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4.
Facing spoons.
This position will be very comfortable. Lying on your sides, facing each other, neither has to support the weight of the other. The penetration can be very deep. With a smooth gentleness and a good coupling of the legs, the whole genital area is directly and intensely stimulated. Also notice that in this position, your partner can control his movements well and prolong his orgasm.

“Lying on my side next to Miguel, and feeling as he penetrates me slowly as he opens my vagina with his leg is the most delicious thing I know.”

Andrea, 26 years old

5.
Spooning.
If you are pregnant, this position is for you. Lie down on your side, just as your partner lies on his side and enters you from behind. There is no position more comfortable than this one. You can prolong intercourse for as long as you please without getting tired. Both he and you have easy access to the clitoris if you so desire. It is so nice for him to hug you from behind and caress your breasts while moving inside you as the feeling of pleasure increases slowly! If you open and lift your knees a little, penetration becomes easier and deeper. And if you really want him to go deep, bend your waist forward: the position becomes a bit more “wild,” but you can have your moments!

Another variant of this position is to sit on his thighs backward with knees bent. Penetration like this is very nice because he can stimulate your clitoris or caress your breasts while you set the pace.

“We discovered this position when I was pregnant, but then we continued practicing it with increasing frequency. We start slowly, but as we get into it, sometimes the bed begins to bump against the wall, and it is as though the patter is going at our own pace, and . . . Wow!”

Emma, 40 years old

6.
The cat.
Bored? You no longer know what to do to break the monotony of sex with your partner? Try this: with him standing, holding you in his arms, wrap your legs around his hips. You might think that this looks uncomfortable, but I assure you that the penetration is very deep, and his pelvis presses so hard against your clitoris, that your orgasm will not delay, just as you rub up against each other. If you do not have much time, or if you are in an elevator or in the office’s broom closet and there is no room for much else, this position is perfect.

To make it a more comfortable position, you can rest your buttocks on the edge of a table or a tall stool.

“Making love in the kitchen is the most exciting experience I’ve ever had. There I am making sandwiches, and suddenly here comes Juan, and he starts to caress me passionately, he lifts my skirt, pushing me until my buttocks bump against the edge of the table, and we go for it! I feel that his penis is huge and my clitoris is about to explode. It’s delicious!”

Amina, 41 years old

7.
The cart.
You lie down on your back. He drops to his knees and, looking passionately into your eyes, holds you by your hips. You raise your waist upward so that your sexual organs come into contact. He has your vagina in front of him and can no longer contain his excitement. Your labia swell and open. Your open legs stretch your genital muscles. Can you imagine it? Penetration is not that easy, but when you get it, you will have the most intense orgasm of your life.

“I saw this pose in a porn movie and found it very uncomfortable and difficult. But when I met Julian at night, I could not resist and asked him that we try it. I’ve never seen him so passionate. I’ve never enjoyed it as much.”

Cecilia, 23 years old

8.
The doggy.
This is a very, very exciting position. At the outset, it may seem a little erotic, but if you are passionate, or have a steady relationship with the same person, this position will open doors to new sensations. This is you with your knees, hands, or elbows on the floor, the carpet, or the mattress. The man, also kneeling, enters you from behind. The penetration is very shallow, and the angle can be easily varied. In this position, the penis vigorously stimulates the anterior vaginal wall where the G-spot is located, so that orgasms can become really intense and delicious.

“Making love is fine. It is nice and pleasant, but sometimes I’m so excited that I feel like doing something stronger, something like fucking. The puppy is an ideal position for these occasions.”

Alicia, 25 years old

9.
The scissors.
In this position, your legs and his are intertwined like scissors. It has all the variations you can imagine, and it always allows a perfect fit for your sexual organs. It is especially recommended when the man has a small penis, because the two organs meet easily, and thus the feeling of “fullness” is achieved through the perfect fit, regardless of the size of the penis. Moreover, the man’s pelvis can easily stimulate your clitoris, so that the orgasm is fast and guaranteed.

“Feeling contact with his thighs clenched tightly against mine is what I like so much. And the pressure on my clitoris is so constant and so sweet! We have no problems pacing our movements, and we can caress and kiss each other at will. It is certainly my favorite position.”

