101 Things to Do With a Vibrator (10 page)

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Pegging for Dummies

Pegging sounds like it’s some kind of cute, old-fashioned game, or maybe a version of Plinko. In actuality, it is the term for when a woman uses a strap on device to penetrate and stimulate her partner. It is a fun way to switch up roles in the bedroom, and it looks sexy as fuck. If you’ve graduated past the vibrating butt plugs, pegging is a must-try next step.

The most basic vibrating strap on rigs consists of a vibrating dildo strapped to a harness-contraption you secure around your hips and waist. Make sure the straps are tight enough so that you can effectively wield your newfound phallus, and retighten them when you get into position. As with the other butt toys, it’s best to get revved up before you start. When your partner is ready, have him get into whatever position is most comfortable: you can have him lay back and prop his hips up on a pillow and take him from the front, like a modified missionary, or bend him over the side of the bed in the more traditional doggy style. Give him a reach-around, and stroke him with your hands as you move, or hold on to his hips, and have him give you a show.

You also have a few options for working a bit of her pleasure into pegging play. There are harnesses that include a strategically placed vibrator for her, or you can make your own rig by tucking your own vibrator into the straps, or better yet, inserting a vibrating bullet into your vagina and tucking the remote into your harness. There are also “strapless strap-ons,” a kind of dual vibrator that you hold in place with your vagina while you use the other end to fuck your partner.

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Bead It

Anal beads are a fun addition to any sex toy ensemble, and like most anal toys, they’ll work for men and women—just about anyone with a butt, really. Anal beads consist of several round beads strung together on a thick sturdy string of some kind. Many beginner sets come with graduated beads, meaning they start small on one end of the strand and get larger as you move toward the end. Some anal beads, especially many of the vibrating types, also come in a more “stick-like” version, where the beads are attached to a soft flexible material, making it more like a bulbous stick than a string of beads, but this makes the toy a bit easier to use, and much easier to vibrate. Vibrating anal beads are set up so that the vibrations run through the entire toy, so you can get a buzz even if you’re using “just the tip.” Play with your anal beads by lubing them up and inserting the beads into you or your partner’s butt one by one. You don’t need to insert the whole toy, just as much as you feel comfortable with! Once the beads are inserted, move around a bit: the beads move, too, and create all new sensations, especially with the extra jolt from the vibrations!

Another neat trick with anal beads is that they feel good going in and coming back out: some people enjoy the sensation of having the beads pulled out all at once as they climax. Test this out and see how it feels, but go slow!

Try inserting anal beads before sex to double your sensations! Try this out in a position where your partner can have access to the beads, so that he can move them around or try sliding them in and out as you play. If the beads are for you, doggy style is a good bet, and if it’s his turn to play, try reverse cowgirl!

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Pleasure in Your Hand

Anal T vibrators work a lot like butt plugs, except that they are easier to hold and use by hand than are butt plugs. These toys are usually built a lot like an egg vibrator, with the functional part attached to a controller by a long cord. The vibrating part itself is mostly shaped similar to a T: the “arms” of the T stick out at the base for easy handling, and to keep the toy safely wider at the base, to prevent you from accidentally losing it. These toys come in lots of different sizes, so you can find one that fits your style. Many of the models also have an angled shaft: these are specifically made for men, as the angled bit is used to stimulate his prostate.

Small movements go a long way in butt play; so once the toy is in place, don’t thrust with it. Instead, try a more gentle in and out movement, or rock the toy back and forth.

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Vibrating Probes and Teasers

Anal toys come in lots of shapes and sizes, and while butt plugs and beads are about filling you up, there are other toys that explore the different kinds of sensations that come from anal play. Probes and teasers are usually slimmer than plugs, and are shaped like a phallus or a ribbed wand. Some models even let you bend and adjust them to give you just what you want. Since these toys are typically longer as well as thinner than plugs and other toys, they’re a better choice for trying out more in-and-out sensations with butt play, and getting a feel for different textures and levels of penetration. You can use these on yourself or play with a friend, just take it slow!

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Pushing His Buttons

Butt stuff can be fun for both partners, but some men get a special thrill from anal play that stimulates their prostate. There are a bunch of toys on the market for just this purpose, and they can be used during solo play or during partner sex. As with any anal play, you start out with lube. Insert the toy comfortably, and then go to town! Keep up stimulation of his shaft and balls while you play with the vibe, and let him set the speed of the toy. Use both hands, and let him show you how he likes the toy to move. Strong in-and-out movements might not hit the spot: instead try smaller rocking movements to make the toy gently stroke his prostate. You’ll definitely know when you get it right!

