101 Things to Do With a Vibrator (8 page)

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Polar Vibes

Just because it is cold does not mean it can’t be hot. Incorporating sensation play with temperatures is an intense way to ramp up your passionate playtime. Test your limits with an ice massager, which combines erotic vibrations with an enticing chill. These massagers are orb-like in shape, so they are meant for body massaging, rather than insertion. Some ice enthusiasts recommend experimenting with ice dildos, but this can be dangerous because you can cool down your core body temperature too quickly. The ice massagers bring in the excitement without any of the drawbacks, and they won’t melt into a puddle like ice cubes! The only preparation is to allow for freezing time once you have filled the orb with water. Whether you play alone or play with a partner, bring the massager along sensitive areas like the nipples, inside of the arms, inner thighs, beltline and sides of the torso. The vibrations and the cold chill will have you covered in goose bumps and writhing in pleasure. After you have taken all you can handle, bring the ice massager to your hot spot and let the amazing sensation surprise you. The intensity of the cold and the vibrations will bring your orgasm to an entirely new place!

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Power Yoga

If you are not familiar with yoga, it’s time to get in tune with your body, mind, and pleasure zone. Yoga helps you relax, strengthen and stretch your body, and concentrate on your inner spirit. By focusing on the movements of your body and the muscles you are using in each pose, you are able to brush away the concerns and stressors from your life that weigh you down. While traditional yoga is spiritually and physically satisfying on its own, the investment in your body as you transition your yoga poses can easily align with your sexuality. Slide your favorite small vibrator inside you, or secure a large vibrator shaft with a suction cup base to the mat or floor. As you transition through each pose, pause by lowering yourself onto the rotating or vibrating shaft and peacefully accepting the pleasure. When you become overwhelmed with the physical intensity of the yoga poses and vibrating bliss, your calming yoga experience may end with some hot aerobics to get you to your amazing climax!

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Mirror, Mirror

The slow hum or the fast buzz of your vibrator should definitely get you going, but vibrations play should be an experience that overwhelms the senses, and not just touch. Set yourself up in front of a mirror and take in the image of yourself and how sexy you look. Rub your hands along your body and begin to tease yourself. Keep the mirror in place and gently begin to incorporate the vibrator into your mirror time. Get up close and personal with your body and the mirror, watch yourself slide the vibrator in and out, witnessing how your body reacts to the enticing buzz and motions of the toy. Flushed cheeks and rosy curves are super sexy, so turn yourself on! The visual stimulation of being able to see how you look and feel while you are close to coming will add a whole new thrill to your repertoire!

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Nipple Nympho

For the woman who loves extra attention on her breasts and nipples, there is more to be explored! Try incorporating vibrating breast massager into your solo play or couple’s foreplay to add a little spice to your routine. These soft, jelly-like massagers cup around the nipple and breast and contain vibrating nubs on each cup. While this toy is super fun, the massagers can sometimes fall out of place or unstick. If they do, consider using skin-safe adhesive (like one you would use for eyelash extensions) so that you can get naughty without worrying about wardrobe malfunctions. This fun massager sends sultry vibrations to tickle your nipples to make them hard, tantalize the senses, and get you hot and ready for more.

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Tantalizing Tingles

Vibrators are meant to intensify your passionate playtime, but even a vibrator can use a little extra pizzazz. An amazing way to add to the pleasure your vibrator provides is by incorporating tingly body lubricant. Rub yourself and your vibrator down with a minty gel or a peppermint lubricant specifically designed for sexy play. The gentle tingle will invigorate your senses and send a cooling effect to your hot spots. The extra awakening will help you feel every inch of the hard shaft inside you and propel the hum of the vibrations against your most sensitive areas to a new level. The intensity of the extra sensations will be an exhilarating way to make your traditional vibe session even better!

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Think Outside the Box

Get into the mood without ever touching your lady bits! Okay, so maybe you will want to touch them
eventually
, but try focusing your attentions on every part of you except for your clitoris and vaginal area to send you into a total-body sexual Zen. Turn your vibrator on to a low speed and caress all of your erogenous zones, from the inside of your arms, to the side of your torso, over your breasts and inside your legs. Let the hum of the toy lull you into sexual euphoria and intensify your arousal. Massaging every part of your body will perk your senses and make you hyper aware of the aching pleasure between your legs! Clench your kegel muscles while you caress your body with the buzzing vibes, and if you immerse yourself deeply enough into the sensations running through your body, you may even be able to come without ever bringing the vibrator to your pussy.

