101 Things to Do With a Vibrator (5 page)

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Double Bullet

Some bullet vibes come with multiple bullets attached to the remote, so you can have more buzz for your buck! These double-bullet vibes work just like the single-bullet version, but you can use them on multiple pleasure points at once, and control them all by the same remote! There is an almost endless number of ways for you to make this work for you. Stimulate her nipples and her clitoris at once (great for a speedy masturbation sesh or a special treat for you). Slide one inside your vagina, and use the other on your clitoris. Rub one against his erection while you use the other on your clitoris.

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Two for One

Bullet vibes are great for solo use, and double bullet models are twice as nice! There are a ton of combinations you can try with this toy. Start by resting one bullet on your vagina (you’ll want to try this while in a reclining position). Hold the other in your other hand, and use it to stimulate your clitoris. Alternate by moving one bullet up to your nipples, then trail it back down. You can slide one of the bullets inside of you, and let the other one roam. Don’t forget to turn up the intensity on the remote!

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Three for Two

The sky’s the limit for multiple bullet vibes—actually, three is pretty much the limit, and you typically won’t find one of these with more than three bullets per remote. But you can have a lot of fun with three! There are plenty of configurations for you to try, and with three vibes, there’s more than enough buzz to go around. Try inserting one vibe in your vagina, and then you and your partner hold the remaining two vibes. You can use them on each other, or put on a show! Or, use two bullets to play with him while he pleases you with the other one. You can use one bullet to stimulate his testicles while you stroke up and down his shaft with the other one. If your vibrator’s cords are long enough, let the toys roam, and use one on his shaft while the other two stimulate your clitoris and nipples!

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Ben Wa Buzz

Ben Wa balls have gained a bit of celebrity after being featured in the scorching BDSM erotica
50 Shades of Grey
. This little toy consists of two balls made of plastic or metal, each with a bit of weight to them. Not only are Ben Wa balls fun, they also act like little exercise weights for your kegel muscles, making you feel “tighter” for your partner, and giving you easier, more intense orgasms! Many women like Ben Wa balls because they give you a different sensation from a lot of sex toys: they fill you up and can stimulate your g-spot easily, creating the perfect counterpoint to clitoral stimulation. With vibrating Ben Wa balls, you kick your fun up to the next level! Just like with the bullet vibe, you lube these babies up and slide them in. You don’t need any help to rock out with this toy. One good way to get going is to sit up with your legs closed and rock back and forth: this moves the balls around and helps to stimulate the sensitive nerves of your g-spot on the front wall of your vagina.

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But Wait, There’s More

Vibrating Ben Wa balls are fun for foreplay and other sexy games, but not as useful if you and your partner want to party together. Luckily, you can totally play with Ben Wa balls with a friend! Once the balls are in place and you’re all warmed up, have him slowly enter you right along with the ben wa balls. Vaginas are plenty stretchy, and you’ll have room for your toy and your man’s monster cock (is he reading over your shoulder? That was for his benefit) if you move slowly. But if you’re uncomfortable, you can also just insert one of the balls, and as long as you go slow, you’ll be golden. Sex with Ben Wa balls is a treat for both partners: as he thrusts, the ball rolls against his shaft while it rubs you the right way, too!

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Butterfly Buzz

Bullet vibes and other small toys are super useful, but sometimes you want something hands-free, so that your hands can get busy doing something more fun than keeping a vibrator in place! If you want a toy that stays right where you want it, either for partner play or a solo sesh, try out a butterfly vibrator. These come in different makes and models, and are usually held in place with a harness, although some models also include suction, which helps keep the toy in place, and create even more stimulation by increasing blood flow. These toys also have a handy remote, either wireless or with a nice long cord that will let you lay back and enjoy while you adjust the settings.

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Butterfly Bebop

There are very few vibes that are truly “hands free,” which is what makes butterfly vibrators extra special and really easy to combine with other sexy fun! You can start with oral: with the vibe taking care of your clitoris, he’ll be able to explore where else you like to be stroked. You can finish it there, or if you want penetration, you can jump into your favorite position: the vibe will stay put and give you an electric thrill while he pounds you! You can even combine this with other toys for a really wild experience! Use a dildo or another vibrator to fill you up and stroke your g-spot while the butterfly keeps your clit happy. Or try it with a vibrating butt plug for a buzz from both sides!

