Coming Around: Parenting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Kids (26 page)

  
1
  Erikson,
Identity and the Life Cycle.

CHAPTER 16: THE ONLY WAY THROUGH IS OUT

  
1
  Valerie Strauss, “The Funniest Commencement Speeches,”
Washington Post,
May 9, 2010.

  
2
  LaSala, “Gay Male Couples”; Lewis et al., “An Empirical Analysis of Stressors”; Halpin and Allen, “Changes in Psychosocial Well-Being”; Stevens, “Understanding Gay Identity Development”; Savin-Williams,
Mom, Dad, I’m Gay.

  
3
  Mohr and Fassinger, “Sexual Orientation Identity and Romantic Relationship Quality.”

  
4
  Vaughan and Waehler, “Coming Out Growth.”

  
5
  Cole et al., “Elevated Physical Health Risk among Gay Men”; Morris, Waldo and Rothblum, “A Model of Predictors and Outcomes of Outness”; Ragins, Singh and Cornwell, “Making the Invisible Visible.”

  
6
  Critcher and Ferguson, “Concealment and Ego Depletion.”

  
7
  Legate, Ryan and Weinstein, “Is Coming Out Always a ‘Good Thing’?”

  
8
  D’Augelli, “Developmental and Contextual Factors and Mental Health”; D’Augelli and Grossman, “Disclosure of Sexual Orientation, Victimization, and Mental Health.”

  
9
  Grov et al., “Race, Ethnicity, Gender, and Generational Factors”; Savin-Williams,
The New Gay Teenager.

10
  Floyd and Bakeman, “Coming-Out Across the Life Course.”

11
  Weinberg, Williams and Pryor,
Dual Attraction.

12
  Fox, “Bisexual Identities.”

13
  Bogaert and Hafer, “Predicting the Timing of Coming Out in Gay and Bisexual Men.”

14
  Doty et al., “Sexuality Related Social Support.”

15
  D’Augelli and Patterson,
Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Identities over the Lifespan
; D’Augelli, Grossman and Starks, “Parents’ Awareness of Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual Youths’ Sexual Orientation.”

16
  Heatherington and Lavner, “Coming to Terms with Coming Out.”

17
  Potoczniak, Crosbie-Burnett and Saltzburg, “Experiences Regarding Coming Out to Parents.”

18
  Claudia Dreifus,
Interview,
New York: Seven Stories Press, 1997.

19
  Schwartz, “With or Against Us.”

20
  Meyer, “Identity, Stress, and Resiliency.”

21
  Haas et al., “Suicide and Suicide Risk.”

22
  Meyer, “Identity, Stress, and Resiliency.”

CHAPTER 17: STAGES OF COMING OUT

  
1
  Cass, “Homosexual Identity Formation.”

CHAPTER 18: WHEN DEVELOPMENT DERAILS

  
1
  Heatherington and Lavner, “Coming to Terms with Coming Out.”

  
2
  Ibid.

  
3
  Holtzen, Kenny and Mahalik, “Contributions of Parental Attachment.”

CHAPTER 19: RESILIENCY AND HOPE

  
1
  Knight, “A Resilience Framework.”

  
2
  Borowsky, Ireland and Resnick, “Adolescent Suicide Attemps”; Rostosky et al., “Is Religiosity a Protective Factor”; Goodenow, Szalacha and Westheimer, “School Support Groups.”

  
3
  Saewyc et al., “Stigma Management?”

  
4
  Doty et al., “Sexuality Related Social Support.”

  
5
  Herrick et al., “Resilience as an Untapped Resource.”

  
6
  Lee et al., “Resiliency and Survival Skills among Newly Homeless Adolescents”; Milburn et al., “Cross-National Variations in Behavioral Profiles.”

