Ride 'Em Cowgirl (5 page)

Side Winder. Try some gentle side-to-side motions as you thrust in, beginning when your penis is about two-thirds of the way inside.

Pleasure Cocoon. With both your bodies fully extended, wrap your arms tightly around each other. As you support your weight on your elbows, feel the ultimate physical connection two human beings can feel. Now rock your hips in perfect harmony and experience supreme bliss as you approach orgasm together.

Dr. Sadie Sez: Discover The Power Push.

Try turbo-charging your thrusting: gain extra leverage by placing your feet on the headboard, baseboard, bed frame, dresser, wall—or dashboard.

Coochie Lift. Place a small pillow under her hips to give her just enough elevation for that extraordinary angle of acceptance that brings focused pleasures all along your penis and throughout her vagina.

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Don’t Bottom Out

While your range of motion on the bottom may be limited, don’t just lie there! Thrust up to meet his eager thrusts down. Swivel your hips and feel the rush of his penis in new and exciting ways. Grip him vaginally every time he plunges inside. Brace your hands on the bed or headboard for extra thrusting power. Then reach around and gently tantalize his balls, or slip your hot little fingertip onto his puckered, unsuspecting anus—and hold on tight.

There’s only one expression that accurately captures the primal passion of orgasmically explosive, testicle-swinging, rear-entry doggystyle sex.

“Bow WOW!”

Think about it. While she’s relishing the deepest penetration, the most heavenly G-spot stimulation, and the animalistic excitement of being taken from behind—he’s reveling in the world’s most erotic visuals, stem-to-stern penis pleasure, and the primal satisfaction of sexual conquest.

And you’re just getting started.

With an array of pleasure angles for her to play, and many more lusty moves at his command, Doggystyle can ignite red-hot sexual passion like no other position.

So don’t be fooled by its bonehead name. Just find what works best for you—and be glad wagging tails never get in the way!

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Raise Your Pleasure IQ

Being on top doesn’t always make you top dog. But these moves will:

Freehand treats. Your hands and mouth are free to roam, so send ‘em exploring. Kiss and nuzzle her neck and shoulders. Toss her hair—or pull it. Caress her breasts and tease her nipples. Run your fingers down her back, then slap her butt. You’ll quickly find out what she likes, and how she likes it.

Clitoral treats. Reach around to gently fingertip her clitoris in synch with your thrusting. This position is very comfortable on your hand and wrist, so you can stimulate her all the way to orgasm—maybe even orgasm together!

Anal treats. At your fingertip, one of her hottest pleasure spots beckons. Gently massage her inner butt cheeks, inching your fingers slowly toward the sensitive center. Without slowing intercourse, touch one lubricated fingertip lightly on her anus. Is she going bonkers? Slowly send your finger inside—but only to the first knuckle—and hold it perfectly still. Is she going wild? Send your finger a little deeper, and start stroking in’n’out in harmony with your penis. Try a little wiggling, too. This double stimulation can launch her biggest orgasms! Note: Once you’ve touched her anus, those fingers cannot touch her vagina until you’ve thoroughly washed your hands with antibacterial soap and water.

G-spot treats. With her body turned a full 180 degrees “upside-down” from Missionary and Cowgirl, your penis enters her on a path to her G-spot. By varying your angle of entry slightly, you can stroke it directly (if you’re not sure, ask “Does that feel good?”). Once you’ve found the bull’s-eye, sway your hips in mini-circles (instead of in’n’out), burrowing the head of your penis into her G-spot. You could give her the most powerful G-spot orgasm ever. Learn more in chapter 10.

Pavlov’s treats. It’s the most stimulating sight on earth to see her soft butt bouncing on your thrusting hips…to feel your penis penetrating her so deeply…to hear her excited orgasmic moaning…to feel your testicles slapping to the beat—no wonder you get off so quickly. To put off orgasm a little longer, try holding still insider her while you gently fingertip her clitoris. When she’s ready to come, so are you!

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Arch, Angle And Play For Pleasure

You’ll be amazed what a few small adjustments can mean to both of you:

Arch yourself. Would you prefer his penetration deeper or shallower? To send him deepest, arch your back, lower your chest and spread your legs wider (delicious eye-candy for him!). To keep him shallower, flatten your arch till your hips are tucked down and under. Slowly adjust your arch till you find the depth that feels best, or rotate it up and down throughout your lovemaking.

