101 Things to Do With a Vibrator (4 page)

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Battery-Powered Pregame

Vibrations feel good all over, so why relegate your vibe to only the obvious places? Incorporate your little vibrators into your foreplay routine. Use the vibe on your partner as you touch, stroke, and caress each other to get revved up. If your toy is small enough, you can palm it and use it to supercharge your strokes. Roll your vibe over your skin, paying special attention to your favorite sensitive spots, like nipples or inner thighs. Alternate the strength and speed of the vibration depending on what feels best: a stronger buzz will work great on areas with thicker skin, like on your ass or thighs, while a lighter touch will do the trick for thin-skinned places like your nipples. Hand the vibe to your partner to let him take you for a ride, or put on a show and teach him how you like it!

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Jacked Up

Vibrators are for pussies, right? Not so: some penises also can benefit from the buzz! Next time he’s jacking it, he can jack it up by adding a little vibration, either solo or with an extra hand. Start with the vibrator set on low speed, and experiment with different sensations all around his penis. Try palming the vibe or holding the cord between your fingers so you can give him a buzz while you stroke him. If your vibe is nice and cylindrical, try rolling it gently against his shaft, moving from his balls all the way to the head of his penis. Check in with your partner as you go to see what he likes best! Once your explorations have him moaning, you can make him yours with this hot finishing move: grab his dick with one hand, while you hold the vibrating bullet in your other. As you stroke him off, drag the vibe down along the base of his penis, using it to stimulate his penis, balls, and anywhere else he wants as you finish off his favorite kind of high five.

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Buzzworthy Oral

Electrify your oral technique with a little vibe. As you start to go down on your partner, run the vibrator along all of his erogenous zones. Play lightly along his nipples, down his chest, and along the inside of his hips. Take him in your mouth, and bring the vibrator—whether a standard issue or a small egg—and rest it against your cheek as you perform your sultry oral. The light vibrations to go with your tongue and lips will expose him to a whole new side of oral bliss. If you want to get even naughtier, try one of two things: While you go down on him, start using the vibrator on yourself. Let him know how good you’re both feeling, and even let him in on the action. If you like it best when you’re in total control, take the vibrator to new places. As you tongue him down, bring the vibrator lightly against his scrotum. Let it linger, and then bring it back to his perineum. The vibrating sensations in this [nearly] naughtiest of locations will have him going wild.

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Back Door Buzzer

The bullet vibe is a great toy for adding some back door buzz to your fun! We all have plenty of sensitive nerve endings in our butts, and you don’t need penetration to play. When you’re getting down and dirty, slide the egg vibe between your cheeks and rest it right on your asshole. Rev up the vibrations and you’re in for a ride! For best results, combine with other fun stimulation, with your hands, with another toy, or with a friend! Try this during foreplay or while you are going down on your partner. Have your partner start by using the little vibe to gently massage your butt cheeks. As you start to relax, have your partner slowly make his way to your asshole, keeping the vibrations low. Have him keep drawing circles around your asshole as your play, and as you get into it, don’t be afraid to lean into the toy so the buzz hits the right spot! Once your partner finishes you off, it’s time to switch places and try it again!

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Two to Tango

I always say it takes two to tango, and a little toy can help keep you both grooving while you’re orally pleasing your mate. Watching you writhe with pleasure will drive your partner crazy—and keep you occupied, too! Have your partner control the remote while you hold the vibe in place, and then use your other hand and your mouth to stimulate him. You can try it semi-69 style, and arrange your body so he can hold the vibe and play with you while you give him a blowjob. It’s hotter doing it together—who likes to wait their turn?

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Inner Peace

People tend to think little vibes like the egg or bullet vibrator are for external pleasure only, but like I said, these little vibrators are seriously versatile, and you can create some amazing sensations if you think outside (or, rather, inside?) the box! Just lube up your bullet and slide it into your vagina—don’t forget to turn it on first, unless it has a remote! The smaller vibrator works great for internal stimulation, and unlike other larger vibes, you are free to move into different positions without worrying about your vibrator falling out or getting in the way! While your toy is buzzing away, you or your partner can stimulate your clitoris, delivering a double dose of pleasure!

