The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio (30 page)
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Authors: Violet Blue
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CHAPTER
14
References
Books
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Califia, Patrick.
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———.
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———.
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Videos
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Nina Hartley’s Advanced Guide to Oral Sex
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———.
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———.
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About the Author
VIOLET BLUE (
tinynibbles.com
) is a blogger, high-profile tech personality, award-winning bestselling author and editor of over two dozen books in five languages, podcaster, web TV show GETV reporter, technology futurist, and sex-positive pundit in mainstream media (such as CNN and
The Tyra Banks Show
). Her podcast Open Source Sex has been downloaded over 8 million times. Blue is a
Forbes
Web Celeb and one of
Wired’s
Faces of Innovation. She writes for media outlets such as
Forbes, O: The Oprah Magazine,
and UN sponsored international health organization, RH Reality Check. Violet lectures to cyberlaw classes at UC Berkeley, human sexuality programs at UCSF, tech conferences (ETech and SXSW), in addition to sex crisis counselors at community teaching institutions and Google Tech Talks. Blue’s tech blogs are
techyum.com
and vb.ly, and she publishes DRM-free audio and e-books at
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