Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission (95 page)

The number of D&S support groups and educational workshops is steadily increasing. The vast majority of them are listed in D&S publications, available at alternative bookstores. We can neither provide a comprehensive list nor vouch for the reliability of any group. However, below we list a handful of key support groups for D&S and other unusual interests. Please note that we are not personally vouching for or endorsing any of these organizations or their members. Readers who contact any of the organizations listed here or elsewhere in this book do so at their own risk.

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1.
Georges Bataille,
Erotism: Death and Sensuality
, Mary Dalwood, trans. (San Francisco: City Lights, 1986), 167.

2.
William H. Masters, Virginia E. Johnson, and Robert C. Kolodny,
Masters and Johnson on Sex and Human Loving
(New York: Little, Brown, 1985), 275.

3.
Nancy Friday,
Men in Love, Male Sexual Fantasies: The Triumph of Love over Rage
(New York: Dell, 1980), 485.

1.
Alex Comfort, “Deviation and Variation,” in
Variant Sexuality: Research and Theory
, ed., Glenn D. Wilson, 1–20 (Baltimore: Johns Hopkins University Press, 1987), 2.

2.
Arno Karlen,
Sexuality and Homosexuality: A New View
(Norton: New York, 1973), 191.

3.
Michel Foucault,
The History of Sexuality
, trans. Robert Hurley,
Volume I: An Introduction
(New York: Vintage, 1980),
passim
.

4.
Edgar Gregersen,
Sexual Practices: The Story of Human Sexuality
(New York: Franklin Watts, 1983), 31.

5.
G. Rattray Taylor,
Sex in History
(New York: Harper Torchbooks, 1973), 214.

6.
Karlen,
Sexuality and Homosexuality
, 165.

7.
Suzanne G. Frayser, and Thomas J. Whitby,
Studies in Human Sexuality: A Selected Guide
(Littleton, CO: Libraries Unlimited, 1987), 227.

8.
Charles Moser, “Sadomasochism,” in
The Sexually Unusual: Guide to Understanding and Helping
, ed., Dennis M. Dailey (New York: Harrington Park, 1988), 45.

9.
Victor Robinson, “Introduction,” in
Psychopathia Sexualis: A Medico-Forensic Study
by Richard von Krafft-Ebing (New York: Pioneer, 1947), iv.

10.
Gregersen,
Sexual Practices
, 122–123.

11.
John Money,
Gay, Straight, and In-Between: The Sexology of Erotic Orientation
(New York: Oxford University Press, 1988), 185.

12.
June M. Reinisch and Ruth Beasley,
The Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex
, ed. Debra Kent (New York: St. Martin’s, 1990), xviii.

13.
Cf. Anne Fausto-Sterling, “Why Do We Know So Little About Sex?”
Discover: The World of Science
(June 1992), 30.

14.
Money,
Gay, Straight
, 153.

15.
Guy Baldwin. “Old Guard: Its Origins, Traditions, Mystique and Rules,”
Drummer
150, 23.

16.
Hunter S. Thompson,
Hell’s Angels: The Strange and Terrible Saga of the Outlaw Motorcycle Gangs
(New York: Ballantine, 1966), 116.

17.
Larry Townsend,
The Leatherman’s Handbook II
(New York: Carlyle, 1989), 13–14.

18.
George Nelson,
Living in Leather V
Program Guide (Portland, OR: National Leather Association, 1990).

19.
Geoff Mains,
Urban Aboriginals: A Celebration of Leathersexuality
(San Francisco: Gay Sunshine, 1984), 175.

20.
Gayle Rubin, “The Leather Menace: Comments on Politics and S/M,” in
Coming to Power: Writings and Graphics on Lesbian S/M
, ed. SAMOIS, (Boston: Alyson, 1987), 220–221.

1.
Pat Califia,
Macho Sluts
(Boston: Alyson, 1988), 9.

2.
Townsend,
Handbook II
, 19.

3.
Katherine Davis, “What We Fear We Try to Keep Contained,” in
Coming to Power: Writing and Graphics on Lesbian S/M
, ed. SAMOIS (Boston: Alyson, 1981), 8.

1.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau,
The Confessions of Jean-Jacques Rousseau
(New York: Modern Library, 1945), 16.

2.
Califia,
Macho Sluts
, 26.

3.
Gini Graham Scott,
Erotic Power: An Exploration of Dominance and Submission
(Secaucus, NJ: Citadel, 1983).

1.
William Shakespeare,
The Sonnets
, eds. Douglas Bush and Alfred Harbage (Baltimore: Penguin, 1974), 78.

2.
Flaubert, Gustave.
Madame Bovary: Background and Sources, Essays in Criticism
. Edited and translated by Paul De Man. New York: Norton, 1965.

