Fifty Shades of Ecstasy (10 page)

She can continue to alter the sensations by leaning her closed legs to one side or another.

This position gives him creative control over the pace and rhythm of the encounter, while she gets to lie back and feel him work.

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A good girl should always keep her legs crossed. This position lets her be a good girl while she does bad girl things!

She lies down on the bed, with him on his knees directly in front of her. She should cross her legs so that her right foot rests on his right shoulder, and her left foot rests on his left shoulder. He can hold on to either her ankles or knees to keep her in place. She can cross her legs by her shins, or for a tighter fit, cross above the knee. Changing where her legs are crossed throughout this lusty session will keep things interesting. This is a great angle for both partners to watch each other work as things get steamy.

Though he is in the most control in this position, she doesn’t have to just lay back and hang out. She can squeeze her PC muscles to help make a pulsing, tighter sensation around his shaft, or if she wants to give him a good show, tease her own nipples and squeeze her breasts every time his motions have made an especially good impact!

“Thus if men and women act according to each other’s liking, their
love
for each other will not be lessened even in one
hundred years.
”

—
The Kama Sutra

“Ye Gods!
annihilate but space and time, And make
two lovers happy.
”

—Alexander Pope

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There are some positions that you try because you’re feeling acrobatic, some because of yoga, and others that happen because in all that rolling around, you’ve managed to get tangled into one big, sensational feeling jumble. This is one of those!

He lies down on the bed with his knees up and feet raised slightly in the air. She faces away, crouching down over his pelvis with her feet flat on the bed and her knees up. Instead of keeping both of her feet in between his legs, she should have one leg between his legs, and the other straddled over his right leg (or left, if she’s a lefty). Her hips should face the thigh she is straddling. Because his legs are perched a little bit off the bed, his upper thigh will graze her clitoris as she takes the reins of this twisty dynamic. He has free hands to fondle as he pleases, while she can use her hands to either guide herself up and down, or cup and massage his balls as she goes.

In this leggy tryst, she’s in the captain’s chair. The angle of both partners’ hips is perfect for extra deep penetration, and his tangled legs against her sensitive spots will keep her dedicated to getting him there.

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If regular 69ing has got you down (since, you know, being upside down on someone while you simultaneously perform and receive mind-blowing head is so boring), try out the naughty version!

This one requires a little bit of flexibility from her, so make sure she stretches first! She lies down on the bed, and raises her legs in the air, as parallel to her own head as possible. If she can clasp on to her ankles with straightened legs, woohoo! If not, she’s like the other 90 percent of the population without a PhD in Being Bendy, and that’s totally fine. Holding on to the back of her knees works too. He should kneel over her, so that his penis is accessible to her mouth without her having to do much of anything. With his arms on either side of her hips, or grasping her bum, he should be face to face with her sweet spot.

This is where roads diverge. This position is spectacular for giving and receiving some good old fashioned fellatio, but it also gives the opportunity for some backdoor attention. If you and your partner are comfortable, try letting your tongue explore some new places. Your front end isn’t the only place packed with nerves ready to be teased! If not, being curled up in a ball while you 69 is still pretty effing sexy. Everyone wins!

Be forward thinking and try out this role-reversal!

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Sex can be weird. Everybody has their own thing that they are into, and anal sex is one of those things that you are just into, or not. But whether you’re an old pro or more of a backdoor beginner, these tips will help you make the best of your anal experience!

Only If You Want To