101 Things to Do With a Vibrator (6 page)

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Position: Meeting in the Middle

Face to face positions are fun when you’re using a toy, since part of the thrill of vibrators is watching them do their thing. So try this hot move that has you both within arm’s reach of the action. Lay on your back with one knee up, and your other leg out in front of you. Have him kneel and straddle your straightened leg, and slide inside you. He can pull your bent leg closer to his chest to pull you closer to him and get good leverage. Now, just add vibes! You can use a wand vibe on your clitoris, with either of you holding the toy. Since you’re so close, you could also use a bullet or egg vibe to play.

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Position: Something’s Between Us

This intimate position is just begging for a little vibe to make it even better. First, have him sit with his legs out in front of him. Climb on and sit on his lap, face to face with him. Wrap your legs around his torso as he slides into you. Now that you’re both so neatly entwined, pull out a toy and rest or hold it right between you, near your clitoris. This position is good for deep, grinding sensations, so use the toy to add another level of sensation to your movement. Take turns positioning your vibe where it feels good: you can even take a break to tease your partner with the toy or trace it along his upper body.

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Position: Tabled

This position is fun and naughty, and with toys added it can feel like a diabolically dirty science experiment! Find a piece of furniture that is about hip height for your man, like a bed or a table. Climb up and lay down with your hips right at the edge and have him enter you as you wrap your legs around his hips. Now you’re ready for a very satisfying romp, and your man is perfectly positioned to reach all of your sensitive spots, and you are free to reach down and stimulate your clit, either with your hands or a handy vibe. For extra fun, have a few toys laid out on the table for effect. He can also step away from the table and walk around to touch you from above, play with the vibes, and maybe use them on your pussy or ass. Just add some soft restraints, and you are in for a wild time! Just don’t forget to wash the table when you’re done.

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Position: Stairway Ride

Remember when you were a kid and you used to scoot down the stairs on your butt? This is just like that, but more fun. Find a private set of stairs (preferably in your home, but you do what feels right) and have him sit down. Sit on his lap, facing away from him and straddling one of his legs, while he enters you. Make sure you have your favorite vibe with you, and take turns using it to stimulate your clitoris. You can use the railing for extra leverage to help you move up and down. From this angle, you can push up against him to help him hit the right spot as you wield your toy.

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Position: Electric Lap Dance

This position is super intimate, and puts you in the thrusting drivers seat. It’s a bit of a tight fit, so you’ll want to use a small toy, preferably one that stays in place on its own, like a hands-free butterfly vibe or a cock ring. Get your toy going, and then have your man sit in a sturdy chair. Straddle him and sit facing him, and slide him inside of you. Now you can use your feet to brace against the floor to move you against him. The closer you grind, the more you’ll feel the buzzy toy between you!

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Put a Ring On It

Sometimes it’s difficult to incorporate toys into actual sexy times: they get in the way, they fall out, they roll away, and so on, all of which ruins the mood, at least temporarily. Sometimes you just need a tool that was made for the job, and in those situations, you need a cock ring. Cock rings are as simple as they sound: it’s just a ring that goes around a penis, and when you turn it on it vibrates. They come in stretchy material that you can loop around your partner’s penis so that the toy stays in place, right at the base of his dick. And when you turn it on, you end up with the best of both worlds: a real live penis that vibrates as he fucks you! Plus, he gets to enjoy the buzz, too. This toy works in an endless number of positions, but you’ll have better luck if you stick to girl-on-top, or other positions where the vibrating pack is right up against her clitoris.

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More Ring Fun

Cock rings are a good time, and they are really convenient for couple’s play! There are many different styles you can try to liven up your lovemaking. Some “couple’s rings” as they are also called have an extra vibrating bit that extends out from the ring for extra stimulation. Turn the toy so that the extra piece is on top of his penis to stimulate your clitoris while he’s fucking you, or rotate it the other way so that it sticks out from beneath his cock if you want some back door buzzing while you ride him. Different attachments create different sensations, and some toys come with different textures to add another level of touch to your play. Try different positions to get the whole effect!

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Reach Out and Touch Someone

If your partner is away or you’re in a long-distance relationship, you can still heat things up with your vibe, you just need a little technological help! You can use your favorite video chat program to put on your own sexy show. Pick out your favorite vibe and get comfortable, and put your computer or webcam where he can see you. Then, use your hands and your toy to play! Let him give you instructions and ask questions. Narrate your movements and tell your partner exactly how it feels as you pleasure yourself! Make this game your own: you can make up a story as you go, and play out a scene. Or, you can just tell each other exactly what you want to do next time you’re together.

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Vibrator Races

So, good sex is not about coming fastest, but sometimes you just need a release, and you want it now. So why not make a game with your partner and see who can ride their toy to the finish line first? Start by having both of you pick your favorite toy and get comfy. Once you get going, you can tease one another, distract your partner, and turn them on! Make your own rules: can you just look and not touch each other? Can you talk, or is it gasps and grunts only? You get to decide exactly how you want to play. Decide on end game rules as well: if you declare the first to come the winner of the game, they get to decide how to finish their partner off! If you say the winner is whoever lasts the longest, then the loser is responsible for helping the winner get off however they want!

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Vibrator Trivia

This game works best with a vibrator with a remote control, so that your partner can control it while you hold it in place. It plays like a regular game of trivia, but with a shocking penalty for wrong answers. First you’ll need trivia questions, which you can pull from an old trivia board game, or off the internet, or you can come up with your own sexy questions! Once you have all of your props, find a place where you can recline comfortably, and hold your vibe in place. Start up your game and have your partner ask the first question! The penalty for one wrong answer is a short jolt, but if you keep getting the wrong answer, the penalty increases by one second for every question you’ve gotten wrong. For the last round, kick it up to the next level! Set the vibe to a low buzz to begin with. Then, as you go through the round, every time you get a question wrong, the vibe’s intensity is turned up another notch. The distracting sensations make it harder to answer correctly, so you have to pay attention!

If you have more than one remote-controlled vibe, you can make this a head-to-head contest! You can follow the same rules as the Vibrator Races game, and let whoever holds out longest choose how he or she wants to finish the night!

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The Counting Game

This is another game where you have to try and keep your concentration while your partner does their best to distract you! You can make this game as easy or as hard as you like. For the easy rules, you just have to count, slowly, as your partner stimulates you with a vibrator. If you miss a number, your partner gets to up the intensity of the toy and you start all over. You can simply count as your partner plays, or you can set the game up so that your partner continually pulses the vibe, and you count the pulses as he goes. He can try to make you slip up by changing his rhythm and speeding up or going very slow. If you like math and want to make this game harder, count up by twos, threes, or whatever integer you think is challenging enough for you. The game is over when you get to 100, or when you come. Then you can switch places for round two!

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Door Number One

Do you have so many toys you don’t know which to play with? Here’s a hot game to make it easy. Get a piece of paper and make two lists numbered one through six. Assign a body part to each number, and then assign a different toy from your arsenal for the other set of six. If you have fewer than six toys you can double up or get creative, like listing hands and mouth as other “toy” options. If you have more than six toys, you’ll have to choose your favorites, or use additional dice! Once you’re ready, take turns playing the game. Roll the dice first to see which toy you use, then again to see where you get to use it! You can set a timer if you want to play for a while before moving to the next round, where your partner gets to try his luck! Or you can up the ante and make a round last until you come before you’re allowed to switch!