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HANDS + MOUTH = AMAZING ORAL SEX

Let’s do the math: Your mouth is capable of delivering a wild, wet wonderland of sensations. Mix that in with the many skills your hands now possess and the pleasure possibilities are virtually infinite. Even if you usually use your hands during oral sex to a certain extent, chances are you’ve barely scratched the surface of all the amazing ways your hands and kisser can work in tandem. It’s time to open your eyes to all of your options. To kick things off, let’s fill you in on a few general principles to keep in mind whenever you head downtown.

Your Hands Can Arouse What Your Mouth Can’t Reach

Your mouth is fairly small compared to the genitals, which means that whatever it’s licking, sucking, or nibbling, a lot of randy real estate gets left high and dry (if you’ve ever tried taking an entire penis in your mouth or tried reaching a woman’s G-spot with your tongue,
we think you know what we mean). Get your hands to help out, though, and problem solved: If your tongue is on clitoris duty, your fingers can provide some pleasurable penetration down below; or if your mouth can only manage to take in the first third of the penis, wrap your hands around the rest. And since your hands are pros at mimicking how your mouth and tongue feel, your recipient will enjoy both sensations equally and will merely be amazed at just how much territory you’re turning on.

Your Hands Can Free Up Your Kisser to Try New Things

If your mouth goes it alone and is the sole source of stimulation, it may feel a lot of pressure to stick with the old standbys (licking her clitoris, sucking his shaft) since these moves are almost guaranteed to satisfy. Let your hands step in and take over these essential stimulation duties, however, and your lips and tongue can start getting creative. Since the basics are covered, they can start experimenting with what one would typically consider add-on features such as cute little tongue swipes on his testicles or some playful pressure on her perineum. The result: a much more eclectic oral sex experience that is bound to leave your recipient satisfied.

Your Hands Can Teach Your Mouth a Thing or Two

Your lips and tongue may already know some pretty cool moves, but have you exhausted
all
of the possibilities? To expand your horizons, turn to your hands for pointers. Flip through
chapters 6
and
8
and try giving your mouth a crack at a manual move. On women, try Ringing the Doorbell (point your tongue and press down on the clitoris) or The Shimmy (take the inner labia in your mouth—a bit of suction can help—and wiggle your head from side to side). On men, try Rattie
On (open your mouth wide and bounce the head of the penis around inside, just be careful of your teeth) or Scrotum Yoga (gently pinch the middle seam of the scrotum between your lips and pull). By letting your mouth follow in your hands’ footsteps, you can begin thinking outside the box of your typical oral sex maneuvers and open doors to an array of new sensations.

Your Hands Can Fill In While Your Mouth Takes Breaks

If your tongue tires of wiggling, your lips start quivering, or your neck gets a crick, yet again, this is an instance where your hands can come to the rescue. Let your hands take over for a while so your mouth can rest up. And again, since your hands and mouth deliver strikingly similar sensations, your partner won’t care whether you’re using one or the other. He or she will just be glad you can keep going … and going … and going!

Your Recipient Can Lend a Hand, Too

Sometimes it’s nice to let your partner kick back and not lift a finger while you dine out down below. It’s also fine if your partner wants to pitch in and make this more of a mutual pleasure fest. He or she can give you a scalp massage, shoulder rub, or (if your position makes it possible) reach down and start petting your genitals. Finally, if they’re so inclined, oral sex recipients can put their hands on themselves. A man can play with his testicles while you fool around with his penis; a woman can massage her breasts or clitoris while you’re off on a quest for her G-spot. Since some people might feel strange or self-conscious touching themselves during sex, you may want to reassure your partner by saying what a turn-on it would be to see such a sexy sight. Honestly, as long as the end result is oodles of pleasure,
who cares whose hands are responsible? Our opinion is, the more hands, the merrier!

