The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio (15 page)

Don’t Stop

by Alison Tyler

She’s got the strap-on in place, and she comes toward the bed in a blur. I see pale skin. Sleek leather harness. Hard, pink cock. Then my vision vanishes as the black velvet blindfold covers my eyes and she easily fastens the Velcro at the back of my head. Ariel’s always quick at these moments, her fingers moving with speed and finesse. There’s never a false motion, never a wasted gesture.

“Suck it, Davey,” she says now, but the words aren’t necessary. My lips are already parted, meeting her toy and bathing the length with the heat and wetness of my mouth. I run my tongue over the ridges, meant to represent veins, the rippling bulges, the bulbous head. The taste is oddly erotic, yet totally unreal, as I’m sucking plastic instead of skin. But the erotic movements, those powerful thrusts that seal her body to me, are all her. Sex in motion. At some point, the cock will become her, as well, and I’ll lose my recognition of where Ariel stops and the tool begins.

“Harder,” she says, but I’m already there, fiercely working my mouth along the length, drawing her in deep. I know how to do this, although I’ve never gone down on another man, never even come close. Instinctively, I just know how to suck cock. Probably because I like to have mine sucked.

I try hard to swallow her toy down to the root, and she groans the way I would in a switched position, and then murmurs encouraging nonsense phrases to me. Words that have no meaning at all, but keep me going in the same direction. Her hands stroke through my short black hair. Her fingertips cradle my face, skim my evening shadow, trace over the bones beneath the skin. She is rough and gentle at the same time, and I need it just like that.

“Don’t stop—”

Fuck, is it good. As I lie on my back on the bed, my lithe baby positioned on my chest, the smell of her cunt reaches me easily. I know she’s getting wetter under that harness, can actually feel the liquid of her arousal spreading down the split of her thighs to my upper body. Rich and sweet, the scent makes me yearn to taste her, but it makes me sad as well because it means that soon—too soon—we will have to move onto something else. Another phase of the evening’s entertainment.

When Ariel reaches a certain simmering point, she is simply unable to wait. The tool will come off and her pretty pussy will be pressed to my face so that I can fully please her. Or she’ll move so that we can 69, releasing my wrists from the cold metal cuffs so that I can touch her naked cunt, stroke her ripe ass, slide my fingers into her holes. Or she’ll make me roll over and the cock will find its slippery wet way between my ass cheeks. Wet from my own mouth, that tool will thrust hard. Thrust home.

But right now, I’m allowed to swim in the pure pleasure of suckling. And I relish it. Closing my eyes, I do all the magic tricks I know to make her feel the way I feel when she goes down on me. Because, oh, does Ariel know some tricks. Right there in the forefront of my mind is the image of her between my legs, her hungry mouth busy. So busy.

Ariel is a master of blow jobs. She makes it seem as if she actually breathes my skin, no longer needing air. There are no hesitations when she sucks cock. Just long, smooth strokes of her mouth on my rod, her tongue milking me, adding pressure, creating soft, soothing sensations. I mimic each of these motions, trying my best to emulate her power, her posture. Trying my best to become her. As in this little game that we play she has become me.

I give it every thing I’ve got. My tongue flicks along the length, making swirls, drawing lines. Then I just suck on it, feeling my cheeks indent as I work hard to please a plastic cock. And when she says the words I love to hear, I obey them without a thought.

“Don’t stop, Davey. Don’t stop. Don’t stop.”

CHAPTER
7

Giving Head

Fellatio is a composition performed in three easy pieces. You conjure and build arousal with playful and purposeful oral foreplay, then you increase pleasure and establish a rhythm with specific techniques, and in the final crescendo, your rhythm combines with your mouth and hands to bring him to an orgasmic peak. These are the three main components in the art of giving mind-blowing head. Once you learn the steps and techniques, you will develop your own personal style. Pay close attention to the way the action is layered, and you’ll most certainly get explosive results that will have you both grinning from ear to ear.

Your First Tastes

She lay her head on my stomach and licked, nibbled, and sucked me for what seemed hours.

Taking the time to savor his smell and taste and feel everything to the fullest in the initial stages of fellatio is similar to enjoying an appetizer before the main course. Rushing to paradise can be fun sometimes, but going slowly prolongs his pleasure and makes for a much more memorable experience. Wanting to dive right in, or rather, plunge it in, is a delicious urge. When the passion and desire is at the point that you can’t get into each other’s clothes fast enough, then the eye-popping sensation of his cock going straight into your hot little mouth is fitting. Although, when he’s that hot and bothered, why not make him want it even more by slowing down the action?

If you’re putting him in your mouth for the first time, or are nervous about the whole process, then let time be on your side as you get acquainted with the look, aroma, and flavor of his genitals. As you transition from foreplay to fellatio, gradually narrow your attentions to his groin area, and spend extra time touching and kissing the area around the pubic region. If you’ve been giving him an erotic massage, then you’re already familiar with the sensory information that comes with being near him. As you kiss and nibble closer to his cock and balls, take a moment for you both to adjust to the feeling of having your face near his genitals. If he’s wearing underwear, you can kiss or even mouth his cock and balls through the fabric—this feels amazing to the recipient. Should you want to take his underwear off, slowly slide down one side at a time as you kiss and nuzzle his hips and the curve of his lower abdomen and hips.