Angle yourself. To find your own “WOW” angle, raise or lower your torso with your arms. Try extending and locking your elbows, or flattening your arms all the way till your chest rests on the bed. Explore various heights to find the angles you like—especially the one that lights up your G-spot.

Play with him. Hang your hair down with wild abandon, sway and gyrate your entire body to the rhythm, push back lustily on each eager thrust, gaze back and look into his eyes, reach under and caress his swaying balls, thighs and butt.

Play with yourself. Touch your breasts and clitoris, then reach back and massage and spank your own butt (or tell him to spank it). He’ll go wild!

Dr. Sadie Sez: Is Super Deep Too Deep?

Some women love deep penetration. Others don’t.

Guys: Never start with one long hard plunge all the way inside. Start slowly, gradually increasing your depth over several strokes. If you hear “ouch!” or “stop!” or see any signs of discomfort—STOP! A yelp from cervical pain is NOT a compliment to your lovemaking skills. You can injure her.

Ladies: If you feel any discomfort or pain, make him stop immediately. He can try a shallower stroke, or you can switch to a different position that’s more comfortable. A penis buffer will prevent him from thrusting too deeply. See page 198.

Reverse Missionary. Female Superior. Cowgirl. Whatever you call the position with the woman on top, the names often paint a vivid picture of an erotic bucking bronco ride.

But hold yer horses! Bucking is just one of the many sensual delights awaiting lovers in this position. The woman can glide sensually, rub deliciously, bounce lightly, swivel zestfully—it’s entirely up to her.

That’s because she’s in control. SHE chooses the angle, depth, pressure and pace, guided by the primal desire to send that penis exactly where it can do the most good.

Does the excitement of the Cowgirl position come from the control? The domination? The orgasms? Or the rhythmic view of each other’s naked bodies?

Yes, to all of the above.

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Create Your Own Orgasmic Pleasures

If coming wildly during intercourse is the Holy Grail of sex, then Cowgirl will help you star as the female Indiana Jones! So glide on top and take the reins:

Enjoy G-spot pleasures. For increasingly delicious stimulation with every stroke, angle your body to aim the head of his penis directly at your G-spot.

Experience clitoral joys. For wonderful clitoral caresses with style and ease, take him all the way inside so you can rub, grind and gyrate your clitoris into the downy mound above his pubic bone.

Shape Your Pleasure To Your Lover’s Shape

With a few simple adjustments, you can ensure a near-perfect fit, whatever type of penis he’s equipped with:

Girthier? Try slowing the pace so his wider circumference always enters you smoothly and comfortably. Use more lube.

Shorter? Tighten your PC muscles and rock or mini-pump to keep him inside you, avoiding passion-pausing “slip outs.” Use less lube.

Lengthier? You can glide him juuuust far enough inside so the joy of “hurts so good” never jolts you with just “hurts.” Use a penis buffer, or try the Cover Girl position on page 73.

Shape Your Style to His Pleasure, Too

If your lover is turned on by a take-charge woman on top, here’s how you can heighten pleasure even more:

The mount. You’re not climbing onto a mechanical bull—slink on top of him like a seductive tigress stalking her sexual prey.

The insertion. Before sliding him inside, grasp the head of his penis and glide it around your vulva, between your labia and around your clitoris. Spread the lubrication and feel the passion. (Careful…you may come!)

The motion. Start slowly, rock back and forth, gyrate in small circles, lift for sensual up’n’down stroking, and pump hard for that special oh-oh-umph! Your erotic moves and gyrations will stroke and caress his penis with thrilling new sensations.

The build-up. While he’s deep inside, wrap your thumb and forefinger snugly around the base of his penis. By holding his blood in like a penis ring, you’ll harden his erection. Then release your grip right as he explodes, and feel the orgasmic volcano.

The orgasm. As his body tenses and he nears his orgasmic point-of-no-return, match the increasing pace of his thrusting with the same speed and rhythm—and don’t stop till you get his every last contraction.

The dismount. Slowwwly lift your body up and over, being careful not to knee his glowing groin. Look him in the eye and lick your lips to express your contentment. (Be sure one of you holds the base of the condom to keep it in place, too.)

You’re In Charge. Grant Him An Upgrade!