You Should
Still
Use Lube

Just because your mouth is on the scene doesn’t mean it should have to provide all the slip ’n’ slide for a satisfying experience. And besides, saliva evaporates quickly, so you’re bound to run dry before you’ve finished the job. If the taste of lube isn’t to your liking, try coconut oil (which has antifungal properties and reportedly can keep the vaginal environment healthier) or a flavored brand of lube, such as the aptly named Good Head Gel (which comes in mint or cherry) or Sliquid Swirl (available in green apple, blue raspberry, or cherry vanilla). Just keep in mind that some women’s vaginal environments may have a bad reaction to sugar or other additives; if so, try a homeopathic alternative.

Experiment with Different Positions

Your partner may typically receive oral sex lying down on a bed with you hunched over his or her privates, but this position can become a pain in the neck—plus it limits your access to certain hot spots you might like hitting. Luckily, there are plenty of other ways to situate yourselves for a satisfying time downtown. Here are a few ideas:

• The recipient sitting on the edge of a chair or bed with legs spread, with you kneeling on the floor between them. Since this position allows you to keep your head and torso vertical, you can avoid straining your neck. If your partner scoots forward far enough, you’ve got better access to back areas, including the testicles, perineum, and (if the person raises his/her legs) the anus.
  

• The recipient standing, with you kneeling in front. This is also a non-neck-straining position; plus if your partner’s legs are spread, this position provides better petting opportunities for the testicles, vagina, perineum, and/or anus.
  

• The recipient standing with one foot propped up on a chair or bed, and with you kneeling. Again, zero neck strain and access to all those nooks and crannies.
  

• You and the recipient lying on your sides in bed. Talk about relaxing—plus if you’re up for a little 69 action where you swap oral sex at the same time, all of your hands will be free to roam.
  

ORAL SEX ON HIM: HAND-AND-MOUTH COMBOS HE’LL LOVE

If you thought your guy loved blow jobs already, wait’ll he gets a load of the tricks you’re about to learn now. If you’ve read
chapter 6
, you should already have a handle on the manual portion of these moves (feel free to refer back to that chapter when necessary); now all that’s left is to add some mouth maneuvers. Here’s how.

TICKLING THE FRENULUM

Best when he is erect, lubrication a must

Now that your hands can take over some stimulation duties, a prime place for them to start is the shaft. Using lube, wrap one or both hands around his pillar and start pumping. Meanwhile your mouth can turn to more detailed work, like licking the frenulum—an extrasensitive erogenous zone located on the front side of the penis just below the head. Gently swipe your tongue from side to side on this tiny spot; for added variety use the underside of your tongue, which has a much silkier texture. When you combine this with your hands’ actions, he may light up like a Christmas tree.

TAUT AS A DRUM

Best when he is erect, with or without lubrication

Begin this move just like The Juicer from
chapter 6
, where you hold his penis at the base and pull down. This will tug the skin taut, exposing more nerve endings and increasing his scepter’s sensitivity. Now just about
any
move your mouth makes will feel even more scintillating. Try licking or sucking the head, and his heat-seeking missile will love every minute.

THE SOUND OF ONE PENIS CLAPPING

Fine when he is erect or soft, with or without lubrication

Stick out your tongue and flatten it. Then, keeping your head and tongue stationary, hold his penis at the base and quickly shake it from side to side so that the head slaps and slides against your tongue. This technique (a hybrid of Shake, Rattle, and Roll and Patty Cake from
chapter 6
) combines two very invigorating sensations: wild shaking, plus tiny tongue lashings. Together they’ll send his nerve endings into a tizzy.

O MY

Best when he is erect, with lubrication

Curl your fingers into an O and place your lips around the edge. Then lower your hand and mouth onto his penis and move them up and down in unison. This classic move creates the illusion that you’re taking
all
of him into your mouth when, in fact, your hand is doing most of the heavy lifting. If your mitts are well lubricated, this will only further convince him that your hands and mouth are one and the same.

