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loved that drove this from a very hidden subconscious part of his

ego. This all came about from not being loved enough as a child by

his mother. she had been through the great Depression and had

been deeply imprinted with the program of enormous lack, that

there was never going to be enough of anything. John received the

bare essentials of life as a child – food, shelter and physical neces-

sities – but never enough love, so he was always looking for more.

at this time, John had got together with Naomi Jemma

Kelliher, his future wife. This woman shared great love with him,

and it was this that gradually melted the many layers of his ego’s

unworthiness program. She had a strong grounding effect on him,

and this, together with the fulcrum effect of his Spiritual Talent

8-8s, meant that he could feel his way through the unworthiness

of the karmic 3-3s. Bringing consciousness to a program such as

this is the key to clearing it. Because he loved her so dearly – it was

a powerful past-life soul connection they had – he opened up the

internal canal of the 3-3s and began to express his deep feelings for

her more and more frequently.

as he overcame this unworthiness to express himself, John

gradually transformed into a great communicator about his

housing and community ideas. a real leader was emerging as

he felt worthy enough to stand up and say what felt right from

the symbolic depths of the 3-3s. There was also a master teacher

emerging from within the internal canal of the 3s. it was all about

communicating the great library of soul knowledge and ancient

wisdom stored within the internal canal to the world – about

making a difference in what John regarded as the very short time

we spend down here on Earth in a single incarnation.

When John felt he had assimilated enough business structure,

he set up his own building business. It was financially challenging

at first as the unworthiness program negatively affected his cash

flow. Most months he only made ends meet as he found it hard

to know what to charge for his services, to issue invoices, and to

follow up and ensure his clients paid on time.

John dipped in and out of his business account overdraft more

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often than was comfortable. This was a product of the Double

letter: Poverty to Wealth programming of the 3-3s. it manifested

as a series of sporadic financial failures with some of his build-

ing projects. John learnt the hard way that he had to become

conscious of what his cash flow and expenses were doing and to

only spend money on the essentials to keep the business going.

He discovered that the karmic 3-3 unworthiness program wanted

to spend money so it would feel better about itself, even though it

did not after the actual purchase.

Because this is a Master Number, it takes a long time to work

through and can feel like it is never going to end. But the drive

from John’s soul was so strong that he persisted with the business

as the Physical Talents 21-3 meant he loved a challenge. He had

the ability to endure and overcome something like this in order

to make him very strong in the end. Eventually, he became much

more astute financially and would take his time when deciding

which new building projects to actually engage with. He did this

by allowing his initially ever-changing perception of the truth of a

situation created by the 2 of his physical karmic 11-2s to settle on

one consistent truth. Then he would sit and feel (spiritual Talent

8-8s) whether it was the right decision in his heart. if it was and

he made a business investment decision based on the spiritual

Signature, then he always made a good profit, the job went really

smoothly, and a good honest home was constructed.

once he had overcome the karmic drag of the poverty con-

sciousness of the 3s, John ended up making a lot of money. as he

had been through such a strong experience of poverty conscious-

ness for many years while establishing his business, he was still

very conscious and careful about how he spent his money.

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Spiritual Talents: 8-8

Keywords for the 8
:
Grounding; creating community

This is all about being able to relate to all sorts of people in society,

from the conscious all the way to those who are very unconscious.

This is the source of John’s great drive to create integrated com-

munities. He could see that Western society had actually devolved

into the breakdown of communities into isolated nuclear families

that put enormous strain on the parents and the 2.4 children as

they had little support around them in terms of other family and

community members. When people lived in smaller villages for

generations and built up community relationships over that time,

the mutual support network was much vaster and tighter. The

dispersal of people through much greater movement in modern

times has broken these bonds and resulted in a disintegrated

society where families over several generations are no longer living

close together.

John recognized this and made it his mission to recreate

sustainable communities where everyone worked together to

mutually support each other through life so that the experience

would be much more connected and fulfilling at all levels. He

was creating the modern equivalent of the village, in the form of

co-housing (Ref 28, 29) where members of the community have

common meeting areas to share meals and socialize. This resolves

many of the needs and demands of modern living from childcare,

so parents can work, being connected to and having a sense of

community again, to looking after the older members of the com-

munity in their own homes.

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Spiritual Goals: 5-5

Keywords for the 5
:
Truth, pioneer, visionary, teacher of teachers

John was a visionary, a pioneer in the creation of new ways of living

for people and grounding them into the world in a real physical

form. He helped move people from isolated nuclear family units

in large cities into sustainable, ecological, Vaastu (Ref 21) and

Sacred Geometry (Ref 22) co-housing developments in groups

of no more than 150 (Dunbar’s Number). This has been found to

be the optimal number to create and maintain a socially cohesive

community (Ref 31). He believed that we are not designed to live

in large, dense, urban conurbations.