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Beaded Buzz Ring

If a cock ring no longer excites you, and a vibrating ring is just another boring toy, then it’s time to step in the arena with the sex ring pros. Introduce yourself to the vibrating cock ring and pleasure bead team! For his solo use or couples’ pleasure, this mighty buzzer has a stretchy ring for him, a vibrating love nub for her, and a long gel rope of weighted beads that vibe in tandem with both. With a silky lubricant, slide the pleasure beads into your naughtiest spot while you ride him. You will be able to feel the buzz of the ring against your clitoris, and the humming intrigue of the beads from behind. Or since his back end is so sensitive, let him use the beads while you enjoy the clitoral stimulator on his shaft. If you like it from all angles, this can be an intense solo act for him, or a wild ride for two!

Erotica for Your Pleasure

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Toy Parties by Nicole Wilder

The warm shower water slithered its way down my body, over my firm breasts, hard nipples, tight abs and between my creamy, pink thighs. The heat made me quiver at first, before making me ache to touch myself. After lathering my hands with the lilac-scented shower gel, I let my slippery fingers run down my body languishing against the soft mounds of my breasts. As I squeezed each one, my nipples grew hard and ached for more. I massaged my large breasts, then brought one up to my lips and nibbled. Moments later, my right hand slid down my body and my legs spread slightly. I wanted, needed to touch the sweet, pink bulb inside. My mound was slippery and wet and fun to play with. I slipped my finger inside the lips to my aching clit. It was hard already as I began to circle around it. My other hand continued to massage my breasts and pinch and pull my nipples. As I grew more excited, I sat on the side of the tub under the flowing water. I spread my quivering thighs open, and let the water run over my clit.

I looked down to watch my hand squeeze my pussy, before dipping my finger deep inside myself. My hips moved up and down, meeting my disappearing fingers as I engaged more of them in the slippery fun. I loved watching me playing with myself, it excited me even more. My fingers came back into view, and with my left hand I opened my lips so I could see myself circle and wiggle my clit until I neared orgasm, then stop and squeeze the mound. I didn’t want to come yet, it felt too good to want to stop.

When I thought I could continue to play again without coming too fast, I looked on the side of the tub where my little toy sat waiting to be used. I made it myself, an electric toothbrush that had great speed. I wrapped the end in a small nubby condom. The vibration of the toothbrush and the nubby part of the condom drove my clit insane. I picked up the toy and leaned back a little, spreading my legs as wide as I could and ran the vibrating toothbrush over the lips of my pussy just to tease myself. I shook all over and moaned uncontrollably, it made me so horny that I knew I could have come in a few seconds, but I wanted to continue to hold off, so I could enjoy my favorite little pleasure toy. After spreading the lips of my pussy, I let the vibration run around my clit, dip inside me, then back around my clit.

A deep groan came from within my throat, and I nearly yelled as the vibration made me shake wildly. I wanted to come right away and yet, I wanted the sensation to last. Without thinking, I slipped it up inside my pussy as far as I could get it to go and moved it around in me, in circles, from side to side, in and out, anything I could think of to do with it. I jammed it hard into me and screamed in ecstasy, I could hear how wet I was even over the warm water that still ran over me.

“I need to come.” I took the vibrator out of me and let it rest on my clit as hard as I could until entire body shook like I was convulsing. “Come!” I obeyed myself, the wetness of my pussy flowed freely from inside me. I could feel the warmth of it running down to my ass. I set my homemade vibrator down, and used my fingers to play in the wetness. It felt so good to rub it over my clit and down around my ass. Then I dipped my fingers deep inside myself bringing the wetness up to my nipples and coating them before bringing one of them to my lips to taste. I was so excited I hardly wanted it to stop, and yet, the quivering eventually subsided and my clit went back to normal.

“Wow!” I moaned. I finished my shower and naked I went into my bedroom. Still horny, I sat on the side of the bed, my legs spread wide, grabbed my smooth, plastic vibrator from the side drawer, turned it on and slid it into my still wet pussy. Staring between my legs, I rammed the vibrator in and out of myself like I was being wildly fucked. My hips swung up and down to meet it. “More, I need more.” After a few more thrusts, I brought it out of myself to my clit and rested it on the most excited part of myself. “Come. Oh, please, come again.” I needed it again more than ever, once just wasn’t enough that day. In only a second, I started to quiver as my orgasm took over my mind and body. As I came back to reality, I slid the vibrator inside me and slowly moved it in and out to bring myself back down.