The Sex MANual: Uncensored (5 page)

Chapter 8

The Hottest Sex Positions You NEED to Know

You are well on your way to becoming a total stud in the bedroom. You now know everything about foreplay, how to make your woman orgasm, how to make her squirt, how to go down on her and how to avoid premature ejaculation. Now, you need to learn how to truly satisfy her sexually. All of the above do not even hold a candle to how amazing sex feels between two people; there just isn’t any comparison. Nothing can even come close to how incredible it feels to move as one and to both feel intense pleasure at the same time. There are no words to describe sex. It just is.

When it comes to sex, there are so many different ways you and your woman can experience that sensation. There are positions for every mood, want and desire. The position that you choose says a lot about the kind of sex that you want to have that night. The passion can range from loving to wanting to tear each other a part. No matter what mood you are in on any given night, the position that you choose can determine just how amazing the sex that you and your woman are about to have will be.

Each position offers couples something different to experience in the bedroom. There are some nights where all you want is to feel your woman close to you and feel her breath on your skin. Then, there are other nights where you pull at her skin and all you want to do is spread her a part. The position that you choose is important and to help you on your quest to being the best lover she has ever had, here is a list of some of the most popular sex positions that you and your woman can use:

Missionary
– This is the standard sex position that most couples will use on any given night. Missionary involves the man on top and the woman on the bottom. Even though this position sounds like it can really give men the power trip and the pleasure that they are looking to get, this position can actually become very mundane and repetitive. When you are on top each night and your girl doesn’t offer to change it up, this can make sex really boring.

To keep things spiced up, there are a few things that you can do to put your own spin on this position and to really drive your woman wild. A great way to change up the missionary position to make it more pleasurable for your woman is to place a pillow underneath her bottom. This will change up the angle of which you enter her. This small change can work wonders for you and for her. All of a sudden, you are having her titled in a different angle and this changes everything. Now, you are able to stimulate her g-spot and drive her totally wild all thanks to a pillow.

Remember to keep her on her toes as you two make love as well. While you are in this position, it is easy to get distracted and to focus on your pleasure and your pleasure only. A lot of men forget to stay in tune with their women’s needs. This is the biggest complaint women have in the bedroom. Don’t be one of these men. When you are on top, caress her body, squeeze her breasts, kiss her neck and just keep the pace going. Also, be watchful of what you are doing at all times. A lot of men are only aware of their bodies and their bodies alone. Try not to put all of your body weight on her to squish her and watch for her hair. You don’t want to rest your hand on a strand of hair and rip it out from her head. By learning how to maximize her pleasure during this position, you might actually be willing to use it every night if you know that she is going to orgasm as a result of using it.

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– With being on top, it doesn’t mean that it has to be the boring, same, in the bed kind of sex. You can still be on top and be in control even in different settings. One of the best ways to get your woman going through being on top is to do the scissor. Get your mind out of the gutter and remember that this doesn’t have to do with lesbians. What you want to do is have your woman lie down but instead of you lying down on top of her like you usually would, you will stand before her. This sounds pretty standard and it is until you pull this little move on her that her mind will be blown. Have your woman place her legs on top of your body with her feet by your shoulders. Now enter her and as you thrust, move her legs as if they were scissors. This is going to give her a whole new sensation. At one moment, she is going to feel open and loose with you driving into her and in the next, she is going to feel tight with your entire body filling up every inch of her. Pump this move up with a pillow underneath her bottom and it is going to be game over for her. She will never look at missionary again and neither will you.

Cowgirl
– The cowgirl position or woman on top might be every man’s favorite position not only because they get to sit back and relax, but also because they get to see so much more. Men are visual and this is something that women don’t always realize. You know that no matter how good sex feels, there is nothing like feeling it and seeing it. The cowgirl position can really give you that kind of sensation that you are looking for.

Unfortunately, the cowgirl position means that your woman has to be in the driver’s seat and this is something that some women have trouble with. A lot of women don’t want to be on top because they are self conscious about their bodies. This is why your woman wants you to get on top so she can lie underneath you and hide. It is hard for some women to want to get on top because they worry about what their bodies look like. Even though you think this is laughable because the last thing you are thinking about is what she calls her “belly”, this is tough for women. If you want to get your woman on top, you have to really get her in the mood and make her want to do this. A little love, reassurance and a lot of compliments do go a long way.

Even though some women may not be comfortable with being on top, you might just have to change up the angle and then it makes it easier for her. For example, your woman might feel really exposed being on top when you are in the bedroom because there is quite the distance between the two of you. However, if you are on the couch and she is on top, she is much closer to you and therefore, able to focus on sex and not her trouble spots because you can’t see them. Suggesting to have sex in the living room will not only spice up your surroundings but might help to get her to want to be on top.

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– Another way to get your woman on top in the bedroom is to suggest the reverse cowgirl position. Then, she is still on top and feeling you penetrate her in a different way, but in this position, she doesn’t have to worry about you looking at her imperfections because she is turned away from you. Now you both have free reign to make the most disgusting sex faces you can possibly make and not care about what your partner thinks. She doesn’t have to worry about her belly hanging out or her boobs flying around. The reverse cowgirl feels the same as the usual cowgirl, if not better so if you are looking for variations that will make your woman feel comfortable, then this is it.