  
7
  Legate, Ryan and Weinstein, “Is Coming Out Always a ‘Good Thing’?”

  
8
  Szymanski, Kashubeck-West and Meyer, “Internalized Heterosexism.”

PART IV: HEALTH AND SEXUALITY

CHAPTER 20: SEXUALITY: THE BIRDS AND THE BEES REVISITED

  
1
  Chandra et al., “Sexual Behavior, Sexual Attraction, and Sexual Identity.”

  
2
  Mathy et al., “Methodological Rigor with Internet Samples.”

  
3
  Kinsey, Pomeroy, Martin and Gebhard,
Sexual Behavior in the Human Female,
448–450.

  
4
  Kinsey, Pomeroy and Martin,
Sexual Behavior in the Human Male,
639.

  
5
  Reinisch,
The Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex.

  
6
  Hite,
The Hite Report on Male Sexuality
; Hite,
The Hite Report: A Nationwide Study of Female Sexuality.

  
7
  Hite,
The Hite Report on Male Sexuality,
45.

  
8
  Ibid., 811.

  
9
  Ibid.

10
  Hite,
The Hite Report: A Nationwide Study of Female Sexuality.

CHAPTER 21: HEALTH RISKS

  
1
  Pascoe and Richman, “Perceived Discrimination and Health.”

  
2
  Meyer, Dietrich and Schwartz, “Lifetime Prevalence of Mental Disorders and Suicide Attempts.”

  
3
  Ibid.

  
4
  Bostwick et al., “Dimensions of Sexual Orientation”; Herek and Garnets, “Sexual Orientation and Mental Health”; Meyer, “Minority Stress and Mental Health in Gay Men”; Lee, Griffin and Melvin, “Tobacco Use among Sexual Minorities”; Struble et al., “Overweight and Obesity”; Wilson, Zeng and Blackburn, “An Examination of Parental Attachments”; Haas et al., “Suicide and Suicide Risk”; Hall et al., “Estimation of HIV Incidence”; El-Sadr, Mayer and Hodder, “AIDS in America.”

  
5
  Marshal et al., “Sexual Orientation and Adolescent Substance Use.”

  
6
  McCabe et al., “Sexual Orientation, Substance Use Behaviors.”

  
7
  Lee, Griffin and Melvin, “Tobacco Use among Sexual Minorities.”

  
8
  Struble et al., “Overweight and Obesity.”

  
9
  Barnett, “Trends in Obesity Prevalence and Associated Health Risk Behaviors.”

10
  Austin et al., “Sexual Orientation Disparities in Weight Status in Adolescence”; Deputy and Boehmer, “Determinants of Body Weight.”

11
  Saewyc et al., “Sexual Intercourse, Abuse and Pregnancy.”

12
  Haas et al., “Suicide and Suicide Risk.”

13
  Remafedi, Farrow and Deisher, “Risk Factors for Attempted Suicide.”

14
  Haas et al., “Suicide and Suicide Risk.”

15
  King et al., “A Systematic Review of Mental Disorder.”

16
  Russell and Joyner, “Adolescent Sexual Orientation and Suicide Risk.”

17
  Kruks, “Gay and Lesbian Homeless/Street Youth.”

18
  Haas et al., “Suicide and Suicide Risk.”

19
  Grant et al., “Injustice at Every Turn.”

20
  Herbst et al., “Estimating HIV Prevalence and Risk Behaviors.”

21
  Padilla, Crisp and Rew, “Parental Acceptance and Illegal Drug Use.”

22
  Ryan etal., “Family Rejections as a Predictor of Negative Health Outcomes.”

23
  Kubler-Ross,
On Death and Dying.

CHAPTER 22: OPTIMIZING HEALTH CARE

  
1
  Obedin-Maliver et al., “Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender-Related Content.”

  
2
  Kreiss and Patterson, “Psychosocial Issues in Primary Care”; Kitts, “Barriers to Optimal Care.”

  
3
  Dohrenwend and Sharp, “Lesbian and Bisexual Health Survey.”

  
4
  Katherine A. O’Hanlan, “Top 10 Things Lesbians Should Discuss with Their Health Care Provider,” San Francisco: Gay and Lesbian Medical Association; Vincent MB Silenzio, “Top 10 Things Gay Men Should Discuss with Their Health Care Provider,” San Francisco: Gay and Lesbian Medical Association; Rebecca A. Allison, “Top 10 Things Transgender Persons Should Discuss with Their Health Care Provider,” San Francisco: Gay and Lesbian Medical Association.

  
5
  Kim, “Weighing the Benefits and Costs of HPV Vaccination.”

CHAPTER 23: BECOMING AN IN-LAW AND GRANDPARENT

  
1
  Fitzgerald, “Children of Lesbian and Gay Parents.”

PART V: THE FIGHT FOR EQUALITY

CHAPTER 25: MARRIAGE MATTERS

  
1
  O’Connell and Feliz, “Same-Sex Couple Household Statistics.”

  
2
  Renna, “Williams Institute Experts Comment.”

  
3
  Lofquist, “Same-Sex Couple Households.”

  
4
  Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life, “Religion and Attitudes Toward Same-Sex Marriage.”

  
5
  Wood, Goesling and Avellar,
The Effects of Marriage on Health.

  
6
  Riggle and Rostosky, “The Consequences of Marriage Policy.”

  
7
  Rostosky et al., “Marriage Amendments and Psychological Distress.”

CHAPTER 27: POSITIVELY GAY

  
1
  Sullivan, “Why Gay Marriage Is Good for Straight America.”

  
2
  Bybee et al., “Are Gay Men in Worse Mental Health Than Heterosexual Men?”

  
3
  D’Augelli and Grossman, “Disclosure of Sexual Orientation.”

  
4
  Riggle et al., “The Positive Aspects of Being a Lesbian or Gay Man.”

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