Fifty Shades of Ecstasy (3 page)

“Oh YES, you’re so GOOD my Ass Queen!”

Do
give instructions to help them hit the right spot.

“Yes! Touch me there, softer!”

Don’t
give critiques.

“You really need to tighten up your tongue technique down there, guy!”

Do
check in.

“Do you like that, huh, baby?”

Don’t
zone out.

“Huh? What was that hon, I was watching the weather.”

Do
try new things.

“Guess what new toy just came in the mail!?”

Don’t
try new things before talking it over! “What, you didn’t like my new strapon?”

Do
tell him or her what you’re planning.

“I’m going to flip you over and ride you until you come!”

Don’t
talk about weekend plans.

“We need to get the car inspected this weekend, but we can do that on the way to my parents’ house . . . ”

S
TAND
AND
D
ELIVER

This move helps you make the fantasy of wild sex-standing-up a bit more doable! With a little leg up from your furniture, and a bit of upper-body strength, you’ll be on your way to vertical nirvana. Since your hands will be busy keeping you up, use the rest of your body to control the action. Small movements or adjustments—maybe a tilt of your hips?—can make a big difference in this position.

He stands by the edge of the bed. She wraps her arms around him and lifts her legs to the bed, with one foot on either side of him. He uses one arm to hold her closer to him with the other hand under her thigh to give her a bit more support. She can brace her legs against the bed to raise and lower herself against him (while he tries to stay upright!).

“Then fly betimes, for only they
conquer love
that
run away.
”

—
Thomas Carew

This position makes good use of normal bedroom scenery to get things done! Keep that in mind when you’re trying this one out: if your bedroom has a more convenient arrangement, use that to your advantage. Walls can be very helpful here: if your bed is by the wall, you can try this position in the space between the bed and the wall; she still rests her feet on the bed, but he turns to lean her back against the wall. This way he has even more support to hold her up, so they can keep going for longer—and with the extra support, you’ll both have better leverage for deeper thrusts that hit just the right spot!

Chapter Two

Doing It with Props

I
NTRODUCTION

S
ex doesn’t exist in a vacuum (although that would be awesome). Sometimes you need a leg up, and for that, you need props. But you don’t need to run out to your local Kink Mart for angled foam platforms or suspension bondage gear: everything you need to get your groove on is right at home. Knowing this, admit defeat, and just make it your mission to destroy the innocence of all of your household furniture, exercise equipment, and inanimate objects. Now every time you have company over, you and your partner can knowingly smirk about doing it on the coffee table while someone comments on how well it goes with your décor.

B
ACK
S
HOW

Sometimes the best entertainment comes straight from your own living room. For the girl who likes it on top, and the guy who likes a nice view of her ass, this hot angle will have you both cheering for an encore.

This position makes her the star of the show and has him as the avid film buff. Like a good voyeur, he sits back in his chair so he can watch his leading lady straddle him, with her facing away. By leaning forward, bringing her legs back, and stabilizing her arms on an ottoman, coffee table, or chair in front of her, she can control the speed and rhythm while he gets a five-star view of her backside. Managing your props will assist to this end—a close up ottoman will give her more leverage for the feisty and eager sessions, while one positioned farther away will elongate her torso and allow for a slower, more sensual showing.

Just because she’s on top doesn’t mean she has to do
all
of the work. This angle is perfect for him to guide her hips and thighs as she rides him, or even massage her back. For the man who gets really into his shows, it’s also a perfect angle to tug on her hair and grab her ass during all that rising action.

The reverse-cowgirl meets armchair sex; this position features amazing from-behind scenes for any showcase special.

L
AP OF
L
UXURY

Some may call it lavish comfort; others may call it complete laziness—either way, this position combines a good ol’ chair sitting with a good ol’ sexing.