Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child (38 page)

troubled, effects on children of,
139
–46

Riera, Michael,
210

Rogers, Mister,
113

sadness,
53
,
61
,
63
,
66
,
78
,
124

boys and,
59
,
60

of children, parent’s reaction to,
21
,
22
,
23
,
24
,
25
,
49
,
52
,
54
–55,
62
,
93

self-test for,
85
–87,
88

scaffolding,
112
–13

school performance,
25
,
26
,
29
,
30
,
111
,
143
,
144
,
172

Schor, Juliet,
29
–30

Schwartz, Pepper,
181

self-esteem,
52
,
60
,
80
,
104

self-motivation,
20

self-regulation skills,
33
,
38
–41,
63
,
65

self-soothing response,
41
,
63
,
67
,
73

separation anxiety,
194
–95

Sesame Street
(TV show),
113

sibling rivalry,
129
–30

Siblings Without Rivalry
(Faber and Mazlish),
35
,
119

Snow White
,
202

social cues,
20
,
32
,
40
,
63
,
143

social referencing,
191
–92

society, changes in,
27
–30

soother,
20
,
21
,
41
,
73

spanking,
22
,
60
,
80
,
103
–4,
125

Star Trek
(TV show),
206
,
209

stepfathers,
161

“Still Face Game,”
187

stonewalling,
151
–52

“stranger anxiety,”
191
,
193

stress,
27
,
29
,
31
,
36
,
38
–39,
67
,
79
,
111
,
182

jobs and,
182

“super-parents,”
54
,
79

teaching opportunities, recognizing emotions as,
24
,
52
,
75
,
93
–94

temperament,
40

Terman, Lewis,
144
–45

Time
,
53

time-outs,
103
,
125

time pressures,
128
–29

toddlerhood,
195
–98

tone, vagal,
38
–39,
40
,
143

Tronick, Edward,
187

unsolicited advice,
119
–20

vagal tone,
38
–39,
40
,
143

vagus nerve,
38

validation of feelings,
24
,
50
,
70
,
75
,
94
–99,
115

values,
107
–8,
113
,
120

violence,
25
,
103

against children,
28

by children,
28
,
104
,
159
,
172

Virginia, University of,
141

Washington, University of,
20
,
188

West Virginia, University of,
158

Whitehead, Barbara Dafoe,
143

Why Marriages Succeed or Fail
(Gottman),
155

Wizard of Oz, The
(film),
37

women:

fathers as child caregivers encouraged by,
176
–77,
178

working,
167
–68

yellow zone of behavior,
102

Yogman, Michael,
170

Zill, Nicholas,
143
–44,
161

zones of behavior,
102
–3

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