SQUEEZE ME, TEASE ME

Best when he is erect, with or without lubrication

With your tongue circling the extra-sensitive head of the penis, take your thumb and forefinger and perform Cock Shiatsu from
chapter 6
: Form a ring around the base of the penis, tighten the ring for about one second, then release. Next, move your “ring” up half an inch and squeeze again, continuing up the shaft. Unlike your usual rubbing motion, this will stimulate tissue
underneath
the skin and boost circulation, leading to a bigger erection that will enjoy your teasing tongue licks up top all the more.

EVERY WHICH WAY BUT LOOSE

Best when he is erect, lubrication a must

This technique stimulates his penis in four directions—up, down, and side to side—which is sure to throw his lust meter for a loop. To do it, take the head of his penis in your mouth and move up and down while you take the shaft of his penis between your palms. Slide your hands side to side as if you were trying to start a fire or wrap one or both hands around the shaft and twist. Keep your hands and mouth in motion simultaneously, and it’ll send him to an alternate pleasure plane.

THE PENIS WHISPERER

Best when he is erect, with or without lubrication

After doing any of the previously described maneuvers, grab his penis at the base and hold it still. Then pucker your lips and blow on the head. This will cause moisture to evaporate, which will give him chills. Consider it the perfect refreshing pick-me-up between rubdown rounds.

THE HUMMER

Fine when he is erect or soft, with or without lubrication

This technique combines Good Vibes from
chapter 6
with a mouth move that will amplify its sexy effects. To start, place your fist against the area between his testicles and his anus. Start vibrating your fist, which will stimulate his perineum and the prostate gland underneath. At the same time take his penis in your mouth and start humming (or moaning if that feels more natural). Your vibrating vocal chords will transmit pleasurable ripples throughout his package. These vibrations paired with the pulses reverberating up from his perineum are bound to give him a buzz. If he moans on top of it, all the better.

TESTICLE TEASER

Best when he is erect, with or without lubrication

Using your thumb and index finger, form a ring around the base of the testicles and gently pull them away from his body so that the skin is taut. This exposes more nerve endings, upping the area’s sensitivity levels. Start licking his family jewels and you’ll have one grateful guy on your hands.

ON THE EDGE

Best when he is erect, with or without lubrication

Similar to the Testicle Teaser, this move also requires that you encircle the base of his scrotum and gently pull it away from his body. Only this time you’ve got an entirely different purpose in mind: to delay ejaculation. Since these two little sperm factories tend to ride up right before he goes off the deep end, gently pulling them away from the body will help keep his grand finale on hold. Take his penis in your mouth and see how long you can keep him in this delicious limbo—the longer, the better.

LORD OF THE RINGS

Best when he is erect, with or without lubrication

This move is a combination of the Testicle Teaser and Taut as a Drum. With one hand, form a ring around the base of the penis and slowly pull down; with your other hand form a ring around the base of his testicles and gently tug them away from his body. Now that the skin in both areas is stretched taut and primed for pleasure, let your tongue flit back and forth between them.

MORE PROSTATE, PLEASE

Fine when he is erect or soft, lots of lubrication a must

This technique combines oral sex with some rear end activity, so make sure you’ve read
chapter 9
before trying it. Out back, slowly insert a finger into the anus and perform The Prostate Tickler, where you crook your finger in a come-hither motion on the front wall of the rectum around three inches in. Meanwhile, stimulate the prostate from the
outside
as well by pressing up on the perineum, the area between his anus and his testicles. Finally, let your mouth work its magic up front by taking the head of his penis in your mouth.

ORAL SEX ON HER: HAND-AND-MOUTH COMBOS SHE’LL LOVE

Treating a woman to an otherworldly oral sex experience is a cinch when your hands are involved. In
chapter 8
we showed you all the amazing things your palms and fingers can do down below (for a refresher turn back to that chapter). In this section we’ll show you how to weave in some mouth maneuvers. Together they may feel so good she may start racking up orgasms galore.