John was learning to speak out about this concept that he had

held deep in his heart for a long time. This was no matter what

anyone else said. He experienced a lot of persecution for express-

ing his truth initially, but stuck to his guns as this was so important

to him. Eventually, his ideas became better accepted, and John

became a teacher of teachers. other people who were also explor-

ing ways to create better community for mankind came to study

with him and to learn how to teach his concepts to the world.

Soul Destiny: 13-4

Keywords for the 13
:
Here to learn to reconnect and surrender to

the love and flow of the Divine Feminine aspect of God

Keywords for the 4
:
Learning to totally trust in the flow of God,

the Universe, abundance, everything in life and to be worthy of

receiving it

John’s heart closed at an early age because of insufficient love from

his mother (13). she did the bare minimum to look after him. This

was only so he could overcome it. This caused him great pain so

he had put up a stone wall around his heart to protect himself. as

a result, he was selfish as a youngster (4) as he never trusted that

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there would ever be enough love or anything else in his life.

once John had overcome the poverty of the spiritual karmic

3-3s and moved into wealth consciousness, he started making a

lot of money. He was grateful to the Universe for what he received

and had a strong drive to share it with others (4), to give some-

thing back. He experimented with tithing. Back in biblical times,

the Hebrews used to give 10% of everything they earned to god in

the form of a tithe, as gratitude for what they had received. They

also knew that the more they shared, the more that would come

back to them. John started giving 10% of his income to people and

organizations that had supported him. He found that business

started to run more smoothly. Risky business situations seemed to

work themselves out for the better. New opportunities (East of the

4s) kept turning up. He realized that tithing was the best invest-

ment he could ever make and that the true flow of abundance in

life came from spirit, not from this 3rd dimensional reality. He

learnt to relax and trust in the flow of the Universe. Whatever he

intended, provided he followed the spiritual signature, eventually

came to him. He transformed the sharing into putting in com-

munity facilities in his housing developments at his own expense

as this felt like the right thing to do. The 13-4 is about learning to

take care of others, in this case in the form of building sustainable,

ecological co-housing communities (spiritual Talent 8-8s). it also

expands the spiritual goal 5-5s of being a visionary and pioneer

with his highly conscious co-housing communities.

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Case study 9: John Arnold Ford

SOUL CONTRACT READING

J O H N A R N O L D F O R D

10-6-5-14-1-20-14-6-12-4-17-6-20-4

6. Spiritual Goals

20-6 / 26 / 8-8

5. Physical Goals

1. Physical Karma

1-17 / 18-9

10-14-20 / 44 / 8-8

Soul Destiny

13-4

4. Spiritual Talents

2. Spiritual Karma

14-4 / 18-9

6-6-4 / 16-7

3. Physical Talents

Physical Karma

8-8

5-12 / 17-8

Physical Talents

17-8

Physical Goals

18-9

Spiritual Karma

16-7

Spiritual Talents

18-9

Spiritual Goals

8-8

Total

85 49

Soul Destiny

13-4

Dominant Vibration

8

Figure 24: Chart for John Arnold Ford

Physical Karma: 8-8

Keywords for the 8-8
:
Grounding in the body, forming clear emo-

tional boundaries by differentiating between his own and other

people’s emotional issues, learning to reach out and engage with

society

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arnold is the third partner in Michael William sampson and Bart

Alan’s architectural firm. He found it hard to ground into society

with the physical karmic 8-8s, which bridge his entire chart in

conjunction with his spiritual goal 8-8s, indicating it is a major

pattern to work through.

When he was younger, his mother was not really there for him

emotionally. she regarded him as an interruption to her career.

This lack of love was traumatic, and he numbed out as a result,

spending most of his time out of his body. as a baby, he needed

to emotionally bond with his mother so that he could feel safe in

the world, but this never happened. This resulted in him avoid-

ing connecting to anyone else for most of his life out the fear of

being rejected and abandoned again. arnold withdrew into an

emotional glass box (Asperger’s disorder, Ref 32) and from there

observed the world. He ended up living in his head, forming

mental body models of how emotions should be, but had never

felt the real thing and was not even aware of doing this. When he

was with people, especially women, he found it hard to be fully

emotionally present.

He just did not understand how people worked when he was

trying to relate to them and missed most of their emotional cues.

He tried to work it all out in his head as to what was going on, the

result being inappropriate responses. He became aware of this in

his 30s, but could not find a way to change this pattern. He felt

trapped in emotional solitary confinement in his glass box, an out-

sider, always excluded from the main groups of people he tried to

associate with. This included his family, other students at univer-

sity and people in general. He felt rejected, lonely and despairing.

Arnold had to learn what the different polarities of emotions

were: for example, joy and sadness, anger and fear. When things

got too emotionally intense for him, a feeling of wanting to die

would often come up, which was the ego trying to stop him going

deeper into his emotions. Being out of his body most of the time