God on Sex: The Creator's Ideas About Love, Intimacy, and Marriage (34 page)

9. Snaith, 103.

10. Garrett, 422.

11. “Keeping the Romance Alive,”
Style
(January-February 2000).

12. Carr (162–63) points out that breath could be a reference, in the Hebrew text, to the nipples of her breasts.

13. Terri Lackey, “Counselor Offers Help to Couples for Reclaiming Marriage Intimacy,” Baptist Press, 1 November 2000.

14. Garrett, 423–24.

15. “Keeping the Romance Alive.”

16. Patterson,
Song of Solomon,
110.

CHAPTER 12

1. Sue Ellin Browder, “New Rules for a Happy Marriage,”
Readers Digest
(November 1999), 100–04.

2. Ginny Graves, “7 Solutions for Sexual Problems,”
Readers' Digest
(August 1999), 102–06.

3. Carr,
The Song of Solomon,
165.

4. David Derbyshire, “A Little Loving Makes the Heart Last Longer,”
Sex and Health,
29 November 2000.
The Telegraph,
#2014.

5. Karen S. Peterson, “Take Time to Nurture a Marriage,”
USA Today,
5 July 2000.

6. Garrett,
Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Song of Solomon,
424.

7. Ronald Kotulak, “Lonely Hearts Often Have Sick Hearts,”
Chicago Tribune,
8 August 2000.

8. Glickman,
A Song for Lovers,
90.

9. Carr, 167.

10. Ibid.

11. Garrett, 425.

12. Michelle Weiner-Davis, “When He's Not in the Mood,”
Parade Magazine,
19 March 2000.

13. Quoted in
Washington Post
Online Edition, 12 November 1999.

14. Adapted from Marie Pierson, “Nourishing Your Love,”
Virtue
(date unknown).

15. Quoted from Robert Michael, John Gagnon, Edward Laumann, and Gina Kolata,
Sex in America: A Definitive Study
(New York: Little Brown and Co., 1994).

CHAPTER 13

1. Frederica Matthews-Green, “Men Behaving Justly,”
Christianity Today,
17 November 1997, 45.

2. Glickman,
A Song for Lovers,
96.

3. Garrett,
Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, Song of Solomon,
426.

4. Karen S. Petersen, “Quick Lessons for a Long Marriage,”
USA Today,
3 July 2000.

5. Ibid.

6. Barbara DeAngelis, “Are You Too Tired for Sex?,”
Family Circle,
16 October 1990, 32–37.

7. Adapted from John Gottman and Nan Silver,
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
(New York: Crown, 1999).

8. Carr,
The Song of Solomon,
170.

9. Garrett, 426.

10. Ibid.

11. Patterson,
Song of Solomon,
117.

12. “Deconstructing the Myths of Marriage,”
The London Times,
2 December 1999.

13. Carr, 171.

14. Jason Millstein, “A Vow of Hard Work,”
The Spokesman Review,
6 March 2000.

15. David Sanford, “Learning to Love Means Staying When You Want to Leave,”
Marriage Support
on-line newsletter #681,
Couples Place
Web site. Accessed 28 December 1999.

16. Glickman, 101.

17. Laura Schlessinger, “Modern Women Get No Respect,”
The Washington Times.
National Weekly Edition, 23–29 August 1999, 27.

18. Quoted in
World Magazine,
20 May 1999, 12.

19. “The Truth About In-laws, Reasons for Marrying and Sex, Fidelity and Children.”
Town and Country Magazine,
21 January 1999.

20. From an article by Howard Hendricks, “Yardsticks for Love.”

OUR MARRIAGE COVENANT

1. John McNally, “Darling, Will You Spend the Next Six to Ten Years with Me?”
The Onion
Web Site. Accessed 27 December 2000.

2. Eve Tushnet, “New on Fox: I Want a Divorce,”
National Catholic Register,
19 November 2000.