Doggy Style
– This is probably the most coveted position of them all and the one that couples would agree is perfect for those nights when romance is completely out the window and all you both are focused on is sex. You can be rough with this position, carefree, dirty and you can put your own spin on it to make it whatever you want.

Most of the time, doggy style refers to a woman being on all fours and a man being on his knees behind her. This is how canines have sex so this is how it got its name. Men are able to thrust as hard as they possibly can, within reason of course, because of all of the leverage and room that they have. While in this position, you have two free hands to grab at her ass, smack her ass, scratch her back or pull on her hair. However, if you really want to heat things up in this position, give your girl the reach around. With the two free hands that you have, you have free roam to stimulate her breasts and her clitoris. You can truly maximize the amount of pleasure that she feels in this position and make it that much hotter.

Keep in mind that this position puts a lot of pressure on your woman. The angle of insertion and the way you move inside of her puts a lot of pressure on her genital area. Plus, most men feel the need to pull a part a woman’s cheeks when they are in this position, which tightens up a woman naturally and puts even more pressure on her. Sometimes, this pressure can actually become painful and that is something that you want to avoid. The best way to avoid this is to allow your woman to lie down on her stomach and have you on top of her that way. Now, that pressure is gone but you are still able to achieve the same results and pleasure. This makes from behind a bit more intimate and sensual, when the hair pulling and screaming aspects aren’t working.

The Spoon
– There are the nights when you don’t want to ravage your woman from behind, caress her as you make love on top or watch her bounce on top of you. Sometimes, you and your woman want to try something completely new and different. It is only a natural progression in a relationship to want to try something new and if you want to do that, then you need to have something waiting in your pocket for you to try.

For the nights when fatigue gets to you or when you are looking for an easy way to get pleasure without having to put in a lot of effort, the spoon position is perfect for that. You have more than likely heard of the spoon position as a way for you and your woman to cuddle either after sex or as you sleep, but have you ever used it as a sexual position? The spoon position is a low impact way of having sex that doesn’t require a lot of effort but that doesn’t mean that you don’t feel any pleasure from it. With your woman’s naked body lying in front of you and your body pressed against hers, it is a recipe for some sexy times to go down. All you have to do is get your woman to press her bottom into your pelvis, so she can get the angle right for you to enter her.

There are so many variations in this position that it is a shame that couples aren’t taking advantage of it. For example, in this position, you have so much control. You are not only able to thrust into her as you usually would, but you can really get in deep. You are centered and balanced and you won’t slip in this position. You can really get in there and please your woman. Not to mention, you have a free hand to roam freely over her body. You can stimulate her breasts, nipples and trace your fingers all over her skin. You can also give her even more stimulation by rubbing her clitoris with your fingers as you are inside of her. Be sure to remember this position the next time the opportunity for it arises. You never know – it might just become the new staple in your bedroom arsenal.

Up Against the Wall
– We always see it in the movies where men undress the woman, pick her up, press her against the wall and ravage her. However, it is not as easy as it looks and it is actually quite difficult. Keeping balance, pace and ensuring that your woman is satisfied are three things that you don’t want to have all on your brain at once. Sooner or later, something is going to backfire and things aren’t going to end in the way that you wanted them too.

This doesn’t mean that you are doomed when it comes to having sex up against a wall. All you have to do is find a way to make it happen so it is comfortable for you and your woman. This might mean that you have to put a little variation on it.

The best way to make this position work for you and your woman is to include something that helps her brace herself. This might include a nearby piece of furniture or something that she can put a leg on to steady herself. If you can locate yourself against a wall that can offer you both some support, then you can really let your animalistic qualities run totally wild.

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– All of this sex talk is probably making you want to take a cold shower, but why not turn that cold shower into a hot one by bringing your woman in there with you? Shower sex is totally hot and something that women absolutely love. There is nothing quite as sexy as slippery skin when having sex. The water just enhances everything and makes it that much more sexier and fun. You can press your woman up against the shower wall and get her from behind, or if you are strong and your shower can handle it, you can even pick her up and press her against the wall. Some showers come complete with seats so you can sit down and have your woman bounce on top of you. The possibilities are endless!

If you really want to make shower sex something that she will never forget, you must invest in a portable showerhead. You can already tell where this is going. Imagine things getting really hot and heavy with you taking her from behind. Now imagine grabbing the running showerhead and placing it on her clitoris. All it is going to take are a few minutes and your girl is going to want to collapse on the shower floor in a state of euphoric pleasure.

Even though things are wetter in the water, that doesn’t mean that you are free from lubing up your woman. Lubricant can slip off during shower sex and leave you both in pain from too much friction. Avoid this by picking up a silicone-based lubricant. This will last for a long time in the shower and make sex far more enjoyable. Shower sex is also beneficial because once you are done devouring each other, clean up is easy and you can leave the shower feeling refreshed, clean and satisfied. Forget the bedroom and slip into the shower the next time you both are craving each other.

The Lotus
– The above positions that were described are pretty standard when it comes to sex, of course only until you put your own spin on it. There are positions out there that are a bit more advanced and not only are they fun to try because they are new and different, but they are exciting because they are unique. The Lotus is just that. This position is different than the rest of them and actually far more sensual and erotic. Almost all women love a man who is comfortable to show his sensual side in the bedroom so if you can show her yours, then you can get inside of her in a way that she might not have experienced before.