You love when he’s generous in bed. Here’s your chance to show that sexual generosity has no limits.

Be confident. Let him feel your excitement and power rush through his entire body. Even if you act shy by day, show him what a seductress you are by night.

Show off. Treat him to the ultimate eye candy: arch your back, sway slowly and gracefully, tease his chest and face with your flowing hair, offer him an erotic full-breast view, hold your labia open so he can watch his glistening penis disappear into your aroused vagina.

Touch him. Explore his entire chest, neck, face, legs, arms, hips and butt with your soft sensual hands. Tease his nipples. Gently pull his hair. Scratch his chest. Bring your nipples to his lips. Reach around and gently play with his balls.

Touch yourself. Here’s a little secret: he’s dying to watch you masturbate. Can you think of a better time to touch your clitoris—or tease yourself with a small vibrator? (He’ll get off on the vibration, too!)

Squeeze yourself. Try gripping his penis with your vagina on each outstroke—nice and slow. It’s even more heavenly if your PC muscles are in shape—see page 18.

Shift yourself. Why wait for him to change positions? Take charge and try some of the tempting variations in this chapter you want to try!

Unmask yourself. Cast any inhibitions to the wind and share your private, intimate orgasm-face with him—and he may share his with you.

Tease him! Bring him ever-so close to orgasm—then back off—again and again, till he begs for release. Who’s top dog now?

Cowboys Only! Don’t Fall By The Waist-Side

Watching her breasts sway and her hair swirl as she takes you deep inside isn’t meant to be the couch potato’s ultimate wet dream. Tantalize her from down below, and feel her passions begin to flow.

Caress her head, hair and breasts. Run your hands up and down her fascinating body. Tease her nipples with fingertips you’ve moistened in her mouth. Kiss and suck her breasts. Tell her how hot she looks. Hold her hips and gently help her pump and gyrate. Squeeze her butt. Touch her clitoris.

Synch up with her gyrations—and stay with them, especially when she’s nearing orgasm. If she’s moving slowly, stay slow. If she starts moving faster, match the pressure and speed with her in the lead. If she’s running out of steam, try rolling directly into Missionary without losing your “connection.”

When her orgasm is tantalizingly close, keep doing what you’re doing—it’s working! Stay matched to her gyrations, with perhaps an unexpected buck or grind, and even a warm, wet fingertip to her clitoris.

Ball Player For those who savor slow ’n’ sexy erotic rocking, try some eye-popping PC muscle-pulsing, too. And with four free hands, there’s no telling where they’ll wind up.

If the two of you crave a position filled with wild thrusting and deep penetration, take your frenzied fingers and turn to the next chapter. Spooning ain’t it.

But for those times you desire slow, sensual, romantic lovemaking, then light the candles and cuddle up close. Spooning’s your ticket.

Spooning begins with the two of you lying comfortably on your sides, facing in the same direction. Like two matching spoons, he snuggles up close and nestles his entire body into his lover’s luscious curves. For her, the excitement is enhanced by the safe, secure feeling of her beloved’s intimate bear hug. For him, the thrill is sensual head-to-toe skin contact, as her soft, warm buttocks nuzzle passionately into his heat-seeking penis.

Why All The Swooning About Spooning?

Even though penetration in this position isn’t super deep, and the thrusting can’t be super fast, spooning brings out deeper feelings of love, intimacy and passion, along with a few unexpected delights:

Smooth ’n’ easy. Spooning is the perfect starter position for new lovers and newcomers.

Calm ’n’ relaxing. There’s nothing strenuous about it—it’s ideal for half-asleep morning sex.

Highly stimulating. Her clitoris is easily reachable by his fingers —or hers!

Pleasingly shallow. It’s a great choice when you need to minimize penetration depth.

Seductively graceful. It’s comfortable for pregnant women and nice for those with body-part modesty.

Exquisitely fit. You’ll enjoy new tightness if you desire more contact and friction.

Easily transferable. If passion mounts, roll right into Doggystyle—without losing your connection.

Spooning 101: Just Stir

Nature naturally takes over when you’re spooning nude. But when she raises her upper leg and arches her lower back to extend her butt toward him, his penis can slip inside her vagina much more easily. He can then slide his body down on hers for an even more comfortable fit, creating the most pleasurable angle before the slow, gentle, excited rocking gets into full swing.