The Do's and Don'ts of Entering a Relationship (5 page)

  You do have to be careful about what you say when breaking up with someone, but if you’re mature enough about the situation then it doesn’t really matter too much about what you say because it will be coming from the right place. If you have made your mind up and you know that you don’t want to be in a relationship with that person, then there’s little that can change that. So staying strong and breaking the news gently will usually be enough to end things without it getting ugly. Everyone reacts differently to this sort of thing but what matters is how you react, and you basically have to be strong and logical about the situation. Try not to let your emotions get involved, just realise that there is no way the relationship is going to turn into a happy future so it’s best that you go your separate ways.

If it happens that your partner is the one who wants to break it off, you have two choices. You can choose to fight for your relationship and convince them that you should stay together and work things out, or you can accept their decision and move on. Now it’s hard for me to advise you on this without knowing what the situation is. But I would say this is something you should think about carefully, because I genuinely believe that life’s too short to be trying to win someone back who doesn’t want you. Especially when there could be someone right under your nose that just hasn’t had the opportunity to show you how they feel. But I also wouldn’t want to discourage you from fighting for love, because like many songs have said; it’s worth fighting for.

Well it’s about time I wrapped this up. The main thing I would hope people take away from the book is that you deserve to be happy, and not just settle for anything or anyone. When it comes down to it, we’re all part of the same species and so we all have the same ability and capability to do as well as one another in all aspects of our lives. No one has an advantage, some people just realise that they are entitled to anything they want. You just have to be willing to put the effort in to get it. Relationships are amazing things and with the right attitude and mindset you can set yourself up to have the time of your life in any relationship. I do strongly believe that if you know what you want and you are willing to wait until you’ve got it, then there is no reason that using the tips in this book wouldn’t lead you to the best relationship of your life when you do get what you want.

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