for
Mood stabilizer medication
Mother
critical
guilt over
intimacy with
neglect by
overinvolved
sexual abuse by
working
Movement therapy
Moving
Multiple personality disorder
Music therapy
MySpace
N-acetylcysteine

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