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Mystery Vibes

While many forms of sensation play revolve around
adding
a sensation to a given method of pleasuring, using a blindfold works in the opposite way by removing the sense of sight. With the inability to see what your partner is doing, your other senses, especially hearing and touch, are magnified. This intensity makes for a heart-pounding sexy session because you never know where you will be touched next! Make your vibe play all the more exciting by incorporating a blindfold and playing a guessing game. Incorporate multiple vibrators and pleasure your partner (or be pleasured) with each one. Without touching the toy, you or your partner should guess the kind of vibrator that is being used. Guessing the method of choice will give you extra focus on the sensations at hand, the feel of their rhythm, firmness, or how aroused you become!

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Conductor’s Baton

With this blindfolding technique, the one who is in the dark has all the power! Like a conductor at a symphony, lie down blindfolded and instruct your skilled musician. Tell him where to go and conduct how fast the rhythm should be or how hard he should play. The blindfold is an exciting way to see if your music-maker follows your lead, or brings you to new places if he prefers to go off on a solo. This electrifying approach to blindfolding combines the best of both worlds in sensation play—the blindfolding process allows you to feel submissive and at the will of your lover, but your role as conductor asserts your dominance and allows you to dictate just how you want to be pleased!

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Savasana

Savasana
is a still pose often used at the end of a yoga session to relax your body and refresh your spirit. After an hour or more of stretching your body through yoga,
savasana
is a peaceful position where you lie flat with your arms and legs comfortably rested, allowing you to release all of the tension in your muscles. Apply this to your moments of bliss by lying down still. Relax your muscles and even out your breathing. Slide your vibrator into your pussy and turn it on the lowest setting. Put your hands at your sides and breathe in and out deeply, allowing your body to relax and take in the slow pulse of the toy. Do not clench your kegel muscles or move your pelvis in any way. Allow the vibrations to take you up a slow and steady incline to a sexual Nirvana.

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Removable Showerheads and Waterproof Vibrators: Greater or Greatest?

It’s time for a competition between the most satisfying accidental sex toy and the most satisfying invented one! Gone are the days of lifting your leg high against the shower wall to feel some water pressure on your lady bits, risking serious slip-and-fall injuries! Removable showerheads are the vagina’s greatest aqua ally. Bring your waterproof vibrator into the shower and put it to the test against the showerhead. Massage your clitoris with the pulsing water, and insert the humming vibrator into your wet and ready pussy. Increase the settings on the shower head to send a steady pulse to your love nub, or let it spray widely to tantalize your whole hot spot. Clench your muscles to the rhythm of the vibrator while you let the pressure build from all angles. Let the two work in unison and bring you to a sexual peak over and over again!

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Get into Hot Water

One of the greatest parts of pleasuring yourself in the shower is the warmth of the water. Try starting out with a cold or lukewarm shower while getting hot with your vibrator (Never bring sex toys into the water that are not explicitly waterproof.). Angle the spray of the water toward your pussy and ride your sex toy slowly. The cool water will get your tits firm and tingly and awake your body’s senses. Gradually increase the temperature, warming the shower so that your body relaxes. Move the vibrator in and out of your pussy and let yourself feel the warmth of the shower spray. Angling the water directly on your clitoris (if you do not have a removable showerhead, you will have to get a little flexible and stretch your legs), turn the water up hot (not scalding!) so that the intense heat increases the arousing sensations of the vibrator and the pressure on your clitoris. The hot water against you will make your orgasm all the more satisfying!

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Bubble Bath Bliss

The only thing more sensual than a bubble bath is a bubble bath with sex toys! Many vibrators are designed to be waterproof specifically for this purpose, so find one that really turns you on. Set your bathroom up to be an area of complete relaxation. Turn on tranquil music, light candles, and add scented bath gels to the steamy water. Allow yourself to relax in the tub, letting the warmth lull you into a peaceful state. Get turned on by turning on your vibrator and easing it into you. Take in the scents of the bath gels and calming light from the candles, and slowly pleasure your pussy with the hum of the toy. Let out moans and hear the ecstasy in your own voice as the bliss starts to overwhelm you. Draw out your pleasure for a long, sensual bath so that your body is completely relaxed and ready for when you finally let yourself come.