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Triple-A Oral

Supercharge your orgasm by combining two of a girl’s favorite things: vibration and oral! Start by using the vibe for foreplay: take turns with your partner holding the vibe, and work your way from your clitoris to your vagina. When you are warmed up, help your partner to slowly slide the little vibe into your vagina. You can use a little lube if you’d like, but your partner may prefer you choose something flavored. While your partner goes down on you, grab your remote control, and adjust the speed and intensity as he moves around. While his mouth is busy, he can use his hands to play with the bullet vibe: have him gently push the toy toward the front wall of your vagina to stimulate your g-spot, or tug on the wire or string to move the vibe back and forth. You might find it feels best just to leave the toy where it is, and let him concentrate on his oral technique!

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Stringing Along

Try this fun technique for manual play with the bullet vibe, either solo or with your partner. The trick is to move your vibe using only the attached wire or strap, instead of holding the toy in your hand. This gives you less control over the buzzing vibe, making the sensations more unexpected and stimulating! Start with the vibrator on low, and rest the bullet right outside your vagina. Hold the cord a few inches from the bullet, and tug gently, so that the bullet bobs slightly against you. Drag the toy up toward your clitoris, then drag it up and over, and bring it back down to rest below your clit. Try to find a rhythm and keep it up for a bit, and turn the vibrator intensity up as you get more turned on. Let the cord go slack and have gravity roll the bullet down: try this in a few different positions to get the full effect! Change it up by lifting the bullet up and dangling it by the cord. Move the vibe up and down, tapping and buzzing specific parts of your pussy. If you are playing with your partner, take turns holding the remote and changing the speed: your partner can help supercharge your fun by turning up the intensity as you graze your most sensitive spots!

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Buzz to Music

Grooving while you’re getting down can be fun solo or with a partner! Just pick a track and turn up the volume. Use your hand to hold your bullet vibe in place and use the remote to choreograph your sensations. For fast-paced songs with a heavy beat, pulse your vibe in time to the bass. Resist the urge to speed up as you get yourself turned on! For a slower groove, use a sublet touch: instead of pulsing off and on, spin the controls to adjust the intensity as the music swells. Make the toy rumble on low to match the notes, then crank it on up when they’re belting out the high notes. It’ll be over long before the fat lady sings . . .

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Eggcellent Rubdown

Bullet vibes are great for targeted fun, but for a solo sesh with a wider appeal, you may want to try a vibe a bit more on the “egg” side, as opposed to the smaller bullet models. A slightly bigger toy gives you less pinpoint precision, and more all-over vibration, which is just what you need for a leisurely romp with your favorite date, yourself! But don’t just dive in; give yourself a nice long rubdown. Start by rolling the egg over your legs, moving toward the inside of your thighs. Move your way closer to your clitoris, and roll the egg in circles around your vulva. When you move in on your clitoris, use the oblong shape of the vibe to move the toy in interesting ways: roll it over your clit, and move it in more little circles to concentrate the buzz right where you want it.

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Bullet in the Butt

Bullet vibes have so many different uses, and they are a fantastic way to add new sensations to your sexcapades! Many toy enthusiasts also use bullet vibe for anal play, and there are some bullet vibes made specifically for this purpose! It’s always best to only put toys meant for anal play in your back door, but if you want to try your little bullet out, you will be better off if you only use bullets with a cord or strap to pull it out, and if you put the vibe in a condom, it helps for quick and easy clean up and toy retrieval at the end of your tryst! Check out page [XXX] for more butt play safety tips. If you are trying this on “her,” try combining it with some mind-blowing oral: the intense stimulation of oral combined with a soft buzzing in the butt can result in some really fantastic orgasms! You can also try vaginal sex while she has the vibe in her butt: this is a great low-pressure way to try out some double-penetration action! A girl-on-top position will probably be most comfortable, or even doggy style, if he wants a good view of her backside.

And don’t leave him out: some men say that an inserted bullet vibe is just the thing to hit your prostate—and it pairs quite well with a blow job, or some good old fashioned P-in-the-V sex. Doggy style is good here, too, or a slow and sensual missionary.