When you begin to incorporate his penis and testicles into your attentions, start out with light kisses that are all soft lips and no tongue. Combine your kisses with other types of touch elsewhere, such as caresses and light squeezes with your hands; you can also press your face against his genitals to fully incorporate the action. Some men will be delighted if you run their penis over your face and neck, especially if it’s done with a sweetly salacious smile. The extra contact when you’re going down on him makes a big difference between “any old blow job” and getting head from someone who really wants him to feel good. Add long, languorous licks where his inner thighs meet his torso. Light, hot, focused breath on different parts of him provides a nice teasing touch.

If you’re feeling unsure about taking the first taste, run your closed lips over the shaft of his penis and the head. Inhale, moisten your lips, and try giving the skin an open-mouthed kiss, sans tongue. Taste your lips. He might be one of those juicy guys who produces a liquid called pre-come when aroused, and you may want to sample that flavor before you put him in your mouth. This is an activity for “fluid bonded” couples; read more about it in chapter 4, “Know the Hard Facts: Health Considerations.” Pre-come tastes slightly different from ejaculate; the flavor is generally light, but it differs from man to man. With a thoughtfully placed stroke, you can pick up a little pre-come on your fingertips and discreetly sample the way it tastes. If you don’t like it, you can use the opportunity of not yet having started fellatio to transition to another activity you feel more comfortable with.

Now you can invite your tongue to the party, if you haven’t already. While giving his crotch every other type of attention, you can gradually incorporate little licks or tongue flickers to his penis head, shaft, and base, his testicles, and where his scrotum meets his body, and you can lift his balls and lick his perineum. Use your hand to guide his penis into positions that make it easy for you to reach every spot, especially the sweet spots he responds to positively. He might really like being licked along the underside of the shaft, though he may prefer a spot at the base, up the center, at his circumcision scar (if he’s circumcised), or on the underside of the head. He may also like it all around the lower ridge of the head, where it mushrooms off the shaft, or at a particular point along that ridge. Some men really enjoy having their urethral opening (where urine leaves the penis, also called a “piss slit”) tongued and licked, though not all guys like this; you’ll have to pay attention to his reaction.

Stay hydrated! It’s no fun to go down on someone when you have a dry mouth, and giving head can be thirsty work. If you’ve been drinking alcohol, you’re going to get dehydrated faster than nondrinkers, but either way it’s a good idea to keep a glass of water nearby (if you can) to keep your kisser moist.

This is a terrific time to experiment and play with different tongue techniques. Again, it is highly recommended that you use your hands to guide his penis, adding the extra pleasure of fondling or lightly squeezing his balls. With your tongue, you can do the following:

• Flicker sensitive spots, such as those mentioned above. Flicker side to side or up and down, or give light taps.

• Press your tongue flat on the head.

• Point your tongue and give pressing strokes anywhere.

• Soften your tongue and slide sloppy trails everywhere.

• Give long, slow licks, as you would to an ice cream cone.

• Speed up the long licks, then slow them again.

• Hold your tongue stationary and run the head of his cock over it.

• Lightly lick his balls, or slather them with saliva.

• Gently suck one or both of his balls into your mouth. The popular term for this is tea bagging.

• Incorporate your soft lips (no teeth), and run your lips and tongue up and down the shaft, or over the head. Add a little suction if you like.

• If he’s uncircumcised, pull the foreskin back with your fingertips to kiss and lick him. You can also leave the foreskin in place and sweep your tongue around inside—but go easier than you would with a circumcised man, because uncut penises are usually more sensitive to stimulation on the head.

Watch his reactions to your focused licking and flicking. If he seems to be pulling away, then that spot might be too sensitive to what you’re doing: back off and move on to another area, or change your tongue technique to something less intense. But if he’s getting really hard, if his hips are beginning to thrust, you’ve got him right where you want him.

The Pierced Penis

A penis piercing can change the way you use your mouth and hands, and you’ll want to take into account the possible differences in sensation for him. First, keep in mind that piercings are susceptible to infection throughout the healing period, so you’ll want to avoid oral sex until he’s done healing (two weeks is a safe waiting period), especially if you practice safer sex—your saliva can inhibit his healing, and you’ll be sharing bodily fluids, because genital piercings can bleed during the first twenty-four to forty-eight hours; beyond that, piercings can bleed for about a week during erections. Once the site is healed, a piercing is perfectly clean, just the same as a pierced ear. A piercing will make his penis more sensitive to stimulation, especially the specific area that’s pierced.

There are several different styles of piercings and jewelry that can adorn them, including steel or gold hoops or barbells. A Prince Albert piercing passes through the eye (urethral opening) and either downward through the head’s underside (most common), or upward through the head’s top (a “reverse”). Ampallangs pass horizontally through the glans and not through the urethra; several can be worn at a time. The Apadravya passes through the head’s ridge and can also be worn in sets. Experiment to see what types of sensation he likes on his piercings, if he likes any specific attention on them at all. Some men might like them flicked lightly with your tongue, gently tugged by lip suction—but some won’t want attention focused on the piercing at all, preferring to let the piercing add to the typical range of sensations in a blow job. Should a piercing come out in a heated moment, don’t panic—this can happen, and it doesn’t hurt. Just let him know it came out and ask him what he wants to do.

Illustration 7. Genital Piercings