Who Are You Meant to Be? (37 page)
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Authors: Anne Dranitsaris,
Identify where you are living in your Self-Protective System on the basis of your Predominant Style, as well as where you are NOT utilizing the talents and abilities of your Predominant Style. | ||
Living in SP System and/or not utilizing: | Yes | No |
At home and in my relationships with my partner, family, and/or children |
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At work in my job, with my boss and team, in my company, or at school |
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In social activities, with my friends |
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In leisure, through my hobbies and other interests or involvements |
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Currently in my life, I am demonstrating the following self-protective behaviors of my Predominant Style that I would most like to shift:
At home and in my relationships:
At work in my job or at school:
In social activities:
In leisure:
The following are possible reasons my predominant need is not being met, including any activators of my Self-Protective System that I am currently experiencing:
[Note: in addition to reasons such as environmental factors or behavior of others, consider your fears (e.g., “I am afraid of looking incompetent or being rejected”), your underlying beliefs (e.g., “I am lazy or undeserving”), and innate patterns of behavior.]
At home and in my relationships:
At work in my job or at school:
In social activities:
In leisure:
Some of the actions I could take so that I am more fully utilizing the talents of my Predominant Style or living from the Self-Actualizing System of my Predominant Style include:
[Consider changes that you might make or things you could ask of others so your predominant need gets met; what you might give up, such as being a martyr or the hero; new activities you might pursue.]
At home and in my relationships:
At work in my job or at school:
In social activities:
In leisure:
On the basis of the above assessment, I need to focus on the following areas of my life as my predominant need is not being met (answered Never or Some), I am living in my Self-Protective System and/or I am not fully utilizing the talents and abilities of my Predominant Style (select all that apply): |
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