Iris, 38 years old

10.
Dangerous summits.
You stand facing away from your partner. Then you bend at the waist and support yourself on your hands or your knees, or on a chair or the sink. You raise your leg a little so that he, who is also standing, can enter you from behind. Once he has penetrated you, bring your legs together tightly to squeeze his penis really hard. It is a perfect position for a quick rendezvous, because he does not even need to take off his pants. We do not always have all the time in the world! With one of your hands, you can stimulate your clitoris and speed up your orgasm.

“When Manuel put me in this position, it seemed a little dirty, too unromantic. Of course I did not know what I was getting myself into. Do you know how exciting it is to do it in a nightclub’s restroom, for example? I think that since then I love him even more.”

Berta, 24 years old

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ELPFUL TIPS

When it comes to sex, believe me when I say that everything should be permitted. Whether you are enjoying it alone or in company, why put any limits to the imagination? Consider that, according to the Kama Sutra, there are over 500 positions for making love. I have only covered the ten that seem the most exciting, but the truth is that there is no limit other than that which you impose on yourself. Yet this is nothing extraordinary, bizarre, or weird. There are simple little things, objects, common things in any household, which can lead to a lot of play in increasing sexual arousal and pleasure. We suggest some, and we invite you to complete the list yourself:

A mirror.
Placed on the ceiling or the wall, it can act as a powerful aphrodisiac.

A high stool.
The type seen at bar counters. When used to support your buttocks in the cat pose, or to rest your hands on during “dangerous summits,” it will add a special touch to your relationships.

A wide bed with a hard mattress.
When you are kneeling or standing up, it will help you go into all kinds of variations in the positions that we have explained.

A pillow.
It seems incredible! A simple pillow under your buttocks when you are in the missionary position, for example, can facilitate contact between your partner’s pelvis and your clitoris . . . and you already know what that means.

Warm water.
Just like that! How about in the bathtub?

Lights, colors, and sounds.
All senses play an important role in arousal and pleasure. Soft lighting, nice colors—always with something red to increase the passion—appropriate music . . . it will help you prepare the ideal scenario . . . . So, what are you waiting for?

Fantasies and orgasms are inseparable

In a previous chapter, you learned that sex starts in the mind. Sexual fantasies are essential for strong, deep, and delicious orgasms. Once again, do not impose limits on your imagination . . . better yet, never limit yourself. Pleasure does not depend only on your anatomy. Concentrating on what you are doing is absolutely essential. Fantasies will help you get there.

“I loved Juan very much, but I had no other choice than to acknowledge that he was not a particularly exciting guy. One day, I imagined a couple of friends making love while Juan watched them. After a while, Juan was included in the game and joined them in a ménage à trois. I got so excited that I had a very intense orgasm almost immediately. I’ve never had an experience like that in real life, and the truth is that I am not interested in having it, but by playing with my imagination, Juan became for me an absolutely irresistible man.”

Susana, 33 years old

Having sexual fantasies is completely normal. You should not be scared by that, even if the content is a little strong. The fact that you get excited when thinking of a man forcing you to do something in particular does not mean that you would like for that to happen in reality. In your imagination there is no pain. It is a manifestation of your creativity and an invaluable aid to realizing your desires. I am not sure why, but throughout my experience, I have been able to prove that in this regard, men have a great advantage over us. The women with whom I have spoken are generally limited in their fantasies to making love with their partner, but men . . . you cannot even begin to imagine where they are able to go in their imagination to get excited! This is probably due to the guilt with which women have regarded sexuality for generations, even when it is only in fantasies. But those days are over.

We live in a world where the right to think whatever you want and letting your imagination run wildly without any limits is fully accepted. Enough with the guilt and the false inhibitions. Do not forget that, by nature, all that is forbidden attracts us. Let your mind wander all the way to the top!

A very high percentage of women (over 90%) need sexual fantasies in order to reach an orgasm while masturbating, and a considerable number (over 70%) have them while making love with their partners. Does this mean that we should fantasize about our partners while making love? Not necessarily! If you find it more exciting to imagine your upstairs neighbor or George Clooney, or both, naked and whispering stimulating things in your ear, why not allow yourself?

Imagination is harmless. It is simply about helping yourself focus on sex and unplugging from your daily routine, with all your energy, because in doing so, you will enjoy your sexual experience much more, and you will have an orgasm more easily.