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Hold My Hand

A ring vibe can help supercharge your touch, so give yourself a hand! You can play with your partner or on your own, because this toy works by sending the vibes through your fingers: you can work your moves the way you usually do, but with an extra jolt! Walk your fingers north and play with your nipples, then trace them down below the belt. The indirect buzz combined with your skilled and familiar fingers make for a unique new sensation. Or if you’re playing with a partner, wrap your hands around his penis for a heavy-duty hand job, and take time to reach down to stroke his balls!

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Mini Pick-Me-Up

Small vibes can pack a punch, so much so that you’ll want to take yours with you! You can find many mini-massager vibes to fit your style and to fit in your purse. These little babies are made for discrete fun on the go, so take yours with you when you’re on the move. Then, next time you need a pick-me-up, boost your day by getting down with your handy little toy! You can pop it in your pocket and take a morning walk, or sneak a few seconds alone in the office storage closet. Hey, it’s healthier than taking a cigarette break, right?

Couple’s Play

Introduction

Vibrations can be fun on their own, or you can bring some toys to bed and help supercharge your favorite positions! Some toys are best with a partner, too, and it’s hard to play sex games alone. So grab your partner and get to bed for some hot vibrating fun!

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Position: Doggy with Style

This position is easy to work with almost any vibrator, from big wand models to small bullet vibes. Start by using the toy to get you both warmed up: take turns using the vibe on each other and adjusting the speed and intensity. Once you’re both turned on, position yourselves into the classic doggy pose. You’ll need a free hand to wield your toy, so tuck a pillow under your upper body to help prop you up as he takes you from behind. It may be difficult to stay upright if you try to hold the toy yourself while in a hands-and-knees position, so let him give you a hand! Prop yourself up on both hands (or elbows, if you like that angle better), and let him hold the vibe. He can hold on to your hip with one hand while he brings his other hand around to your front to give you an electric reach-around. Once you’ve hit a good rhythm, you can reach back and help him find just the right spot!

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Position: Bend Over Buzzing

This rear-approach position is a modified doggy style, but this time you hold the vibe while he concentrates on the fucking. Position yourself so that you are on your knees with your upper body resting on the bed and your ass in the air. Use pillows under your hips and chest to get the right angle. He should be kneeling behind you and holding on to your hips to keep you both steady. Once you have a steady rhythm going, reach around and bring the vibe to your clitoris for a one-two punch! This is also a good angle for trying anal play or incorporating a butt plug.

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Position: Ride ’Em Cowgirl

This position gives both partners a front-row seat to your own sexy rodeo! Use your favorite vibe to stimulate your clitoris while taking him for a ride. After you’ve both warmed up with some steamy foreplay, have your partner lie back on the bed and hop on in the Cowgirl position. As you start to move together, pull out your trusty toy and aim it right at your clitoris. Hold the vibe however is most comfortable for you and your position: with a smaller bullet vibe you can palm the toy and hold it against you for a less direct buzz, or you can cup it against you for more random buzzing. If you want a more targeted approach, try a wand vibe with a larger head: it will have more buzzy surface area so it won’t matter as much if the toy gets jostled as you play. Depending on the type and strength of toy you’re using, your man will get to enjoy the vibrations, too!

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Position: Cowbuzz

Girl on top is always a winning move, and if you turn it around to reverse cowgirl, he gets to enjoy the buzz, too (and a nice view of your ass)! Start by getting comfortable and getting into position. Once you start to grind into him, pull out your favorite vibe. With an egg or bullet vibe, take turns stimulating your clitoris, his balls, and the base of his shaft as you move with him. Make sure to spend just enough time on each spot so you drive him wild before moving on to tickle the next sensitive spot. With a wand vibe, you have more space to play, so try to stimulate him and you at the same time. Hold the wand vibe so that you rub against it as you ride him and the tip of the vibe gently buzzes against his package.