1.
Townsend,
Handbook II
, 256.

1.
As cited in Thompson,
Hell’s Angels
, 335.

2.
Terence Sellers,
The Correct Sadist: A Novel
(New York: Grove, 1983), 89.

1.
Pauline Réage,
Story of O
, trans. Sabine d’Estree (New York: Ballantine, 1980), 15.

1.
Quoted in Taylor,
Sex in History
, 250.

2.
Magnus Hirschfeld,
Sexual Anomalies: The Origins, Nature, and Treatment of Sexual Disorders
(New York: Emerson, 1956), 333.

3.
Charles Moser, “Sadomasochism,” in
The Sexually Unusual
, 43–56.

4.
Moser, “Sadomasochism,” in
The Sexually Unusual
, 46.

5.
Richard M. Restak,
The Mind
(New York: Bantam, 1988), 131.

6.
Rousseau,
Confessions
, 13.

1.
Spider Robinson,
Mindkiller
(New York: Berkley, 1983), 48.

2.
Comfort, “Deviation and Variation,” 13.

3.
Cf. Edgar Gregersen,
Sexual Practices
, 232.

4.
Comfort, “Deviation and Variation,” 15.

5.
Christopher C. Gosselin, “The Sadomasochistic Contract,” in
Variant Sexuality: Research and Theory
, ed. Glenn D. Wilson (Baltimore: Johns Hopkins University Press, 1987), 233.

6.
The “Harmony Philosophy” is regularly featured in the magazines of Harmony Communications, Los Angeles. Our source was
The Adventures of Lady Caroline, Part Two
, April 1988, 16.

7.
Gosselin, “The Sadomasochistic Contract,” 233.

8.
Gosselin, “The Sadomasochistic Contract,” 233.

1.
Sir Richard Burton and F. F. Arbuthnot, trans.,
The Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana
(New York: Berkley, 1966), 112.

2.
June M. Reinisch and Ruth Beasley,
The Kinsey Institute New Report on Sex
, ed. Debra Kent (New York: St. Martin’s, 1990), 162.

3.
Hirschfeld,
Sexual Anomalies
, 301.

1.
Fyodor Dostoyevsky,
The Possessed
, Constance Garnett trans. (New York: Modern Library, 1936), 703–704.

2.
Taylor,
Sex in History
, 246.

3.
Gregersen,
Sexual Practices
, 303.

4.
Taylor,
Sex in History
, 43.

5.
Taylor,
Sex in History
, 44–5.

6.
Karlen,
Sexuality and Homosexuality
, 107.

7.
Cf. Alice Miller,
For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence
(New York: Farrar, Straus & Giroux, 1987).

8.
Hirschfeld,
Sexual Anomalies
, 301.

1.
Anais Nin,
Delta of Venus: Erotica
(New York: Bantam, 1979), 28.

2.
G. L. Simons,
The Illustrated Book of Sexual Records
(New York: Delilah, 1974), 50.

1.
W. B. Yeats, “Adam’s Curse,” in
The Norton Anthology of Modern Poetry
, 2nd ed., ed. Richard Ellmann and Robert O’Clair (New York: Norton, 1988), 148.

2.
V. Vale and Andrea Juno, ed.,
RE/Search: Modern Primitives
, (San Francisco: RE/Search, 1989), 5.

3.
Burton and Arbuthnot,
The Kama Sutra
, 217.

4.
Ovid,
The Art of Love and Other Love Books of Ovid
(Publius Ovidius Naso) (New York: Grosset, 1959), 175–176.

5.
R. Brasch,
How Did It Begin?
(New York: Pocket, 1969), 124.

1.
Wilhelm Stekel,
Sexual Aberrations: The Phenomenon of Fetishism in Relation to Sex
, Samuel Parker, trans. (New York: Liveright, 1971), 223.

2.
Vale and Juno,
Modern Primitives, 29
.

3.
B.R. Creations,
Newsletter #34
.

4.
B.R. Creations,
Newsletter #34
.

5.
Vale and Juno,
Modern Primitives
, 30.

6.
B.R. Creations,
Newsletter #34
, 1.

7.
B.R. Creations,
Newsletter #34
.

1.
Vale and Juno,
Modern Primitives
, 114.

2.
Signatures of the Soul
(film), Geoff Steven, writer, director, producer, Peter Fonda, narrator; released by Forum Home Video, 1987.

3.
Vale and Juno,
Modern Primitives
, 193.

4.
Vale and Juno,
Modern Primitives
, 126.